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I have it bad too but im just bringing my tgf over here to live with me that way i'll always have a little piece of thailand here with me I can cuddle up to and slip into at night.. and still head back once or twice a year. As far as respect and empowerment . Im use to not getting any here so I can live with it and anyways my tgf will give me it when shes here.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:35 pm on June 27, 2003
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sbxabyss
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wow that's deep... importing a girl over here not quite to that point yet but who knows what the future may bring. Give me a few more years to partake in LOS's pleasures. I do find myself visiting thai restaraunts and seeking out thai women more frequently. Prior to that first trip i really wasnt into asian women and i'm half thai - tables dun turned!
I've been somewhat fortunate since i've been back...met a girl who is thai / black (born in the US though), bi and in the porn game. i was supposed to get a menage' a trois for my bday but she couldnt get a hold of her friend in time but she's still working on other prosepects...still its not quite the same though.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 3:47 pm on June 27, 2003
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bound4bangkok
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hello all
I don't think bring one of them over here to this side of the planet is a good idea for me. I just leave them all over on the other side till I can get back again. I have already been involved in a E mail relationship with one of the TG I met on my last trip and its becomeing work LOL My fault for not leaveing everything there where it belongs
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:12 am on June 28, 2003
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Thai Traveler
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Damn, I know what the LOS Blues feel like and after reading this I'm sitting here with tears in my eyes - half from laughing about some of the comments, half from sadness because it's all sooo true.
I'd be lying if I said I didn't miss a few TG's (made a few special friends), but that's not why I have the blues. Last trip I had almost 3 months in LOS and it is the whole package I miss.. the fun nights out, making great friends (Bro's from here I met and a few TG's), taveling around LOS, from the south up to Chiang Mai, the food and the relaxed lifestyle, etc...etc.
I realize that a lot of it is fantasy, but having been in LOS more than a few times now and having a couple of close (thai) friends, there is also a certain amount of reality I miss. For me the whole lifestyle in LOS is just so refreshing from the "routine" back home and the fact that some things we just accept as normal back home aren't normal in LOS (Not talking about the P4P sceene here either).
I can't wait to get back and since my current contract is just about up, I hopefully be on that freedom bird in the next 6 weeks or so..
Counting down again.. 
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 10:47 pm on June 28, 2003
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aeroman
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I was missing the place as soon as I hit the Airport, knowing that I was leaving and not knowing when I would be back.  I had a great time hanging with the Bro's from this forum, and the women are indescribable! Now I'm considering going back around the time of Loy Krathong. Any opinions on whether that is a good time to go? 
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 4:04 pm on June 29, 2003
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sbxabyss
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Everyday that i wake up and i'm not in thailand, i find myself going through various stages of withdrawal. The thought of being able to f*** a hot cutie at any given whim or moment is almost surreal for me. It's not for a lack of opportunity here but something about thailand transcends just going to a bar here and meeting a girl, getting her number and then f***ing her.
I've spent many a night contemplating making a move a there but i have no idea what I would do there to earn a living and not fully sure if i could adjust to the difference in salary. I have no degrees. From what i hear the thais deem this important nor am i some sort of computer whiz (hell i've never owned a computer) but fortunately for my line of work - film - a degree was not necessary.
I often wonder would i enjoy thailand as much if i lived there year round? i'd like to think 'yes". the only thing right now keeping me in la la land is that is there is the slim possibilty that the indie feature that i'm producing may come to fruition in the coming months; besides, the fact that i'm unemployed (got laid off after the 1st trip), exhausted all my finances with two trips to thailand, 1 to nyc, and subsisting on unemployment.
There is a strong part of me that feels i could walk away from the trappings & niceties of the western world...the very things we we work so hard for (benz, house, vacation home, pool and whatever else we deem important). Am i willing to struggle in a foreign country? would i be so attractive to those TG's (all inclusive) if i wasn't a "walking ATM"? I guess on some level, i'm fortuante since i was born there but grew up in America. I do still have family over there but they are extremely poor isaan rice farmers; however my mother does own several houses there. now would i want to spend my days living in udon...um, i dont now. yes I have a married uncle in bangkok but when i was employed i'd drink his monthly salary up in a weekend of barhopping, clubbing & dining out. he'd be able to help navigate the waters of bangkok but i need a means to earn money. I've starting to look into the thai film / tv industry but my guess is thats a longshot.
I guess i've posed more questions than answers but of lately posting on in this sight has been my only remedy for the post partum blues since i won't be able to make it there til Feb.
If i've bored any one to death with my protracted prosaic posting pls. disregard the ramblins of a mad man truly smitten with LOS. This site has been my cathartis . I'm glad to see that i am not the only one who's been tormented by LOS but in a good way.
If there is anyone out there who is a torn as I am and serioulsy contemplating making this move, pls. feel free to email.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:27 pm on June 29, 2003
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bound4bangkok
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Hello all
SBXABYSS: The only thing that holds me back from moving to Thailand is income. I can relate to your story as far as the desire to be there and all that. This income problem I guess could be resolved with the right motavation but Its a hard thing to overcome when it comes right down to actually doing it. Could I become a English teacher I don't know. I do beleive 1 thing When that time comes and you reflect on your past life Is it the things you did or didn't do you regret the most?? I always dwell on the ones I didn't do. the what ifs are the hardest to swallow. I wish you the best and may you have the courage to Do what makes you happy
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:45 pm on July 1, 2003
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sbxabyss
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bound4bangkok,
Thanks. I appreciate your well wishings and postings. Initially, I was on the two year (or less) plan but after further contemplation, introspection, and the ATM continuing to spit out statements with a numerous zeroes and no whole numbers in preceeding the decimal point... LOL
Perhaps when I'm forty. Guess, it gives me about 7 years to stack chips and make the best of my endeavors here: gotta find me an old rich chick dying for some cock. Maybe i should have paid more attention in those econ classes in college instead of reaching for that beer or looking up that girl's skirt...
Anyways, I'm trying to be optimistic, I guess now I have something to look forward to. A brother can dream, right??? Damn, all those drunken nights clubbing in the US throwing caution to the wind spending $$$ as if it were my last night on earth.
I understand your trepidation about just up and leaving as well the disparity in income. Somehow, i guess i've been fortunate. Anything that i've ever wanted to do, I just got up and did it without worrying about the ramifications or what other people thought. By the grace of God or Lord Buddha, these things have manifested itself. Whether it was moving from one side of the country to the other and then back without having any real contacts or relationships, being an old man of 27 trying to intern at film companies while the rest of the interns were still in their late teens. So far i've been fairly successful having run a film festival in nyc for 3 years & been a head of acquisitions and post production for a distribuiton co. Now i'm just facing a little bump in the road - unemployment. i've decided that i wont take another gig unless it involves producing films; hence no current income but these things are only temporary. I figure at this point in life, we should do what we love or implement a plan so that we can ultimatley do what we love. Like you said (although not ver batim - ok hey i'm taking some creative license with your words) not too many second chances. i dont want to live a life filled with regret. So far mine is just being so cavalier and carefree with money when i did have it! That's what happens when your 33 going on 17. Live and learn. I will move at there at some point but hopefully this time with a plan.
Who knows, I'm a capricious MF. Maybe when the next windfall of money comes through, I might be like f*** it, I'm out... (no more) american woman, get away from me
Things haven't always been easy because of my hasty decisions. I've had to make sacrficies like eating (LOL) but at least if I miss a meal or two, I'm only hurting me. i dont have a wife or kids and america isn't going nowhere. Worst case scenario:
1) be a rice famer in issan with my aunt and uncles...damn leeches in the rice paddy...ouch...hey, watch out for that snake!
2) i'll always maintain enough frequent flyer mileage to get home
I know this may sound cheesey but i heard a successful tv actress yesterday say that the way she got to being where she is today is by not having a "plan b". She got fired from her menial job and never looked back. She said i'm gong to be an actor and just did it...hey, i'll take inspiration wherever the hell i can get it.
Damn, man i dont know if i make any sense anymore just living day by day til i can get back to LOS. This addiction has got me foaming at the pen (keyboard) like a syphilitic invalid. Please pass me the panacea along with that som tam!!!
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:50 pm on July 1, 2003
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nokna
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i've definately got the blues again.
for the ast 5 days i have been thiking of returning to LOS in Sept and checking up on flights/hotels trying to get the best prices.
due to an e-mail 9 hours ago,looks like i will not be able to go.
f***,f***,f***.f***.
i will say sorry to the folks i had agreed in principle to meet for a beer,but then again things might change.
i hope so.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 11:41 pm on July 1, 2003
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sbxabyss
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nokna,
I check daily (haven't today though) for flights in Jan/Feb. on Northwest Airlines from LA to LOS. There are flights for $646 RT Los Angeles. I don't know what your budget is & where you are flying from but perhaps they have something to accomodate you.
Damn, dawgs. I hope your luck changes and your able to make in sept!
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:33 am on July 2, 2003
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