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I do not understand what the issue is here.
Just tell your collegues that you are going to Thailand and leave it at that. Since when do you have to justify your off-work actions to your workmates, it is basically none of thier business.
On the other hand if it is your parents and siblings that you are talking to, tell them you are going to Thailand and leave it at that. Again if you have to justify your holiday plans to them you are too young (or immature) for P4P, go to Disneyland instead.
If it is your wife/gf you are talking to then tell her you are going to Thailand on business (assuming this is the case) and leave it at that. If she cannot trust you when you are out on business then it probably does not make a difference where you go or what you say.
If this it is not a business trip then why are you and your wife taking seperate holidays? In this case it seems that your relationship has bigger issues to deal with and it will not make a difference what you tell your wife/gf.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:28 am on July 12, 2005
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bimmher
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Some I tell some I don't just depends. Some I just look at like don't ask and they don't.
Most of the time I just say it is very cheap compared to other countries and I like the culture and people.
Will say my sister doesn't look at me the same way she used to  of course that was after I hinted in an e-mail about what I was up to and she asked for the full details.
So I sent her the full FR. She replied Dam now I know why you were not interested in staying for the family Christmass dinner 
Well what would you rather a family Christmass dinner or two girls in bed all night. I will take the two girls over any dinner.
bimmher
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Posted on: 10:02 am on July 12, 2005
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BigDUSA
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Quote: from China Sailor on 9:40 am on July 13, 2005
If this it is not a business trip then why are you and your wife taking separate holidays? In this case it seems that your relationship has bigger issues to deal with and it will not make a difference what you tell your wife/gf.
Marriages come in many forms. I'm fortunate my wifes easy going in regards to my having sex outside the marriage. She's told me as long as what I find in Thailand stays in Thailand. She's cool with it. Plus I'm not allowed to bring home a housekeeper/massage therapist.  We take separate vacations and it's no big deal. What's good for the goose is good for the gander.
Ya gotta love those "hippie chics" from the sixties.
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Posted on: 11:45 am on July 12, 2005
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DaffyDuck
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Quote: from China Sailor on 9:40 pm on July 12, 2005
I do not understand what the issue is here.
Just tell your collegues that you are going to Thailand and leave it at that. Since when do you have to justify your off-work actions to your workmates, it is basically none of thier business.
On the other hand if it is your parents and siblings that you are talking to, tell them you are going to Thailand and leave it at that. Again if you have to justify your holiday plans to them you are too young (or immature) for P4P, go to Disneyland instead.
If it is your wife/gf you are talking to then tell her you are going to Thailand on business (assuming this is the case) and leave it at that. If she cannot trust you when you are out on business then it probably does not make a difference where you go or what you say.
If this it is not a business trip then why are you and your wife taking seperate holidays? In this case it seems that your relationship has bigger issues to deal with and it will not make a difference what you tell your wife/gf.
Abso-f***ing-lutely best piece of advice in this thread.
Print it and frame it!
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 12:32 pm on July 12, 2005
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China Sailor
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BigDUSA,
So lucky are you, and of course you tell the wife I am going to Thailand, see you in a couple of weeks... Yes?
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Posted on: 1:41 pm on July 12, 2005
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NINGNING
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Quote: from China Sailor on 9:40 pm on July 12, 2005
I do not understand what the issue is here.
Just tell your collegues that you are going to Thailand and leave it at that. Since when do you have to justify your off-work actions to your workmates, it is basically none of thier business.
It's not a question of justification, it's more a question of complying with social standards.
E.g. when working in a Bank (I am not) it is socially not accepted to show up with blue coloured hair. It's not a question how fashionable that is or how well the coiffeur did, its simply not accepted. It's not accepted to have five piercings in your ear, nose... whereever (bellybutton is a different story cause no one sees it). You can do - but then you have to bear the consequences - from getting shunned to disgrace to dismissal. Maybe this is not right, but its like that and we have to face it and to act accordingly. Going to Thailand for P4P is such a social standard.
You have a social life in your company for 8, 10 or 12 hours a day and you have to live this life.
Maybe this is different for the worker on a construction site or at an assembly line. What you say, what you do not say and how you say it depends strongly on your social environment so there is no general answer to it.
Of course I accept people handling this in a different way, but I suppose this was not what the original poster wanted to know.
"On the other hand if it is your parents and siblings that you are talking to, tell them you are going to Thailand and leave it at that. Again if you have to justify your holiday plans to them you are too young (or immature) for P4P, go to Disneyland instead."
I personally would not like my Mother to know I am going to Thailand for P4P. I am not ashamed of it, but my Mother is not one of the people I would like to know it. My father is a different story. But if you say it "right in her face", up to you.
" Of course there are many people that do not think of a vacation to Thailand as strictly for prostitution."
But there are many who do so and I would rather like to avoid a suspect. Suspect arises from the things that come together, as said earlier: single, white male, still a bit adventurous. Sure with a lot of good will one would not think bad about it, but people in general don't have too much of good will.
"Ahh, NingNing (33 yo) goes to Thailand for a three weeks holiday. Sure he is playing golf, scuba diving and likes shopping. Actually he has no girlfriend."
Not much imagination needed to conclude or draw a suspect. Simply avoid it.
Your surrounding may be different - you may apply a different approach to that issue. Up to you.
Just my humble opinion.
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Posted on: 3:27 pm on July 12, 2005
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DaffyDuck
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Quote: from NINGNING on 3:39 am on July 13, 2005
I personally would not like my Mother to know I am going to Thailand for P4P.
He didn't say "Tell your mother you're going for p4p", did he? No, you just tell her you are going to Thailand. I agree. Just make sure to take lots of nice pictures, buy a bunch of cool souvenirs that Mom likes, and if she doesn't know about p4p, she won't know from you.
Suspect arises from the things that come together, as said earlier: single, white male, still a bit adventurous.
Alright, so what's an 'acceptable' destination for such a single male, that won't raise eyebrows?
Niagara Falls? Kenya? Any place in the world with exceptionally unattractive women?
Seriously, me thinks you guys Tink Too Mut!
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Posted on: 6:09 pm on July 12, 2005
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Fenris
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Thanks NINGING, you got across the point I wanted to make.
And while I appreciate your thoughts China Sailor, I can only half agree. I care about what people think at work not because I care about their opinion, its cause I care about my career while I am where I am. People talk, and people are type cast and left behind, its a fact. But I completely agree, its none of their f***ing business.
In terms not wanting my family to know, I dont think that is immature, its wanting to keep my p4p interests out of the thanksgiving holiday conversations.
Finally, I dont have a girlfriend of wife here so that is not an issue (i really could not imagine ever being married, short of six months with paris hilton to get a nice divorce settlement 
Quote: from NINGNING on 3:39 pm on July 13, 2005
Quote: from China Sailor on 9:40 pm on July 12, 2005
I do not understand what the issue is here.
Just tell your collegues that you are going to Thailand and leave it at that. Since when do you have to justify your off-work actions to your workmates, it is basically none of thier business.
It's not a question of justification, it's more a question of complying with social standards.
E.g. when working in a Bank (I am not) it is socially not accepted to show up with blue coloured hair. It's not a question how fashionable that is or how well the coiffeur did, its simply not accepted. It's not accepted to have five piercings in your ear, nose... whereever (bellybutton is a different story cause no one sees it). You can do - but then you have to bear the consequences - from getting shunned to disgrace to dismissal. Maybe this is not right, but its like that and we have to face it and to act accordingly. Going to Thailand for P4P is such a social standard.
You have a social life in your company for 8, 10 or 12 hours a day and you have to live this life.
Maybe this is different for the worker on a construction site or at an assembly line. What you say, what you do not say and how you say it depends strongly on your social environment so there is no general answer to it.
Of course I accept people handling this in a different way, but I suppose this was not what the original poster wanted to know.
"On the other hand if it is your parents and siblings that you are talking to, tell them you are going to Thailand and leave it at that. Again if you have to justify your holiday plans to them you are too young (or immature) for P4P, go to Disneyland instead."
I personally would not like my Mother to know I am going to Thailand for P4P. I am not ashamed of it, but my Mother is not one of the people I would like to know it. My father is a different story. But if you say it "right in her face", up to you.
" Of course there are many people that do not think of a vacation to Thailand as strictly for prostitution."
But there are many who do so and I would rather like to avoid a suspect. Suspect arises from the things that come together, as said earlier: single, white male, still a bit adventurous. Sure with a lot of good will one would not think bad about it, but people in general don't have too much of good will.
"Ahh, NingNing (33 yo) goes to Thailand for a three weeks holiday. Sure he is playing golf, scuba diving and likes shopping. Actually he has no girlfriend."
Not much imagination needed to conclude or draw a suspect. Simply avoid it.
Your surrounding may be different - you may apply a different approach to that issue. Up to you.
Just my humble opinion.
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Posted on: 7:28 pm on July 12, 2005
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Bigin
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Fenris;
Hell it's been a couple of hundred years since I posted on here but that's ok and this is as good a place as any to start again. I was about 33 my first trip to LOS and couldn't give a rats ass as to what anyone thought of it. Good job god pay shity country to do all that in.... In fact that stop over was on the way to meet up with my ole' lady and first child in PI.... Did I tell her I was going for P4P? No, did my co-workers and friends know? Yes, some thought I was an asshole and some thought I was lucky, I thought it was my buisness and none of them was buttering my bread so f*** em'
Grab up your nutts and go get you some is what I say, how long do you plan on being alive anyway at that age??? Dude just go for it and by all means enjoy the hell outta it while your doing it!!!!! If you're still there on the 10th of sep. lets have a beer or twenty......
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Posted on: 9:24 pm on July 12, 2005
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