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sirtitus
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... or maybe he chose her because of the person she is and her past is irrelevant....
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:05 pm on Jan. 3, 2007
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seajohn
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Personally, I would hate to think of my past as irrelevant.
I've got to accept the things I've done, both pleasant and painful. I've got to accept my lover for who she is. It's up to me to let the automatic machinery of my mind dwell on subjects in ways that enrage me, depress me, tear me to bits and cause me to hate myself and those dearest to me because we don't fit into my ideal world of who I imagine people should be......
Rolled up in a corner with my eyes shut and my arms trying to bury my head, chanting insane mantras to my ego. If I don't accept our lives, our histories, our perceptions, I'd go nuts perpetually attacked by phantoms which I have transformed into enemies. Why should these things surprise me, after all?
In my experience, each one of us needs to have this ability to some degree, or else life is a ping pong from one misery to the next. I truly think that this capability is what you are describing, brother sirtitus. Is it called Compassion, or is it called Love? And yes, you are right in that our power of decision is absolutely in the present.
I too have been acquainted with Khun T*k for years and I think she is a sweet girl, who probably has this ability more than most bargirls I've met. I wish her well.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 8:10 pm on Jan. 3, 2007
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NicFrenchy
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I wasn't especially talking about T*k, but in general.
This is my personal opinion and view, I am not looking for other to agree with me.
I just think that it is really difficult for a man to (knowingly) become the Boyfriend (or fiance, or husband) of a lady who has sucked thousands of dicks and got f***ed countless times (no disrespect to her, just the obvious truth, even if it was all business).
It also must be really difficult for her because if her boyfriend (or fiance, or husband) knows what she did, he will never look at her the same way he will look at an "innocent" woman. Yes, there may be love at first but in the long run I think one day or another that past will catch up.
anyway, it's just my opinion (and like my asshole I'm entitled to one LOL)
I wish her all the best and will certainly continue to Patronize SOL as much as I possibly can.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:25 pm on Jan. 3, 2007
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alice phallus
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No more T*k T*K rides eh? My heart sags, it really does.
Funny to feel part of a global wave of disappointment and goodwill towards that lady. To feel part of a fan club for a girl who did very personal things to us, with us, inside us. Us being more or less complete strangers from all walks of life but being on this forum, men of a certain disposition with a shared interest or two.
She was a star turn was T*k. A girl to remember to the end of your days. Even if you are only in yr 20s like some young forum chaps may be..?
Yes, you may laugh, but I am brave/stupid/shallow enough to admit I have forgotten about women I lived with for a couple of years quicker than I have forgotten one night with T*k and about a dozen SoL visits over the past 3 years or so?
That beautiful woman, she has the ability to really make your knees tremble and your spirits lift. A perfect panacea for life's stresses and strains; the role a perfect girlfriend would fulfill in a perfect world but rarely ever does for more than a short time anyway IMHO!
Personally I wish her all the very best and hope Mr BF treats her decently and she does same. I somehow can't imagine her cheating on him, she just seems too decent to do that.
Yes I know people say you can take the BG out of the bar but you can't take the bar out of the BG...etc
Maybe she will get bored, maybe she might actually hanker for a variety of men to perform with, maybe she's grown not only used to it, but thrives on it? Who knows, but she manages to do it so well one might wonder where she gets that great attitude from?
The other side of the point I find interesting, and a bit of a challenge is the one that questions if a girl like her can be in a normal relationship, with trust, sleeping with one man etc etc.
I started to think what about us men who have slept with 100s or 1000s of women like T*k in various bars, brothels etc maybe had tens of GFs they've slept with/lived with, a wife or two along the way, where do we stand as regards being able to operate blamelessly in a storybook marriage/relationship?
Your call gentlemen.
Alice
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 6:52 pm on Jan. 5, 2007
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Khun Tk became my friend for the past 4 years.. she helped me on her own time with immigration, buying of a truck, going to the hospital and many other things- she never wanted any money for helping me out.. I always paid her well for her loving services.
Was fun taking here out to dinner with some of my straight thai and farang friends, they always asked what she did for a job, she’d say she worked in p r in a big entertainment co, they all loved her..
She told me that she made 100k / mo. at SOL said many of her customers were very generous with her.. She had a beautiful home in the northeast it was an expensive house she had Toyota truck, she owed no money to the bank thanks to her job at SOL.. She and her mother were in the money loaning bis, making 5%/ month on the $ loanded out.. her child was going to a priviate school..
She is an increadable cock sucker, while she is deapthroating u she is licking ur balls at the same time, when u came she rubs the tip all over her face then licks around her mouth and then goes right down on u and sucks u dry..
I miss her mac mac
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 11:07 pm on Jan. 5, 2007
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ma9
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Now, David, that is the T*k that I have known and loved.
I happen to believe that the lady can leave her past behind. For her, it was work. Yes, she brought something very special to her work, and for many of us, our encounters with her embodied some element of the transcendent, and some of us, indeed, became friends. There is no doubt in her mind, nor in mine, that I am her friend, and I am proud to be in that category. Believe me, she knows the difference between a man who is her friend, and a man who is merely a customer. That some of her friends also happened to be customers, at times, and also happened to share moments of infinity with her, is just a fact, nothing more.
T*k is a very, very special lady. I have had long, long talks with her. She has sat in my house over whiskeys, and she has shared her dreams, her goals, her values, and her desires with me. I have shared my regrets with her, my fears, and my hopes. She has advised me sagely on a plethora of subjects, and particularly on affairs of the heart. She is smart, and she is wise, and she is honest. It cracked me up, one time, when I told her that a former gik of mine, a friend of hers, was angry with me. She asked me, "why? What you do wrong?" She presumed, of course, that I was the offender, but she apologized to me for this assumption after I explained the scenario, saying "you not wrong, darling. She wrong." My admiration for her, and my affection for her, and my respect for her, is immense. These emotions are somewhat separate from the fact that she was also a very giving, very tender, very sincere, and at times with me, a very rough lover. Had I never made love with her, and shared only whiskey and talk with her, I would feel those same emotions.
But because we did share all the spectrum of lovemaking, those emotions were of course affected, all in a positive fashion. Sometimes, T*k and I did f***. Like animals. And it was f***ing beautiful. Sometimes, we made love. This was sublime. The quality that resonated with me throughout was integrity. Some of us may find it ironic that a bar girl who is the star performer in a sucking bar can reek of integrity, but I assure you that this is the case. That some of us may be unable to imagine this, may tell us something instructive about ourselves.
Ah, T*k. The girl has made my bones ache, she has sucked me so hard after she already elicited a wrenching orgasm from me that she made my ass muscles cramp, and I cherish those moments, just as I do the memory of her sitting down in front of me, tucking her legs beneath herself, and tenderly, with great respect, taking me out of my pants, licking me to hardness, while she smiled deep into my eyes. T*k enjoyed the control that she wielded over men, she was a certifiable sexual adept, and this meshed with her being to a rare degree. When T*k made me hard, and then swallowed my cock down to the base, she did it with utter sincerity, and yes, it has to be said, she did it with love. Yes, she was on the ground, and I was sitting higher, in a chair. Yes, it was my cock in her mouth. She was in a submissive position, but we both knew where the true power resided. It was in her hands, not mine. Because I paid her, did that mean that I had power? I tell you, with that woman, I had none. Money or no money, sitting or kneeling, T*k was in the power position. She taught me about true power. And she wielded with with great grace.
The woman knows how to please a man, in spades.
Does this mean that she cannot exclusively love just one man? By no means. Though I must confess that my fear for her is that the commercial nature of her profession for the past five years may have damaged her ability to love. When I think about the magnitude of this possible sacrifice, my soul cringes. I think that it is inevitable that some numbing has occurred. How could it be possible to, as some have phrased it, suck thousands of dicks and f*** innumerable times, and not be affected? Perhaps because we think in this way, we imprison ourselves. I do not know.
Is it truly possible that the lady can separate what was a job for her, and what for us, from our cultural perspective, constitute acts of love, pregnant with significance and meaning? When T*k made love with me, there was no doubt in my mind that we were making love. That said, I had no illusions. I did not truly love her, and she did not truly love me. Her heart belonged to another, much like mine. Yes, it was her job. She had doubtless sucked many dicks earlier that day before me, and it was quite probable that she had f***ed another man. But that did not, somehow, miraculously, detract from the authenticity of the moments that we shared. It made no difference to me that I tucked money into her purse before she walked out of my house, leaving my home a little emptier, a little quieter, and immeasurably poorer. I always felt a sense of loss when she waved and walked away down my soi, gracing me with one last smile, telling me "take care of yourself, darling."
And that is my wish for her. Take care of yourself, darling.
I wish her all the happiness and joy that can be shared in this world, and I congratulate her husband on his perspicacity: the man has a genuinely great woman, I am pleased for him and envious.
There is no doubt in my mind that T*k will never f*** around on him. No way. She knows the difference between love, and work. Indeed, she knows far more about it than the vast majority of us here.
I consider myself privileged to have shared those times with her.
Some things, gentlemen....are the real deal.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:29 am on Jan. 6, 2007
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alice phallus
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As was the last post.
Maybe I had radar to have picked up on her special quality from only one overnighter? Or maybe I knew after 15 mins in a cramped little toilet in a sucking bar in PP2. Strange how and where gloriousness manifests itself aint it?
I don't think we are all deluding ourselves.
T*k, a toast to your health and happiness!
But I was hoping to get you and N*k to cum swap when next I got you two together. Oh, what might have been!!
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:36 am on Jan. 6, 2007
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Ballsburstin
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NiceFrenchy,
Re: "It also must be really difficult for her because if her boyfriend (or fiance, or husband) knows what she did, he will never look at her the same way he will look at an "innocent" woman. "
Depends, I guess, on the punter. What you find after spending years with a lady from the biz is that eventually that just all fades into the irrelevant past. Fun to swap stories about ladies and punters in the early years of the relationship, but eventually, those stories are no longer interesting, because you have so many new and shared experiences, which define who you are as a couple. For the punter to continue to be haunted by "her past" means he also hasn't taken a good, hard look in the mirror.
Also probably depends on the punter and his moral precepts. If one brought in strong Western and Judeao-Christian precepts, it might always be hard to get beyond those things. Me, I never really gave a rat's ass about what other people think of my moral code, so I'm never haunted by these kinds of things. And importantly, I don't care if someone else has a bigger Johnson than me, lol!
Anyway, I understand your point, because there are lots of punters that visit LOS every year and aren't able to transcend this kind of stuff.
- Balls
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:33 am on Jan. 6, 2007
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sandontoes
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over the years I never understood SOL- never understood why it should have almost as many pages as Eden club- but now it seems that everyone was talking about one girl I must have missed-- is there even less reason now to try the place again???
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 5:47 am on Jan. 9, 2007
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Joe Wood
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Not on your life.
There have been and there are many girls who have been written about in this thread.
Not just one, but many.
And yes, Khun T*k was special and unique in her own sweet and delectably delicious way.
But there are others there still who are a very good reason to make a visit to the bar.
I was talking to four of the top seven girls last night at a quiet period of the evening, before indulging in my favourite, so there are times when they are not so busy.
Try it.
See for yourself.
You never know.
You may be very pleasantly surprised.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:28 am on Jan. 9, 2007
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