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Hermanolobo
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Private Eye ?
This was also part of the story 'Private Dancer' by Stephen Leather
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:37 am on Feb. 28, 2003
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MrJoe
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Robert,
I don't have the problem now but I have had it a few times in the past. It IS a dilemma.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 8:54 am on Feb. 28, 2003
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Packripper
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;)
props to TPE. As usual, not dissin' you or your biz.
May the the boys overseas continue to have sleepness nights about their girls over here (and hopefully not in my arms) and call out to you.
Quote: from thaiprivateeye on 3:11 pm on Feb. 28, 2003
P'Rip ... think you would probably do a better "check-up" job than me !! as mentioned, when you live here, its not a big deal, you can get a buddy to check her out if you want, but if she is playing around, you know there are usually a dozen more ready and waiting !! - but yes, being stuck a thouisand miles away in the wet/cold, and wondering if P'rip & Co have been whispering sweet nothings in your Ti-Ruks ear, can be a worry !! To quote BK himself, " I like sponsered ones, - they are no hassle, and often pay their own way "
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:49 pm on Feb. 28, 2003
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dbric36
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I recently used TPE services and have only good things to say about it. Considering that he is helping you out half way around the world and is someone you can trust you can't beat it. I would say a reasonable price for someone who goes beyond what he has to do to help out.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 6:36 pm on Feb. 28, 2003
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Yurune
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If he's a mate pure and simple you tell him....I know it's difficult to get caught in the middle and he also has a responsibility to protect you in the fallout (work it so it looked like you didn't tell him)....but c'mon...how can you look after her interests more than his????
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 8:36 pm on Feb. 28, 2003
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haam sup
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Quote: from Yurune on 9:36 am on Mar. 1, 2003
If he's a mate pure and simple you tell him....I know it's difficult to get caught in the middle and he also has a responsibility to protect you in the fallout (work it so it looked like you didn't tell him)....but c'mon...how can you look after her interests more than his????
I think you have to help him understand how unrealistic his expectations are. Then maybe he'll figure out that she can be expected to do what most BGs do.
I don't know if I would confront him with your knowledge of her infidelity; rather make him see that it is normal BG stuff.
None of this precludes a REAL love and long term relationship, IF he can make the commitment to be with her, and take care of her. There needs to be a LOT more than a few nights together, too..
PolePolisher said:
"Many Thai's especially those from poorer backgrounds are very insecure and understandably get what they can when the opportunity presents itself, so yes she can love you as much as she says and still be unfaithful, she will have other forces (which most of us can only guess at) dominating her life. Throw into that mix a value system based on status, face, money and power as opposed to truthfulness and integrity and things can become very complicated."
This is about the best summary I have ever seen, and I wish I had someone explain it to me as clearly, years ago...
Unrealistic expectations lead to REAL pain...
haam sup
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:24 pm on Feb. 28, 2003
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MrJoe
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Wow, I hadn't seen that post (PP's post) before but I'm very pleased to see that others have reached the same conclusions that I did. Very well put, I've tried to say similar things before but I don't think I've ever done (or could ever do?) so as well as that.
HS: Yes, it would have been nice for me if I had been able to figure that out quicker than I did.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:21 pm on Feb. 28, 2003
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BoomARang
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I think PolePusher's post is very astute as well, but,,,
How does that apply to the case where the guy in question has married the woman and living together either in his country or hers?
Would a women from such a background and experience not be good marriage material?
"Ask me no more questions and I'll tell you no more lies." ;)
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:40 pm on Feb. 28, 2003
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thaiprivateeye
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- I guess your right, to say some Guys prefer not to get into the problems of a relationship with a buddy - but dont mind talking to a 3rd party, e.g. myself - Guess over half the people I chat to, either by email, or over a coffee, that have a problem with their TG, generally are just happy to discuss things, get an opinion of someone who has at least some idea of "Thai thinking/culture" - more often than not, I talk them out of wasting money hiring me, often they just need the facts laid out for them. This week had a Guy who had met a TG/Karaoke Girl, - she said she would move in with him, but he had to buy her a car first !! - he is about to !!!! At least I talked him round to paying for it in instalments, another Guy wondered if his live in TG was playing around - she had a decent job, but was sometimes late home - for his part, he goes to Pattaya every weekend on his own, also said they rarely have sex, I said she is probably worried about getting replaced, so either make a commitment- marry her, or move her out ; TGs do certainly worry when approaching late 20's and dont have the husband/baby ... so you cant blame some for looking at other options -
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 11:56 pm on Feb. 28, 2003
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Yurune
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My answer was simplified I admit and I agree with most of the analsis above...but in the end you still don't sit back and watch a mate get shafted....
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:33 am on Mar. 1, 2003
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