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invaderzim
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yeah I visited my tgf family a few weeks ago it was hell getting there by bus I was exausted when I got there and kind of sick..I wish I had thought of bringing her family out.. it was only her mom dad uncle aunt and cousin.. but nobody pressured me for money or anything..if you do go I reccomend staying in a hotel...unless you like
being awoken at 4:30am by roosters
constantly harassed by flies and mosquitoes
going in one of them thai toilets
no AC
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:56 am on June 19, 2003
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Thin White Duke
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Invaderzim- all the more reason we should have hooked up.
Are you marrying this girl. If not what for, cause the only reason, gf and me ever would visit parents would be to ask them for money. JMHO. Love you dude.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 10:39 am on June 19, 2003
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invaderzim
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yeah Im bringing here back to the states so I can have a little piece of Thailand with me all the time.. if it was any other tg I would have said "get bent"..I told her shortly after we started emailing im not supporting your parents.. but I must say thier nice people very simple folk...I'll be back around Feb we'll hook up then
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:22 am on June 19, 2003
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Rimbaud
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Vegas,
Thanks for the advice. You are right. I sense that she expects more. I guess I will have to get my local experiences on my own or, as you said, traveling elsewhere with her. Now I am wondering how to back out of visiting her family. It is not official, no date has been set, and we were talking about months in the future, but how do I say: sorry dear, I don’t want to meet your mother anymore? I know I sound like a wimp, but I really do not want to hurt this girl’s feelings. I’ve been trying to learn as much about her culture as possible, but I still know virtually nothing about their way of thinking. Any suggestions for softening the blow? I am sure someone who can get out of an engagement party can help. 5555 BTW, would love to hear how you "danced around" that one. Care to give a FR?
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 6:06 pm on June 21, 2003
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Vegas
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Rimbaud,
I'm not sure what to suggest....every situation is different and very sensitive......so just LIE,LIE,LIE...555
I was up against a one week timeframe, and it's amazing, the sense of clarity that you get when facing your impending engagement that you have not proposed. (This reminds me of another theory I have that most guys here in America get married because their girlfriend decided that they were.....another thread maybe)
Anyway, I just remained firm and pointed out that there must have been a cultural misunderstanding.....this works well, because your cultures customs are whatever YOU say they are.
In your situation, I would tell her that the two of you should travel somewhere together alone, to really really really get to know each other as well as possible. After all, she IS the most fascinating woman you've ever met, and you naturally want to learn about ALL of her amazing facets.....555 Some quality time alone on neutral territory is the best way to accomplish this.
This may sound cold, but I want to point out that my "engagement" was scheduled for one year ago, and now I still have a strong and growing relationship with my Chinese girlfriend. As an added bonus, both her and her family respect me more as a serious man who does not rush into marriage just because the woman is fantastically beautiful and very sexyful....555
Well, I'm rambling now, so good luck. Just remember that the final result of your relationship has to be UP TO YOU! Of course, that works both ways, so when and if both parties goals coincide......................
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 4:26 am on June 22, 2003
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