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submale
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You forgot one point, namely, that all good subs like a bashing  Cheer up old mate, it looks like you've hit the turps with all those typos. No argument is worth getting so upset about.
I think aurum does make a good point. At the end of the day, BarBar is a business. If the clients are happy, the business survives and prospers. IMO, I think the management and Mamasan at BarBar do everything within their power to please their customers and that's why I'm so happy to promote it.
Therefore, lucky, feel free to keep "bashing" me as you put it. I've got thick skin. However, leave BarBar alone. Thailand might one day become a great centre of bdsm excellence and if it does businesses such as BarBar will be in the vanguard.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:46 am on Dec. 2, 2006
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lucky6666
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you are cute Submale. You always MUST have the last word. Ponderous and bombastic and holier than thou. But without typos I will give you that.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 1:22 pm on Dec. 2, 2006
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submale
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There are some new photos up at the Barbar site featuring the canes available at BarBar. I didn't see or make use of the cane when I was there, but this is yet another reason for sm enthusiasts to visit Bangkok's new home of bdsm. Go to the galleries and click on the picture story:
http://www.barbar-bangkok.com/
p.s. Lucky or whoever you are, peace mate. Don't let the bitterness eat you up. It is, afterall, nearly Christmas. Peace on earth, goodwill to men!
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:08 am on Dec. 19, 2006
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NicFrenchy
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Never really tried the BDSM stuff.... and don't really want to. Not that it's something I find repulsive, but it's a hobby I can't afford to have at the moment... haha
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 4:02 am on Dec. 19, 2006
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lucky6666
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And happy winter holidays to you too submale. Really, why do you always need to get the last word?
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 6:23 am on Dec. 19, 2006
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thailien
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I ventured into BarBar almost a year ago, shortly after it opened, bought the 900 baht drink and met the mamasan, Aaow I think was her name. She was quite cordial, and got a dom beating a little on a sub for my viewing pleasure, asking me to join in. But I was more interested in getting oriented to the place. The main thing that put me off was the lack of privacy. Everything seemed pretty much out in the open, so that any customer could walk in and watch what I believe should be very private activities.
I've done many B&D sessions in CA and NYC, where privacy was a cardinal rule. Each room was private, and only the lady and I knew what we were up to. Yes, these sessions were considerably more expensive, but I got so much pleasure from them that I felt the expense was worth it.
I'd love to get back into the B&D scene here in Thailand, where I've lived for 15 years enjoying only "vanilla" sex. B&D is still far and away my favorite fantasy, and I'm sad that for so long it has been only a fantasy. I like to play at being dominant with a willing submissive or two. Nothing too heavy or painful. I just don't want to do my thing in public. Is there any privacy available at BarBar?
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:02 am on Dec. 29, 2006
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submale
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"Is there any privacy available at BarBar?" - yes, there are rooms upstairs and, in fact, I was offered the opportunity to go upstairs very soon after I arrived. However, as I'm a bit of an exhibitionist, I stayed downstairs.
Your post seems quite thoughtful and I hope you find what you want in life.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:10 pm on Dec. 29, 2006
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thailien
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Quote from submale Dec. 30 '06
"Is there any privacy available at BarBar?" - yes, there are rooms upstairs and, in fact, I was offered the opportunity to go upstairs very soon after I arrived. However, as I'm a bit of an exhibitionist, I stayed downstairs.
Your post seems quite thoughtful and I hope you find what you want in life."
Thank you submale. You seem like a cool guy. Moreover, you and I would never fight over a girl in BarBar. I enjoy dominance as much as you enjoy submission. Here, you enjoy a huge advantage over me. The girls who work you over are practiced, professional (well, some of them?), know the ropes (so to speak), are in their home territory, and most are ready, willing and able to perform a great B&D or S&M session with/for/on you.
So pity me, the poor lost dom guy. I haven't done this stuff in 20 years! Not since I left America, with its hot D&S clubs in SF, LA and NYC. Anyone remember The Chateau, or Syd and Dora's, in Bay Area, CA, ca. 1980s? I was there, man! I was young then too.
But I haven't had a good old B&D session since, to the best of my memory, 1988. That's a long time to go cold turkey. I'm still addicted, happily to say.
I am also addicted to the astonishing sex scene in Bangkok and Pattaya, my sex life since 1992. This caused me to repress and try to forget about my cock's fondest belief that tying up a lovely girl before doing it to her is the sexiest pleasure possible.
So I finally broke down and actually went into BarBar. Almost immediately, I saw two lovely girls in very submissive positions. One had curled up on a table near the entrance. I petted her with interest as I entered.
The other had just started a little show, that the girls in BarBar do when a customer enters. The first beer may be 900 baht, (pay the guy downstairs) but at least I was not ignored. Miss Bua was the submissive babe being worked over lightly by three much less attractive dominant women. When I showed interest in their show, (hard not to, as it was right in front of me) I was invited to stand up and spank the bare ass of the babe in (light) bondage! Oh yes, I'll do that! While I was doing that, my left hand was guided to the bare breasts of the luscious girl under our control. One of the doms was stroking my cock while I was fondling the sub angel.
So yes, when the show was over and Miss Bua sat down beside me, accompanied by her three dominants, I had no hesitation in buying all of them a drink, @250 baht ea. This 1000 baht bonanza resulted in some unwanted attention from the doms. A couple of them claimed to be switches (doing both the dom and sub roles in a session), and the one to my left was pretty damn cute. Considerable pressure was put on me to go upstairs with two girls. I had to insist several times that I wanted only Bua, at 3000 for a 90-minute session. Tempted, but declined the cute switch (mamasan wanted 5000 for two girs, with 4000 whispered in my ear by the lovely Bua. I could understand her wish to go upstairs with me together with another girl. I would have wanted some protection too, in her position. But I was a hardass. I wanted only Bua, and pretended I could only pay 3000 for Bua. So I admire her courage in finally going upstairs alone with me, not knowing what I might do to her.
Tho I made several rookie mistakes while rigging her, and caused her more discomfort than I should have, she was a good sport and willing participant in the revival of my #1 sexual fantasy from its long dormancy. I hope to be better prepared for our second session.
I was delighted to find a much more developed BarBar than last year, tho more expensive than I anticipated.
I paid 900 for my first drink, 1000 for four lady drinks, and 3000 for 90 minutes in a private room with the slave babe. She demanded a tip of 1000 baht after our session. I was happy to shell out to compensate for the minutes I had her hogtied with my tape, my clothespins painfully clamped on her nipples (not to mention her subsequent "full service".) After our session, I was happy to hang downstairs in the main rooms, watching some very interesting goings-on, while happily cuddling and petting with my recent slave girl, while buying 2 more beers for 300 ea., and 250 for one more lady drink. So I spent 7,000 baht for a very good 3+ hours of reasons-for-living.
I hope to do it again.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 2:34 pm on April 7, 2007
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submale
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thanks very much for that - although your comments will draw the usual critics back. Have you seen the new Mistress/ sub page on their website? There are some great photos there: http://www.barbar-bangkok.com/
Best wishes,
submale
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:02 pm on April 8, 2007
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