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Hermes
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Quote: from dirty guru on 8:26 am on Aug. 8, 2005
The basic fundamental rule with Thai woman,
unless the chickens have been put in the Buddha place, and your taken before the local head monk at the temple, and blessed as their (husband) partner.
Not in law, but spirtually before Buddha.
Dont accept a beating.
This woman knows that she has no "'right"' under her beliefs to do so.
Infact it happens fast, temper to stabbing.
First sign a woman is violent throw in towel.
When you are deemed her husband by her and village relations, expect a beating or two for the usual crimes like staying out, and /or sexual misconduct.
But to tolerate the actaul violence in an ordinary domestic relationship is indicative of someone that is in the wrong structure of western man and Thai woman.
I would agree with Green Slim on this guy being weak.
But disagree about hitting woman back.
Look I have had to cop a few slaps and whips of cane, when a phone number is found in a shirt pocket, or pussy is smelt on my drunken face, but a thats with a devoted partner of two years.
Tell a normal TG to f*** off quickly if they try this act on early.
If you are percieved to be weak, to some your just a whipping boy to get even on for the guy who drove it hard up their arse last Saturday afternoon,and degraded her more.
Well the first time she slapped me she moved out the night before already. She was just waiting when I came home and I didnt see her. And after I just closed the door. 3 weeks later I opened cause I saw cleaning lady opposite site corridor. She was sideways thou and I couldnt see her first.
Violence dont belong in a relation no matter what. Then there was another 2 weeks before when I took her back. She came with blue eye, broken rib and some bruises, and I cant turn anyone like that away. On the other hand, with the result of what happend later I would just closed the door. She wormed her way in again, and the deal was that no more violence. If she does, I give back eye for an eye.
How that could be weak is more than I understand. But I dont understand very much anyway so no big matter.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:06 pm on Aug. 11, 2005
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Hermes
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Quote: from scobie on 9:58 am on Aug. 8, 2005
Well, bugger me. Now it's dawned on me who Hermes is. In fact, I remember you with a thai girl at an RT I attended at Absolut Bar on soi 7/1. Am I right?
Thats very correct scobie. And yep, that is/was the lady in question. She was to more RT as well. The abolute one was before any of this started thou. back when she was actually still nice and sweet.
This post grew, since it became some jump to conclutions, and then when thread was jacked I figured I could as well go ahead. Its also so that several bro's have asked bout my situation, but I dont like talk bout it. Live with it is more than enough. Also several asked bout my arm as well as that relation. So now I can just direct them to this thread, and then no need talk bout it. I dont particularly like to explain same thing many times, and especially not things like this. However I tried to make it also fun and intresting. Hence leave things out, and of course its still much of that.
For me this story is over, and will be forgotten soon and fast.
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Posted on: 7:18 pm on Aug. 11, 2005
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Hermes
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Quote: from ColoradoGuy on 11:12 am on Aug. 9, 2005
Hermes, that is quite a series of posts. You are a busy man. 
I have a question, though. You said that when crazy lady was staying with you for months, you said she never let you out of her sight and if you could have found 30 minutes free, you would have gotten away. How is this possible? If you were not giving her any money, she would have had to leave in order to get money somehow for food, SIM card topup, water, laundry, etc. Also, even if she would have brought enough money to live for months, wouldn't she have to go out to buy food/drink?
And if you did not take her out for any fun, and gave her no money, what reason does she have to stay?
I did take her back end jan. Due to her been beat up at first which made me listen a bit to her, and then she stuffed me with her story. However just 3 week later she had a tantrum when we was sitting in the street. She worked herself up in jellousy over a lady whom I only talked to through phone for a long time. Had not done since the tsunami thou, since that lady died down there.
I told her several times to stop, but she just worked herself up. I gave her the key, told her to go home, since I was having fun. But that just made her more angry. So I left, since it was not hardly fun for anyone around with her tantrums. Puts a damp on a fun evening. So I walked around for a bit, then went home. After a shower she knocked on door. since I didnt want to disturb neighbours I opened with security chain on. But she kicked the door in, and then she hit me. Result was I fell out of room naked.
Next day my things was gone, later we went and got em from her sisters laundry where she also took her bags. I did put up several conditions when I took her back, but that was over and done with after this episode. Stayed in a hotel some days, waited for her to go home chinese new year. But she never did, and this is when she didnt let me out of sight. Was around look for apartment, but I wasnt really intrested since I didnt want her to know where I would go since I thought I would just wait some days until she goes home. But she never did, and when I asked her why she said she thought I would go away.
So I took an apartment, and then I didnt have money for anything else. She did go home next day some days late for new year thou. This was just 10 days, and she didnt leave me a second no. Laundry I needed as well, so she convinced me to use her sister who didnt charge any for it. Water was bought which I did cause I wanted as well as the rest u mention. Room service is all ok in a cheap thai shortime hotel away from suk.
So this was not several month, and we moved to apt feb 13 or so. I needed to wait until I had cash enough for go away again. Im not rich as I lost everything I had when become sick many years ago. And as early retired as young I dont get very much. Enough thou, but noting extra. But then my arm was cut and that changed everything. She did all the service, and water and all the things u mention was available in apt building. Or 20 meter from it in a small shoop. Or 50 meters to 7-11 vidorent and so on. 10 mins from her sister with bike. 2 mins walk to market, where she bought food which she was stubborn with to want to cook instead of use roomservice. Good plate of food for the sum of 25-40 bath a plate.
Couldnt go away this point in time and since my cash was bound in deposit. I didnt have enough for a new one. And which u can understand, I was the one pay for this. With that she didnt relly need any money.
--And if you did not take her out for any fun, and gave her no money, what reason does she have to stay?--
Yeee.... have I wondered about this. I got no idea, and I dont really know she does either. She claims she loves me, but she seem more obsessed to me.
This isnt the first lady do this, but that dont really say much. 1.5 years ago, was a soi cowboy lady help me look for and get an apt in ekkamai. She lived very close, but decided to move in. She went out a couple hours same day we move there, and came back with hangers, laundry basket, carpets, a couple wall paintings, hangers ashtrays and lot more including a darn pink cup for soap. She stayed 3-4 weeks, and one night she just moved out. In the morning when I woke up, I found a note saying "thanks for everything" and tucked under it was 2000 bath. However was quite bad sum when count how many times she humped me.
Now, I dont know why it happens to me. Im not a good lover either. Heck that part hardly work for me, and I cant really move around due to that makes too much pain. So its usually the lady rides away. On my weak-on or what to call it...... For the olympics I more or less is just a stranded whale, and the lady wil have to have her fun for herself mostly. So well I dont know why this one stayed, or why she sat on internetcafe 2-3 hours a day first 2 weeks I was in swe, and wanted buy a puter for talking on ICQ. Or why che called me several times a day, and sms in between. She did however calm that down after 1 month, and now 2 month after its an SMS almost every day. She know I dont like her dont want talk to her, dont want anything to do with her. Even thou it took a while to get through to her.
She only asks me of one thing last 6 weeks. She asks just for me to let her love me. But I dont want to be reminded of her, so I want her to stop.
Including in condition from jan was also she would get a job. She was away on some interviews, but she never got a job. 5500 for a banker she was intrested in, but as a salesperson where she could get around 20k wasnt intresting. She claimed she hated lying and selling. How she can claim that and then sell herself with lies is one of the many contradictions in this which just makes me confused. But I just dont care no more.
Hmmmm im not a busy man actually. Im healthretiree for some years. Sickleave last 11-12 years. Spent first 9 not admit my situation, trying to get my life back. Then I had to accept situation, and then try get a descent life according to my condition. So last couple years, im actually not a busy man at all. Even thou im packing bags right this moment The series of posts, well this thread just tended to grow.
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Posted on: 8:26 pm on Aug. 11, 2005
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DaffyDuck
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Doormat?
Let me bet that during your next trip, somehow, you will end up hooking up with her again, and this thread will continue.
Don't be disappointing us, now, you hear!
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 3:59 am on Aug. 12, 2005
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scobie
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No, please no. No more Hermes. I think you've revealed enough of yourself already as it is. This is the most painful self-revelatory thread i've ever read. The stuff about not being very good down there... well,...ummm....
No, no more Hermes.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:32 am on Aug. 12, 2005
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ColoradoGuy
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Hermes, I also met you and CrazyLady at the RT.
Quote: from Hermes on 8:38 am on Aug. 12, 2005
She only asks me of one thing last 6 weeks. She asks just for me to let her love me. But I dont want to be reminded of her, so I want her to stop.... But I just dont care no more.
Really? Prove it.
You say you do not want to be involved with CrazyLady but I sense that you 'secretly' want to take the path of least resistance, which is to hook up with her and have her control you. Because "Finishing" with someone in LOS is sooo easy when you do not live there. All you have to do is:
- Do not bring your old Thai SIM card here. When you get here, buy a new one.
- Do not bring your SWE SIM card here. You do not need it, and when you get a new Thai SIM card, you can call all your friends in SWE and tell them your new number.
- Don't go to crazy lady's bar - and when I go there, I promise not tell her you are in town. 
- Do not read her emails.
Bringing your old Thai SIM card or SWE SIM card means you want to hook up with CrazyLady, plain and simple.
Find a new hangout (try Soi 33). Or go to Pattaya. Or Phuket. Enjoy your vacation and stop thinking so much. Your fate is in your hands, if you hook up with CrazyLady, som num naa (It serves you right).
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Posted on: 9:54 am on Aug. 12, 2005
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Torq
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I agree that she sounds Bah. I cut crazy out of my life a while ago. If they act like a nutcase it is best to humor them long enough to make an exit.
People who are on the edge can always cause problems. She sounds like my ex-wife too. Good luck to you and run as fast as you can. After she's crashed into a couple more telephone poles she'll forget allabout making trouble for you.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:34 pm on Aug. 17, 2005
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