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hey long cock <So f_cking what? Does that count for extra points around here?>
only if your cute, or bring a cutey with you.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:21 am on Jan. 11, 2004
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Smegma
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Quote: from Yurune on 6:20 am on Jan. 11, 2004
Why do I support her?
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(and bla bla bla.... I think there is no need to quote the whole post)
She deserves some respect for that.
f_ck...some blokes haven't even had the gumption to present themselves and enjoy a night out.
Agreed.
I agree with she deserving some respect (as you say) for that.
I agree that for that she is better than many -but this is a non-issue as I do not think anyone is saying that deby is the worst member of the forum.
However, despite agreeing with you on the above... one thing is supporting her here on things you think she may be unfairly attacked. However those reasons you mention above for her deserving some respetc have nothing to do with the other things which in my opinion she does (or has done) in a manner that is not consistent with those of a top-quality forum poster (yes, I know, who the f am I to judge -but helas.... I do have opinions).
Just because we are friends... it doesn't mean we have to agree on everything. I know of better friends of yours than Deby, who you do not defend so fiercely when they are attacked -I may be wrong about the degress of friendship, but I would be willing to take a bet if forced on me -knowing as I know some guys who you will call friends before Deby.
Anyway, just because we are friends does it mean you will stand behind all my mistakes? Wouldn't a real friend instead of supporting my wrongs blindly, try to give me good honest feedback?
Sorry Yurune. But I consider you a friend and I disagree with you on this, I do not disagree about you defending Deby on what you my think are wrong accusations thrown at her. But I disagree with you defending her no matter what it is she says or does, and you taking the other approach, which is to try discredit any post or comment that is critical of her.
I addressed Deby at first in a decent manner (by Smegma posting standards) and asked some normal questions. The way she kept replying were not conducive to me giving her the respect she may deserve as a poster -which is the only way I know her.
Again, just because I have met some guys in person and find then to be good afable people, it doesn't mean I will defend them when attacked -if they are responsible with their actions in the forum for them bringing those attacks on themselves.
BTW, Yurune, in my case, I hope that when you side with me in the forum, it is because you really think what you post; and not just because we are friends -well, I think/hope we are -or maybe we are not..... as you seem not to agree with me on Deby, and you saying you suport to her is because she is a friend... hmmmm... (me thinking now)... you did not support me when I confronted Deby with some issues.... ok ok it must be we are not friends. : (
Well, I guess it all has a good explanation: como dicen en mi tierra: "pelo de cuca jala mas que yunta de bueyes" -lousy translation: as they say in my town: "a pussy's hair has more pull than an oxen's joke"
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 11:50 am on Jan. 11, 2004
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ukguy84
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Smegma
"Again, just because I have met some guys in person and find then to be good affable people, it doesn't mean I will defend them when attacked -if they are responsible with their actions in the forum for them bringing those attacks on themselves"
I think I know at least 1 of the people who you were thinking about when writing this! 
Now as you chaps know, I can be a right arsehole when I want to be, but occasionly I can try to speak a little bit of common sence, so I will try do to that now!
Since the arrival of Deby I have watched the threads she has partaken in from the sidelines. It has been interesting to watch some members become different when joining in those threads. I will not name anyone so I am not proportioning blame.
If you are able to stand back and look objectively I am sure you will realise you have made mistakes in the rolls you have taken in Deby’s company.
The, is it a man is it a girl argument was pathetic, as is the attack on her for posting in the first place!
Why is it that a bunch of guys brought together because of their love of women can be split down the middle because of the stance that one woman has taken in there club.
I don’t chat to Deby, I have never met her, but I feel I know her or at least the kind of person she is.
She is enjoying coming into a mans world, she is enjoying the attention she is getting from so many BKK tonite members. She is in some ways doing what I am doing, having a good time, I do it by acting like a prick, by attacking in the main, other pricks (you know who you are)
But she gets her fun by using her strengths, the main one being she is a woman!
She has come into an enviroment knowing that the people in here are here for thier enjoyment of women.
So she has been playing the game she set the rules to, and she has done it quite skillfully, lets face it a lot of members have started playing the game with her.
Some men are a litle immature when they come across a strong women, some just roll over and believe everything they are told, that’s not a criticism, its just how we are as men!
The fact that some friends in here are split over their opinion of Deby will be music to her ears; it will be like having an orgasm for her!
I am not being critical of Deby, she is here for fun, just like the rest of us, it’s just that she is playing a different game than men are used to, she is a woman.
I will not be calling for her or any other member to be banned (unlike some) I hope that this attempt at being sensible helps at least 1 person understand, its a game, and you have been the ball!
Well Its back to being an arsehole for me! I’m off to find me some Nadians! fcukers!
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:35 pm on Jan. 11, 2004
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Repeat Offender
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When members argue over Deby, they are doing her bidding. In the past, other members have found themselves to be the focus of attention, but Deby is a special case, in that being the focus is her only aim.
I wonder why she posts. She obviously does not read other threads, nor is she curious about p4p, Thai culture, or anything else other than herself.
I think that her posts are offensive nonsense. This is a forum of adult men, not some teenage fanzine.
If a member wants to support her, that is his choice. If this causes him to lose some respect in the eyes of other members, then I presume that he is capable of making his own decisions in this regard.
Errr.. cheers.
RO
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 7:30 pm on Jan. 11, 2004
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Yurune
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Smegma
I agree with your post....I have not defended Deby for anything she has said, to be honest I don't read a lot from many posters...I read your post, I did not read the two subsequent replies (for example). I do defend her from some of the stupid abuse thrown at her, she's a guy, she is a fraud etc.
False accusations about her gender, her race, her location, her visit to BKK, cannot be defended by herself, as nobody believes her.
They can be defended by people who know the truth.
What she says and how she says it are for her to defend....she does well enough from what I've seen, but some people are just dead against anything she says because....well...they can say why.
There are many arguements on the board, most of the people I know certainly do not need or require defending. If someone has a go at you incorrectly and I step in and defend you...I can certainly see the look on your face when we meet for a beer in the evening..."What the **** did you say that for???"...You can fight for yourself. Thank Christ the original thread is closed....and hopefully all threads regarding Deby can be closed. She's a welcome member and can post wherever and whenever she likes. If her friend gets dumped again...I won't read it....never had more than a glance at the original post.
As for her posts being offensive...give me a break.....
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 7:46 pm on Jan. 11, 2004
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expatchuck
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I think she is fm in drag. 
So there, case closed. 
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:10 am on Jan. 12, 2004
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ringthebells
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A lass who came to BK's digs to play pool until 6am, again with one member having a TG in tow. No judgement.
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rtb.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:25 am on Jan. 12, 2004
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Smegma
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Yurune, I liked your reply.
In Deby's case, given the attention that she is given by some, I just wish that once in a while she could participate in a semi-serious (at least) exchange. A little, sometimes, once in a while.....
But... talking about her is getting boring. Anyway, I bet that either she will change a bit and stay, or else she will soon loose most of the attention she gets and leave -it may be already happening.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 4:37 am on Jan. 12, 2004
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Repeat Offender
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Yurune,
You have defended Deby, but now you say that you have not even read her posts, and support her solely on the basis of personal contact.
This forum has almost 5000 members, most of who will never meet. It also encourages personal contact through RT’s and the like, and that is a good idea, but most members’ profiles do not include a location, let alone an e-mail address. The members of this forum cover a wide range of ages, abilities and interests, so some tolerance is required. Anonymity makes this forum possible.
You defend Deby on the basis that she is a drinking partner and tolerant of TG’s. Well, praise be. I am so liberal about human sexual practices, that I don’t give a damn. I have more respect for the hard-working stall-holders along Sukhumvit, than I do for a bar-fly, tolerant of BG’s, TG’s or not.
Members who support Deby on the basis of personal contact are confusing their private lives with that of the forum. It is natural that those who know each other, or live in BKK, will use this forum as a notice board and engage in private conversations. I recognise these threads, and do not interject, but Thumbelina was an open thread, and I did not respond until this appeared.
‘Top gal’ she may be, but I know of at least one ‘top bloke’ who would go home and give his wife a beating. I judge Deby by what she posts. I say that she is interested in nothing more than self-promotion, and the fact the she meets and greets members in person could simply be another aspect of that agenda. The introduction of hidden or exclusive information into a public forum is bound to cause division.
I did not comment on Deby until Thumbelina began. Her gender does not concern me, but I can understand how some members doubted it. Her posts are internally inconsistent and not in keeping with her purported ideals. This strongly suggests that the poster is at least disingenuous, and probably a charlatan. The fact that she really is a woman does not mitigate her posts. Re-reading them in light of this information, or her drinking habits, does not change their basically vulgar nature.
She breezes into the forum with a whiff of perfume and a tawdry off-the-shelf philosophy. Well, excuse me if I object. Deby is not a child, and lays claim to a tertiary education, and therefore should be capable of defending herself with more than the equivalent of ‘you suck’, garnished with spurious quotes or not. She is the focus of attention, because she made herself the focus.
I would agree that the matter has become inflated, but perhaps after more than 100,000 posts, the forum is becoming stale, or the topics exhausted. I hope not. I have no personal involvement with any forum member, but it would be a shame if this forum became divided or degraded by a puffed-up confection like Deby.
I have no desire to offend you or any other member, but then again, I am not going to employ a focus group to edit my posts in order to increase my so-called demographic.
If Deby were genuine, then I would simply ignore her, but I believe that she has ulterior motives. Several members believe that Stargazer is Deby or an accomplice, and if this is true, then surely the case against her would be more than made.
RO
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:39 am on Jan. 12, 2004
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