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ma9
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Talk about Pavlovian conditioning....I walk around Bangkok, a city reknown for its beautiful women, and I have to go to SoL to relieve the pressure. I mean, there are beautiful women everywhere here. I walk around in a state of perpetual arousal. I wear sunglasses everywhere. Mostly so that I can scope out the babes without being too obvious.
I went to the DTAC shop today to get my SIM card replaced, and it was utterly painless. The hardest part was finding the damned store. Once I was there, though, I sat down, the girlie took my Thai driver's license, and it was all done in ten seconds. I asked, tao alai? She said "free, sir." Holy canoli. She was a sweetheart, too. Not much English, unfortunately.
I did get the number of the hottie who sold me my new phone yesterday. She told me that she was 33 years old, no kids, no husband, no boyfriend. She was hot. She looked 19. I am thinking coffee in a couple of weeks when I get back from my next trip.
I finally talked to my favorite SoL lovely. Meeting her tomorrow. Tonight....I think that I will call one of my Eden regulars.
Got to love Bangkok. No better place to live, for me.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:42 am on Oct. 12, 2006
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seajohn
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For me either, it seems.
... I am naturally disappointed to find out that SOL supermarkets are not on the horizon. I believe it actually would help me focus my hungers while I push the cart around if a cute little SOL girl was on a special under the handle.
Having wieghed a number of various beers internally (and, I should add, repeatedly), I have come to the conclusion that I too prefer this Tiger for the reasons you iterated. However Joe you are right that it is a situational ethic. Personally I prefer Coca-cola for morning and afternoon visits, because of the fizzy caffeine lift exciting my nervous system... which is soon not so nervous...
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 9:02 am on Oct. 12, 2006
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gary
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Sirs,
I will soon be joining you all once more at the SOL. I return to
BKK in 2 weeks time and will enter the "gates of heaven" within
a couple of hours of touchdown.
My last trip was in June of this year and I spent many memorable mornings
at SOL. I do need to apologize to a possible boardmember.
On one of my mornnings, I was the first customer of the day.
I enjoy an early morning BBBJ to start my day. I also have a
weakness for taking multiple ladies at SOL. The ladies have a way
of coming by during the BBBJ and asking "You want another lady?".
I usually succumb to the temptation and agree to their offer.
Well, I had all the early girls (Khuns T*k, J*y and L*k) very busy
when a young Farang walked in and sat at the bar. I was on
couch #2 and could see that he was patiently watching and waiting
his turn. Well, this was the second round for me with this
team (As Khun T*k would say - "We Professional Team"). I was
definitely slow to finish. I was just about to take pity and send one
of my ladies to attend him when he got up and left.
So, if you're a boardmember here and in early June you came to
SOL and all the ladies were taken, I apologize.
I will be back in 2 weeks to try some of these new names mentioned
on this invaluable thread. I'm sure even with the new names, I will
still want a time or two with my "professional team"
gary
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:51 pm on Oct. 12, 2006
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ma9
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Heh.
No need to apologize in my opinion. That poor guy probably knew the deal. If he had been in your shoes, he would not have expected the girls to interrupt their ritual worship. They were committed. First come, (heh), first served.
I have got to say, however.....that I personally try to get out of there, out of the way....after the deed is done. What happens before the deed falls under foreplay, in my opinion, no matter how long that it takes. During the post-orgasmic stupor, however, those priestesses will stay with you out of pure politeness and continue to attend to you, long after they have sucked the sap out of you, no matter how long that you linger post-eruptus.
It is a small joint, after all (the bar, you bastards, not my crank), and there are often a limited number of fellatrixes available. Every time that I go in there, I note that many of the girls are bar fined and out of the bar. It cracks me up. Khun B*e routinely complains "little customer," and yet, there are generally no more than five or six ladies on the premises.
Professional team, indeed.
Anyway, I try to get out of the way, so the ladies can transition to other clientele. I take my time, I do not rush, but at a natural pace, I "check bin," and I make room for the next guy.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 3:48 pm on Oct. 12, 2006
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seajohn
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You guys make a good point. I too have participated in combos and seen others with my own eyes which utilize the space available in a most miraculous way. Very inspiring!
Still one of my favorite systems (obviously among several) is one by one. When the bar is crowded and I feel capable, I don't mind being entertained by one hostess, and while that's going on my eyes often see another who visually attracts me (no matter what she's doing, changing clothes, doing another client, putting on a little dancing show etc etc) and then maybe I'll ask her to join me, and so on and so on. Therefore satisfying several levels in my sexual psyche...
I just thank the girl I've just previously been with and after a short period of togetherness in which we discuss the fact of so many customers, I tell her I'm going to relax a bit. She understands, because they are understanding, and then she gets a chance to approach her next customer. I may call her back later or, after a bit of a rest, invite another or another approaches me at that point. This is one of the freedoms I cultivate there; and which they have made possible for me.
Of course if the bar is not crowded, then rather long conversations may occur instead between myself and one of girls I know better or who sort of like talking to me I guess. So sweet and cute and funny.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 8:34 pm on Oct. 12, 2006
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gary
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For some reason, I prefer to be at SOL by myself... I guess it's
something about being totally naked on couch #2 being taken care
of by 3 or 4 ladies. That's my other problem... I just so enjoy having
multiple ladies attending me. They are wonderful !! In past times
(during police crackdowns), I have taken them to the ST hotel and
for some reason this just isn't as good as couch #2 and the backroom.
Oh well, I'm daydreaming again about my upcumming trip.
gary
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:17 am on Oct. 13, 2006
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ma9
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Some guys are into exhibitionism. The girls are certainly up for it, which cracks me up.
Myself....if I got naked in there, the bar would clear out. No one wants to see me naked. I have definitely seen better days, and I am not aging gracefully. Even though the girls hit the dimmer switch....you cannot make that place dim enough for me.
I hear you on the ST hotel thing, though. I use that solution when I must. Otherwise....I prefer to bring the girls to my residence. They all know their way around here by now. It is pretty funny to see a bunch of naked women walking around my house, lounging around my furniture, raiding my fridge, watching TV. Delightful.
I could live like that.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:48 am on Oct. 13, 2006
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seajohn
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My species of exhibitionism, if that's what I could call it and as far as I now know it (my sexuality is probably nowhere near reached its final crystalization and I like to think of it as an expanding or deepening appetite!), seems to involve enjoying being viewed naked by women, or a sensitivity to some kind sexual reaction that occurs when our hidden or publicly taboo bits are exposed, though not to men to whom I am indifferent sexually. However I have never had any desire to "flash" or "streak" or otherwise display myself to women other than in intimate situations such as my bed, certain hotel rooms, massage parlors, and SOL--in other words, situations where gratification is consenting and imminent. In fact I am so babyish that I love being bathed, groomed, and dressed by an affectionate young women and it really brings out the gentler sides of my nature. Though it's hard to find someone who'll do that everyday, since ze vunderful revoluzion vhich dizplazed zo many ov ze olde stock... Yawn.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:57 pm on Oct. 13, 2006
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Joe Wood
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Please skip this post if you are looking for an FR concerning the Star of Light. You’ll find many others liberally splattered about this thread.
Admittedly, some men get a buzz out of being seen getting blown or having FS or just fondling a lady. Publicly, in most societies, this a dangerous thing to do. In the semi-privacy of the Star of Light Bar, it is most acceptable, but only by the ladies and not all customers.
There are guys who like to know that other guys are witnessing their sexual activity.
( Maybe they haven’t found the Lady Boy venues yet or else haven’t admitted to themselves that they would be comfortable in them.)
There are guys who simply like the idea of being serviced in the company of other men who also are there for the same purpose. A sort of mild group identification and affirmation of common masculinity.
There are guys who like the idea of engaging in sexual activity either with one or more ladies, in the company of other ladies. More of a general female approval and affirmation sought of one’s particular sexual nature.
There is the strongly magnetic appeal of the liberal or libertine atmosphere of acceptability, to be enjoyed in the bar in the company of delightfully accommodating and humorous ladies, with or without a beer, free from the restraint of social taboo and censure, for the debaucher and debauchee to indulge freely their inclinations without accountability nor occasion to answer for their actions nor return if they so wish. A compelling and extremely attractive proposition for any male locked into the stress of work or an unsatisfactory relationship or loneliness or even one who is riding high on the annual holiday of the year, away from family and community and the Judaic-Christian sexually repressive legacy of the West.
Personally, I have no desire to be seen sexually engaged with a lady or ladies by another man or men. Having, in my youth and middle-age been through a slightly incomplete gamut of sexual experiences and settings, I feel no need for either male or female affirmation nor approval of my sexual nature and inclinations. But I fully understand these needs in the inexperienced male, not that I would count myself as experienced, merely worn.
My preference is to bar-fine and enjoy fully a lady in the privacy of my own home. An aspect that draws me to the Star of Light, is the freedom of sexual expression and action that these delightful ladies exhibit whilst working. They care for one another and really do ensure that the customer is satisfied with the service provided. The rest of my feelings and thoughts as to why I am attracted to this particular bar have already been written in this extremely interesting thread that so many brothers contribute to.
I am always amazed and I marvel at the energy and the dedication that these ladies have and how they tirelessly, day after day, night after night, approach each customer with the charm, sensitivity and humour that is utterly captivating. They are all so young and keep themselves fresh and scrupulously clean, whatever hour of the day it is. I have wondered, if the sexual roles in this life were reversed, and males were able to perform as immediately and as quickly as a female, how many brothers would be happy to work in a bar like this one and have to service any female, young or old, clean or dirty, sober or drunk, from the West or the East, whether they were friendly or rude, quiet or loud, intent on a casual self-affirmation of their dominant sexual role.
So, I ask myself the question, why do these girls work in such a place. At least a freelancer has the opportunity to refuse whomsoever she wishes. Not so, these girls, unless the customer is either abusive or blind drunk.
You may say, the money. In one way, I would say you are right, although the money is not all that great. These ladies get no salary whatsoever from the bar. A Massage Parlour girl gets the full 1000 baht for the blow-job you pay her for. For an in-house blow-job at 700 baht, the ladies at the Star of Light Bar only get 400 baht of that. Of the 1000 baht for in-bar FS, they also only get a fraction of the amount, as opposed to the full 1,500 baht that you give to a Massage Parlour provider, plus any tip that you choose to give her for the good massage and the quality and standard of the extras or ‘special’ service.
Each lady at the Star of Light has one day in the week in which she, with at least one other, has to open up the bar, clean it throughout and stock the bar and buy ( out of her own pocket ) offerings of food, wine and flowers to the Buddha and to the symbolic pagan deities of male genitalia, irrespective of whether she was bar-fined for the previous night.
If they are late on any day, the bar fines them. You pay a bar-fine of 400 baht on any day that you wish to take a girl out of the bar for a short or a long time.
If she wants a rest for any reason, and she wants to bar-fine herself on a Sunday, she has to pay the bar 1000 baht. She buys her own condoms, tissues, creams and oil. She gets 30 to 40 baht for each lady drink that is bought for her by a customer. That is her lot, all of which goes towards her expenses for working at the bar. Her income is purely got from what she can negotiate with a customer for a short or long time out of the bar.
So, I return to the question of why do they choose to work there. Well, one of the reasons is gone. Khun Vichai, the owner/manager of the Star of Light bar who sadly died at the beginning of this year, treated them all like a father, looked after them and made sure constantly that they were alright in their working and private lives and comforted them in times of stress as a father would. He was loved sincerely for the genuine and caring man that he was.
His management and people skills in the bar enabled various superb people like Khun N*t, Khun T*k, Khun D**n and others all long gone and moved on to fresher pastures, together with exceptionally warm and free people like Khun L*k, Khun J*y, Khun T*k and Khun L*t who still work there to create such a friendly and inviting and relaxed atmosphere in the bar, through house policies, ‘rules of engagement’ and expected compatibility with each team member, that the feelings of respect, identification, belonging, ownership and ‘family’ amongst the group of ladies became like a magnet that drew them in and kept them there. This feeling of bonding, of being a member of a team of working girls and the fact that although the money was erratic and changed according to the flow of customers and visitors, their position of ‘employment’ and being wanted by the bar and by the customers was secure.
This adhesiveness, welcome, openness and warmth is conveyed with ease to each new girl who arrives to be trained in the work of the bar. Their people skills, for ones so young, are without doubt, admirable and not found anywhere else. Just ask a new shy visitor on his first visit to the bar to learn just how long it took for him to be made to feel comfortable and welcome in the bar. The answer would be in seconds.
These girls are exceptional.
I often wonder why some of the more affluent visitors to these shores insist on going to far more expensive places where they have to fork out 6,000, 8,000, 10,000 baht and more for a short-time with a girl who is purported to have her picture in a magazine, but who more probably will perform like a card-board cut-out starfish, when the Star of Light just stands there in Patpong 2 filled with warm, honest, genuinely sensitive, engaging girls, who, for the most part, are extremely pretty, sexy and desirable, who are exceptional human beings and who would give each customer a thousand times more satisfaction and good feeling about themselves than any of these so-called high earners from more expensive establishments.
Quote from ma9 9:59 a.m. on 12th.October 2006 :
“…………………….Interestingly enough, the girls often wear dresses in the bar, and a couple of them really look good in them. I do not understand why, but they invariably change into jeans when they leave the bar. I mean, these dresses are not extreme. Most are not even remotely slutty. Just very feminine, lovely dresses. I asked my fave why she changed one day when I took her shopping, and she said "tilac, I am shy." I just shook my head. Shy about being foxy? Her dress that day was a long, flouncy number that reached below the knee. She wore flat-heeled sandals with it, not strappy heels. It was understated, if anything, and the overall effect was devastating on me. She is always f***able, but in that dress....I was besotted with images of lifting that dress and mounting her from the rear. Another time, B***y was killing me with this little white skirt, and the way that she wore no shoes and curled up like a cat as she sat. Frankly, I think that they all look better in their various dresses, but that is just me…………………………………………………….”
The girls all have street clothes which they wear to work and store in their locker in the bar. They change into tops and skirts, because firstly struggling out of a pair of skin-tight jeans every time a customer wants to avail themselves of their services is time-consuming and awkward. Secondly, in wearing the top and skirt, all their body parts are made freely available to immediately fondle and have access to. Thirdly, and this is one of the reasons why the girls generally have two or three changes of working clothes in the bar, the matter of male bodily fluid which is the material they handle every day, is sometimes not containable, whether intentionally or not, and so on occasion during the work period, a set of clothes ‘accidentally’ catches a drop or string of it. The washing facilities in the back are only barely adequate to clean themselves, which they do meticulously after each customer, but would not stretch to providing laundry facilities for all the girls, so rather than having to return home every time an ‘accident’ happens, they change their clothes to the next set from the locker. And at night, when they have to return home or accompany a customer to an hotel or the guy’s residence, they change back into their modest street clothes, for they do not wish to be seen in public by their neighbours or communities as girls who work in such a bar and who dress in such an accommodating manner.
Amongst the girls who work there, are some of the finest, honest and most genuine people whom I have met in my life. I admire them greatly. One brother, ma9, I think, wrote that if he was a rich man, he would buy them all out of the bar and provide them with alternative employment so that they would never have to work like that again. If I was fortunate like that, I would want to do the same.
Through the Star of Light and certain members of this forum’s involvement with it, I have also met such fine and genuine men as seajohn, sirtitus, wittleus,ma9 and others whose friendship I place a high value on.
I have much to be thankful to the Star of Light and the lovely girls who work in it.
If you haven’t tried this bar yet ( and the info is all on page one of this thread ) make a visit for an experience that will prove to be a memory of a life-time.
Joe Wood
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 4:54 am on Oct. 16, 2006
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Cunnilinguist
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Quote from Joe Wood :
"...exceptionally warm and free people like Khun L*k, Khun J*y, Khun T*k and Khun L*t who still work there to create such a friendly and inviting and relaxed atmosphere in the bar...."
My favourite four as well, Joe.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:56 am on Oct. 16, 2006
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