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Brothers,
HELP, please! I need some guidance here. It's been exactly a week since the plane spit me back out the other side of my first trip to LOS. I hit the ground back home feeling exactly like I'd just come through the 'Being John Malkovich' tunnel. Whump!
Only now, do I find, there is a price to pay for the return from LOS. I'll call it the "Postpartum LOS Depression Blues." *snif* Someone might have mentioned it regarding first timers before, maybe I wasn't paying attention, but here I am, presently muddling thickly along to the tune of a deep funk. I just wanna know, is it gonna get any easier? How's a brother to cope?
You know the drill....day after glorious day you're the unrelenting "mack daddy" master of the land and then *poof* all too soon that last one arrives, you wake up, hit the airport, and begin to de-compress.
Ugh...it gets low down....after that LOS high.... Like a slow motion unplug from the Matrix I found myself back in the (what else can I call it now?) but the 'Land of Reality Bites' (No expats gloating!). Damn it, being a monger on tour in LOS is like the apex, the bright-shining-moments-of-your-life. You're THE lead porn star, in your very own movie, no less. *gush*gush*
And now, what? What!? I'm home, (please, say it ain't so Joe!) again, and nobody in this forum (save maybe for Nokna) even insinuated this feeling I'd have to contend with when I woke up back home on the return.
So only now, do I find the price to pay for the return from LOS, does indeed exist. Whatever I'm feeling now, these must be the "Postpartum LOS Depression Blues" and they're heavy, indeed.
So, help me out here brothers; what's a brother to do? How do you all/we all cope with this? Can the brothers relate? Should I shut up, and just take it on the chin, or what?
Damn me! I'll tell you what I'm doing to cope, first morning back, and I found myself at the calendar with that first cup of coffee counting the weeks till I'd be back at the airport (thankfully, I've even got a return ticket!). Ok, that got me to lunch, then I returned and counted the days (all 67 of 'em) and got myself to dinner. Then the grey skies parted and I thought that oughta be just enough time to rest up, eat right, fine tune the mack attack skills and freshen up the smooth operator a wee bit.
So, I suppose I'm coping. I just didn't expect this funk when I got home and I'm wondering why no one warned me? Anyway, I'm trying hard to smile, it's going ok (I guess) and I certainly feel a real kinship for my brother Nokna torn from the bossom of LOS as he was by those damn circumstances of life, as am I too....and thankful I'm able to count, just 61 days to go...
PS. Kman! No comments from your 'Army of One'. Period!
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Posted on: 4:01 am on Oct. 20, 2002
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sukhumvit boy
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Skip:I had the same trouble as you when I arrived back in my country(England) last year.Sometimes it's not easy to adjust back to a mundane life.I got over this by carrying on what I had been doing in Thailand to some extent.What I mean by that is I kept paying lots of visits to my local massage parlour and choosing all the Thai girls there but of course it was much more expensive and no BBBJ or anal.But it is not something I would recommend because it makes a big dent in your bank balance!!
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Posted on: 4:15 am on Oct. 20, 2002
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Skip
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sukhumvit boy,
Yea, i thought about that, i'm more inclined to save at home so I can splurge more in LOS though. The feast or famine approach I suppose.
How long did it take for you to get over it?
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Posted on: 4:32 am on Oct. 20, 2002
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Hin
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I feel for you brother, and while there is little anyone can do for you I might suggest frequent trips to the websites of the MP's and live cams that do exist over here in the LOS.
If nothing else it will give you the incentive to return ASAP and save so you can enjoy when you get back here.
One other alternative presents itself, look for your local Thail community and worm your way in. It won't be the same but who knows - you might get lucky and find a Thai lady at home.
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Posted on: 4:56 am on Oct. 20, 2002
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JackRabbit
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JackRabbit present...
Hi Skip !
I say You'll never get rid of it.
I got back three weeks ago and first week I felt like being in two places same time.Nothing felt real ,like only a part of me had returned home , rest not arrived yet.
Now i start to get balanced again and do same as You ,
plan a new trip. When I can leave back to LOS, it is a different question.
It does not strike so bad anymore, because when it comes the time return home, I think "this is only a last day of the trip , not last time in Thailand ."
It smoothes a bit.
But same still happens every time I return.
JR
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Posted on: 4:57 am on Oct. 20, 2002
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asiabreastman
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Skip,
Once you have been to LOS, nothing else compares. I go back about once a month and I still go thru withdrawal everytime I leave. Just hang in there. U will be back!
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Posted on: 5:09 am on Oct. 20, 2002
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sukhumvit boy
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Skip unfortunately it is in my case never possible to rid myself of the blues.When I am in England not a day passes by without a memory of LOS crossing my mind.
Hin:I would be grateful if you could give me any addresses of live web cams in LOS,thanks
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Posted on: 10:46 am on Oct. 20, 2002
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Dave
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It isn't the "blues"
It is the "Thai Pussy" DISEASE. Most visitors get it and it is incurable.
If you get a really bad case, you can do nothing more than save your money, change your life or do anything to "feed your habit"
Dave
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Posted on: 10:54 am on Oct. 20, 2002
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Skip
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Brothers,
Thanks for the replies, I knew I'd have plenty of brothers to relate too. JackRabbit summed up nicely where I'm at these days: neither here nor there...
Hin, Me too with the web cam addresses please. I've been gravitating towards the Thai restaurants here and scannning crowds for Thai's too, that must be the initial stage of looking to get set up in the Thai community here.
Dave, Obviously then too, I am afflicted as well hmmm forget doctors, change your life instead. Ideas! I need ideas hmmm.... Man, I've been
wracking my brain for seven days now trying to figure out how I can change my life (hmmm...ask Kman for a job? Not!) since I got back. Must mean in my case its incurable then. Smitten for life. Ok I can accept it, no problem, but it's the adapting to it that's tuff.
Turns out there's a lot more to being a newbie than I reckoned for. Thanks for relating brothers!
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Posted on: 12:34 pm on Oct. 20, 2002
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Dave
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Skip
For what it's worth I think the disease becomes more manageable if you can manage regular trips to LOS.
It could have been much worse for you, if you had fallen hopelessly in love with one particular girl.
Dave
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Posted on: 12:42 pm on Oct. 20, 2002
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