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I agree with hzink. Fat is, as fat is. Stop eating, get some exercise. There are loads of middle aged fat women in my neighborhood torturing their husbands. And they wonder why their husbands (who are taking the time to stay in shape and watch their diet) are looking elsewhere. I've heard this "fat is beautiful" argument too many times from fat, angry American woman. It is bullsh_t. Take a look at any movie from the early 1960's, prior to the rise of the fast food industry. You will be surprised how "skinny" everyone is.
- Balls
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:45 pm on Dec. 27, 2003
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nokna
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i wish I was 'fat'.
have had a blood disorder for almost 3 years and my weight has dropped to just under 8 stone......
would like a bit more meat on my bones as all my clothes are hanging on me.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 4:20 pm on Dec. 27, 2003
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Ballsburstin
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nokna,
Sorry to hear that bro! But look on the bright side, you're not nearly as ugly as that Ugly Barstard in those photos I sent you, hehehe! Besides you have a fat (jai dee) heart!
- Balls
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:40 pm on Dec. 27, 2003
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Minder
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My girlfriend got dumped on Christmas day. According to the no-good SOB, it was because she was fat.... I would prefer that the rejection be based...on perhaps a character flaw or a personality defect.
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Surely being overweight is a personality defect? Forget the excuses. Age, "big bones", metabolism changes etc. If you are overweight aka "fat" then it is because you lack the willpower, self-discipline and/or respect for your health and body to do enough about it. In other words we are all as overweight as we choose to be and the consequences of our choice - health problems, lack of energy, loss of appeal to the opposite sex etc - are the price we pay for REFUSING to do something about OUR problem.
If he had dumped her because she was a chain smoker and would not quit/cut-down it would be about the same issues. The same personality defects.
Yeah, it sucks and doing it on Xmas day is a real nice touch but at least it is something she can do something about. Want to get even? Tell her to get to the gym, turn into a babe and then thank the guy for turning her life around whilst showing her clevage and NEVER letting him near her again.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 6:22 pm on Dec. 27, 2003
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nokna
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Hi Balls.
no one on this Forum could be as ugly as the Guy in those photos.......
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 6:51 pm on Dec. 27, 2003
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Ballsburstin
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Nokna,
LOL! Had to have my camera fixed after those photos were taken -- that ugly mug  cracked the lens.
- Balls
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:48 pm on Dec. 27, 2003
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Quote: from deby on 4:12 am on Dec. 26, 2003
My girlfriend got dumped on Christmas day. According to the no-good SOB, it was because she was fat..... If I'm going to be rejected by the "perfect" male species, I would prefer that the rejection be based not on my bodily fluids, mass, 'knobbly knees' or a Thread, but on perhaps a character flaw or a personality defect.
Ms Deby
You would prefer a character flaw to being overweight ?
Perhaps few men prefer the larger woman, but fewer still are willing to overlook an unappealing personality.
Why is it that appearance, particularily weight, is always bartered for 'personality' ? Are they mutually exclusive?
RO
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:52 pm on Dec. 27, 2003
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S05
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Blood disorder nokna ? its not the A..... word is it ?
Get a good feed of steak into you mate, acouple of times a week.
S05..
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:26 pm on Dec. 27, 2003
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Vegas
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My girlfriend got dumped on Christmas day. According to the no-good SOB, it was because she was fat. What crap is that? Is fatness an environmental problem? It is a vicious world that concave bellies and taut thighs rank high in a man's world. If I'm going to be rejected by the "perfect" male species, I would prefer that the rejection be based not on my bodily fluids, mass, 'knobbly knees' or a Thread, but on perhaps a character flaw or a personality defect.
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I personally prefer thin women ("concave bellies and taut thighs"are a definite plus). But I have found a way to avoid the predicament that you described. I NEVER date a fat woman. That way I will never have to hurt her by dumping her because of her weight. But I would never dump a woman for having knobby knees, (or small breasts, for that matter), or for being too tall or too short.
If I meet a big girl with a wonderful personality that I have a lot in common with, we can be good friends; but no romance and no sex. None of these women want to be friends, though. they demand to be loved totally even if the guy is not attracted to them. but that is a subject for another thread.
Your friends' boyfriend IS an ass for dumping her on Christmas Day. He is the one with the character flaw....why did he ever date her in the first place. Was he so desperate at the time that he lowered his standards to get some companionship or sex. (I'VE GOT HAAGEN DAS!) He should have left her for the guys that like some excess weight on their ladies.
I feel that everyone is entitled to have their physical preferences in a mate. You described yours, and that is what you should find, even if it means missing out on the best experience of your life (I'm short). But in return, I expect everyone to respect my preference for women with a low BMI. Why do so many women get angry when men have a stated preference?
Also, I don't even try to figure out why so many women are overweight. I consider it to be a warning sign. If they were to lose the weight long enough to attract a poor sucker like me, they would surely pack it back on as soon as that ring slid onto their temporarily thin finger. I'll just stick with the gals who are naturally thin, and hope for the best.
And so you don't think that I'm too much of a jerk, Deb, I would never tell a fat woman the reason that I'm not interested. It's bad karma to hurt another's feelings.
Hey, Deby! You wanna be friends?
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 5:53 pm on Dec. 28, 2003
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Repeat Offender
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This business of fat versus personality is tiresome. If a man does not like fat women, then that is simply his choice, and he need not justify it.
To use a woman simply to save the cost of a visit to the brothel is of course reprehensible, whether she is fat, thin or has knobbly knees.
I agree with Mr Vegas - If you don't like fat women, do not date them. This may not actually lessen the prejudice, but it does avoid the conflict of interests that may emerge. Losing weight is another practical but less 'understanding' solution.
To imply that men are simple-minded creatures who are 'easily pleased' by a big pair of tits, and then to state that is all about 'peace and understanding' is at least patronising if not contradictory. So politically-correct, that even the word 'ugly' should be expunged from the dictionary.
The reference to 'concave bellies and taught thighs', shows that Ms Deby knows perhaps what men like, (or are presumed to like) and her lack of defence implies that her dumped friend does not have these features. Too bad. Some people are born stupid or unimaginitive, and these undesirable characteristics last beyond their sexually active years.
Fatness is also cultural. After being fed on diet of 'Baywatch', it is a real surprise to see how many grossly fat people there are in the US, and laterly, Australia. Here in the Netherlands, overweight people are a certainly a minority.
Until it can be shown that there is some correlation between weight and a 'good' personality, then the distribution of these traits should assumed random, and to be found equally amongst the fat or the thin.
It is the unjustified assumption that fat women have better personalities, and are always dumped because of their appearance alone, that really irritates me. It is nonsense, and adding layers of karma on top of it does not help.
So, please, a little less whining about such issues, especially on a site primarily devoted to satisfying those base instincts that some women find so offensive.
RO
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:02 pm on Dec. 28, 2003
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