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Reading NicFrenchy's post about taking 55 minutes to come, fills me with envy at so much pleasure time, but I do suspect that if I took that long, it might just prove to be a little too much both for myself and the service provider.
Quoting dublindog :
listen mate, you will not find a whore who is an angel, much less than you will find an angel who is a whore!
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Well, you had better try to convince the majority of men in the world about your idea, because I have news for you, fella, most of them have spent their time trying to find one or the other or both.
I know of a few men who have found exactly that. Lucky ? Yes, it is rare, but not impossible, and not unknown to have been found in the world of P4P either.
The first step for you though, brother, is to cast off the shackles of hate that you seem to be still so entangled with, a legacy from your non-religious, Western, Christian-Judaic cultured upbringing, the effects on your person which you seem so unconscious of.
The second step for you, and this will be a hard one, is to begin and be ready to love not only yourself but others.
And the third would be to acknowledge that not only you, but also others, have a right to freely express themselves in an acceptable way, without any fascist voice attempting to censure them.
Yes, my choice of expression might not be to others particular liking. I can't help that. I don't like every single post made on this forum myself. But I don’t think I have been dogmatic in my writing. I merely express in my own way what I find at the bar and what it holds for me. That is not to say that others, like yourself, will find the same there.
Just the same as others will not find at the Star of Light what you write of the bar.
If you don’t like what I write about the bar or the ladies there, no-one is forcing you to read it, or are they ?
That is one of the values of this forum. We relate how we find particular places. We try to share our experiences in an endeavour to provide insight not only into the particular venue, its operation and the people who work there but also how we have found it and felt about what we have found there so that others may know. What we write is not to mean that others will find the same. We don't necessarily wish for others to agree. But we all learn from other people, either directly or indirectly, whether we like it or not. It is called living. This doesn't mean to say that you have to agree or to follow another's path.
Relax. Cut a bit of slack. Unwind. And try to understand that some of us don’t engage in P4P in substitution for masturbation or in an attempt to express hate or to give vent to ages old frustrations or fears.
As for bullshit and verbal diarrhea, what can I say ? It is your personal view. You are entitled to it. But as for “some wonderful sexual utopia”, I do not think that anyone on this thread has described SOL as such, except you, in denial. And you know by now that to some extent, I do not agree with you. And that is my right, just the same as you have yours.
I prefer to let sleeping dogs lie, but there are times when I will make exceptions.
By the way, who in their right minds would want to be the President of the United States ? I found that a very odd goal for you to hold up.
Never mind.
You don’t like SOL.
You don’t like my contributions to this thread.
And I don’t suppose that you are alone in your views.
No problem.
Move on.
Find a place that you really like and write an FR.
We’ll all be looking forward to reading it.
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As for seajohn spouting, I have it on good authority from the ladies at SOL that he does, and well, although not verbally.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:54 pm on Dec. 8, 2006
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I agree.
We all go to P4P for different reasons and for different things.
We record or write in our own way, in a style that is comfortable to us at the time.
In writing, we either concentrate on the erotic lust or sometimes balance that with attempting to interpret what we have gained from the experience.
It takes all sorts.
And the language that we use can range through the spectrums of crudity, hatefulness, casual unthinking sex, lustfully erotic and sexually arousing to the more sublime and moving, depending on the connections that we have made and what the lady and we have given to the time together and taken from each other.
Sometimes we choose not to use the same language as before.
Yet again, different strokes for different folks.
One place, or one lady will not be the same for another as it or she has been to you.
You wont be the same with a different lady or in another bar.
Let and let live.
Accept that.
No harm done.
Move on.
Enjoy.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 9:19 pm on Dec. 8, 2006
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NicFrenchy
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Sometimes, a Troll comes around..... well, believe me, I've seen one myself... Dublindog (to me anyways) is one of them.
Expressing your point of view is one thing, but why shoot on people who contribute to this Forum?
Why do we have this Forum in the first place? I thought that it was for People to Share THEIR experiences, THEIR views or opinions... and all that in an effort to HELP and INFORM others.
Thank god we all don't like tthe same places or the same girls eh?
Also, about writing style, sorry but English not being my first language (my third actually) I can't help but make grammar and Spelling mistakes... but is this really the most important thing when reading a review on an ADULT, SEX Oriented Forum?
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anyways, sorry about that, back to the reviews and my new Experience of Today.
It is around 9 and I am around silom so I decide to go (again) to SOL... but I don't want to arrive too Early and give the ladies time to setup the bar so I go check my emails in an internet Cafe not so far from SOL.
after a little while (about 9:40) I enter SOL and it is empty... 2 ladies are outside eating and one is at the bar. I order an orange juice and sit there finishing my phone conversation.
Another Customer walks in and sits on Couch #2 (if you are from the Forum, I am the guy in Black seated at the Bar with the phone). He is serviced by a busty lady that always (3 times now) gives me a strange look... don't know what this is about (maybe I rejected her earlier, although I have no recollection of doing so) but anyways, who cares? there are so many ladies in Bkk to choose from.
Tiny lady from the bar approaches and rubs my cock, Say no more.. we're off to the Toilet.
it's about 9:50 or 9:55 when she starts, and she's quite ok, the head is good, deep and Slow (just the way I like it).
after not even 2 minutes, she asks me "Finished?" and presses on my cock as if cum was supposed to come out...
My eyes are wide open to show my surprise and I laugh telling her that "No, I am not finished" and she blushes and apologises telling me "I think you come already.. I feel something in my mouth"... well, weird moment of silence and we both laugh before she resumes sucking.
after a good 15 minutes, she is tired, she starts to HJ more intensely and tell me "I want taste your cum in my mouth now..." (good tactic, but not a turn on for me), after another 5 minutes, I ask her to call another girl and to take a break.... she calls another lady and the new girl starts to suck while the previous one puts her tits in my mouth... 5 minutes and I blow....
there is something about being serviced by 2 ladies that makes me cum very quickly... when we are 1 on 1, I can hold pretty well, but with 2 girls, it's impossible.
the lady tells me that I like 2 ladies better and that next time should ask for 2 ladies.... she calls me over the sink and starts to wash my dick (which is still rock hard).
she says "Next time I want you f*** me, good power, only 1000 baht" and she Grins... I grin back and reply "Why don't I f*** you right now?" and she is surprised but just says "I know you joking..."
I go back to the bar and chat with the second girl that serviced me (her name is O*e), she tells me that it is impossible for me to have the Toilet area that long (hell it was only 25-30 mn) in the evening... she said that there were too many customers and that 10 mn was the time (I saw that in Dublindog's "cons" and she confirmed it)... but then I said "but what if I don't come after 10mn? we stop and I don't come?" she said "I don't know" (to avoid answering I am sure)... on my way out I saw T*K (who serviced me last week)...
Yes, the place is Seedy, but the more I go and the more I like it.
You cannot possibly compare it with Lolitas... while the Sofas of Lolitas are comfy and also Private, the girls (in my opinion) are not so "Service Oriented"... they every 5 minutes ask you if you come soon? you come? why you take long time? it gets a little tiring.....
although, I found a girl that stayed the distance at Lolitas.... 35mn non stop and not even 1 complaint!! she was a Gem (I am lazy to write a review about her). I am not going to give her name away (sorry) because I want her to be available when I go back 
See you Soon SOL....
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:17 pm on Dec. 8, 2006
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Thanks for the second good FR, NicF.
Glad to hear that you are enjoying the delights of SOL to the full.
Your third language may be English, but for me you do just fine, in fact a lot better than some who supposedly have English as their first, after Irish.
Thanks for your post dublindog. It really took me back to the time when I too was still mentally immersed in a society and culture in which the denial of freedom of speech and sexual repression were the order of the day.
Thank f*** that I was able to get out of it years ago and begin to appreciate women as they truly are and not be satisfied to take my pleasure minutely and so neglect the 98.5 % of being with a lady that was also on offer.
And yes, a visit to SOL is unique even if you go only once in a lifetime. However, the guys who go in there unblinkered and unshackled, seem to instantly become regulars for repeated and varied service. They seem to have managed to climb out of the cesspool of their sexual conditioning and are rewarding themselves deservedly.
Thanks to the ladies at SOL and thanks to all you guys who keep it in business for me to regularly dabble my dick in the multitude of pleasures available there.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 12:29 am on Dec. 9, 2006
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Quote: from NicFrenchy on 12:41 pm on Dec. 9, 2006
"but what if I don't come after 10mn? we stop and I don't come?" she said "I don't know"
Yeah, a lot of guys like either the privacy or the extra seediness (don't know which 555) of the bathroom and quite a queue can build up, so I guess the answer (for me at least) is just to do it on the sofa!!
Can't believe that she was too shy to answer that, since it goes on all the time. Maybe your question caught her off guard and she couldn't think of that, or a barfine. Anyway, bathroom or wherever, I have never seen anyone have to come out of SOL without ejaculating somewhere if they wanted to.
Another good report, NF, and good comments.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 12:30 am on Dec. 9, 2006
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Baskoy
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Quote: from Anhol Ding on 2:53 pm on Dec. 9, 2006
However, the guys who go in there unblinkered and unshackled,
I should hope so... we dont need that type. If you want that sort of behaviour get yourself down the road to Bar Bar or The Cave
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:06 am on Dec. 9, 2006
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When I first started going to this bar, I went because I like to get head, and SoL is a no-bullshit venue for fellatio. I have had a number of Thai girlfriends, and while some of them sucked dick great, some did not, and there have been times when I simply needed to scratch the itch.
Very early, though, I recognized that something was unique about this small, seedy bar: the girls were absolutely lovely people.
My first inkling was that the girls would be very welcoming, very warm, to me, and yet, if I needed to take a call, or if I did not have time for head, or whatever, they were very sensitive to my signals and to my needs, and never hounded me for lady drinks, to take "two ladies," nothing.
There was minimal jealousy displayed. If I wanted to "change lady," this was accepted with equanimity. I learned that there were rivalries among the ranks, however, and I learned to navigate these with sensitivity. My gestures of tact were recognized and gratefully acknowledged.
I contrasted the treatment that I received at SoL with that I received at Tilac, on SC, for example. There have been times that a virtual feeding frenzy of lady drinkage erupted there. I told the mamasan straight out that she had lost a good customer due to her refusal to keep her girls in line. Further, I resented the fact that I was forced to say "no," there. I flat out refused to pay a bill there, one time. Really not my scene.
That sort of thing never happened at SoL. Never. My bill was always accurate, never padded.
As I got to know the girls as people, learned about their lives, about their families, about the contending camps among the girls, the bar changed from a place where I went to get head to a place where I went to see my friends.
I often laugh at guys who sneer at the idea of being friends with bar girls. Bar girls are among some of my best friends. One of the nice things about relationships with bar girls is that they can be endlessly diverting, very funny, very poignant, very bittersweet. The entire gamut of human emotions rampages. And, you can often have sex with them, or with their colleagues and coworkers, or their cousins and sisters.
Anyway, this place, like any other place, is not for everyone. Like any other place, what you get out of SoL is very much a reflection of what you put into it.
It is just a nice little bar tucked away in a corner with some really lovely girls working there. They happen to specialize in fellatio, they happen to be very honest folks, and the pricing is very attractive.
SoL is my neighborhood bar, and I do not even live in that neighborhood.
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PS: As for a "ten minute limit" on the use of the backroom, I never heard of it. I have been in there on innumerable occasions, and we always just stayed for as long as we needed.
I do think that it is courteous, if you know that you will not be able to bust a nut without extensive and prolongued stimulation, to so alert the girl. Just tell her, "tilac, I am sorry, you are a lovely girl, and you suck so good, but I am very old, I am very fat, I am very tired, and I maybe cannot come."
She will look at you, she will nod and grin, and she will break out her best effort for you. Tell her that you would like "two ladies," so that she does not get too tired. She may ask you whom you prefer, or she may ask if she can include the next lady in the queue, who will almost certainly be a lady who has not had many customers that day. Be jai dee. Let her include that girl. You may be surprised by the skills of the new girl, and you may want to patronize her more in the future. I have learned about the ranks there in this fashion, and I have discovered that some of the girls that I found least attractive suck dick the best.
Further, the best way to attack the issue is to ask the girl to slow down. There is no need for her to work hard. She can suck at a leisurely, calm pace. By far, the best head that I have ever received at SoL came about because I asked the girl to just go slow, to suck quietly and in a relaxed fashion. There is something about a lovely girl taking her time, kneeling between my open thighs, with my erect and oiled cock in her hands, looking me in the eyes, smiling at me, talking with me, while she gives me head. Freakin' perfect.
Speaking only for myself, on those occasions when I think that I may not be able to bust a nut, I ask for Khun T*k, and for Khun B*e, and for Khun O*y. These girls are, by far, among the oldest and most experienced ladies there. They know their business, and they know men. Even when I am tired, they get it out of me, and there have been times that they actually escorted me home, and put me to bed. I have awoken some mornings to find that the girls cleaned my house while I slept.
They are lovely, lovely people.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:21 pm on Dec. 9, 2006
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Baskoy
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Quote: from ma9 on 8:45 am on Dec. 10, 2006
I have awoken some mornings to find that the girls cleaned my house while I slept.
Same thing happened to me last time I took two Katoeys home. I woke up and had been totally cleaned out
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:40 pm on Dec. 9, 2006
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Mel Gibson
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Baskaboy,,, in an Enematic way?
AHH the mind boggles, but the stomach churns and the throat tightens in a struggle to hold down my lunch.
Best moove on quickly.
Bye
Mel
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 10:50 pm on Dec. 9, 2006
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