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sirtitus
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Kaymanx,
A very good post there. I doubt you've treaded on anyone's toes with what you've written. It's not unusual to have cold feet when it comes to going to a BJ bar.
The first time I planned on going to SOL, I walked up and down Patpong 2 several times... passing the bar... trying to summon up the courage to enter. I chickened out and went home. But I next time I went back, I went in (heart pounding in my chest) ; not knowing what to expect.
I was treated very well. The woman is was with was very considerate and kind. She knew right away that it was my first time there. The kindness and patience shown to me (and the superb blowjob given to me) made me an instant lifetime member. Shame on me for not getting her name. She doesn't work there anymore.
Just as is written by myself and lots of other guys on this thread, when you become a regular at SOL, the girls become your friends (or your "angels" if you don't mind that terminology) and they treat you as you treat them - like gold. SOL is the only bar (blowjob or otherwise) for me in Bangkok. Simply because I feel very welcome there and I'm known (and often expected as well).
I highly recommend dropping by for a visit. If the concept of getting a blowjob in a bar turns you off, no problem. Barfine a girl (or two) and take her (them) to a ST room. You'll very much enjoy the experience, I've no doubt. The girls' pleasant attitude will assure that, not to mention their sexual prowess and ability.
Cheers,
Sir Titus
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:15 pm on May 29, 2006
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seajohn
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Nice post, Kaymanx, glad you've enjoyed this thread.
Actually, despite all the times I've been there and the fact that I'm greeted like an old friend everytime I pass by or enter... even then, I still about 50% of the time loiter around or walk past a couple times before diving in.
But this is not because SOL or the "concept" or the "reality" of a BJ bar offends me... No, quite the opposite. It is a point of psychology that humans often most fear what they are most attracted to!
Oh sometimes, it's just to sniff out who's there or not... but often it's just to prepare my mind for the amazing experience of nakedness and abandon that will surely ensue in a semi-public atmosphere.
The funny thing is, once I've made the decision to commit, and gone in and sit down, everything is so warm and relaxed, like entering another safer and happier world (of acceptance of all my pleasures), that I can't believe I ever hesitated.
Could be just due to my fear of flying. I even get nervous seeing other people up high.
Anyway, Kaymanx, again thanks for your honesty (one of the feelings I've definately seen promoted in SOL and in this thread!) and I hope you can go through with it sooner or later, if that's what you want. Your writing does indicate an allurement--however the decision is yours. But hey, no matter what happens in there, it certainly won't hurt you in the least!
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 9:07 pm on May 29, 2006
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Kaymanx
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This feels real good! Sir Titus saying you walked in the first time with your heart pounding. So I am not abnormal! Lol. And, both Sir Titus and Seajohn saying they walk up and down several times before taking the plunge. This is what I call kindred feeling. So all we men behave the same way, is that it? Thanks so much, this really does things to my feel-good factor, and acts like the reassuring that I need. Wow, I am almost feeling gutsy and eager now to enter that dreamworld. But, of course, like many experiences in Bangkok I must not make the mistake of going into a new place with expectation of a certain treatment or certain joy.
Seajohn, your observation: "once I've made the decision to commit, and gone in and sit down, everything is so warm and relaxed, like entering another safer and happier world (of acceptance of all my pleasures), that I can't believe I ever hesitated" is so apt. I have often felt that way at a few places that I frequent in BKK, where they welcome me like an old friend, despite which I hesitate to enter at times. You put that so well. Ahhh, lovely Sheba's comes to mind. And QCIII. And Country Road. These places know how to treat their customers. Nice, nice.
Thanks very much, Sir Titus and Seajohn, for your encouragingng advice and I think I am now planning already....
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:23 am on May 30, 2006
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seajohn
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I can claim not the credit for that feeling you appreciate, nor its result, not even the ability to articulate it--credit is due to the environment created over the years to the hostesses of Star of Light.
However--you're right in caution--don't expect a miracle--especially if it's your first time. The relaxation and immediate recognition and joy of you being a new face will be enough though. But be patient. Do try in the afternoon best, as previously suggested. More choices, more attention! No matter how strange it may seem for a few moments--don't worry--soon, bro Kaymanx, you'll be satisfied, and see and. almost as importantly, imagine the possibilities of later visits! It's really fun. Just say Yes.
As I said, it won't hurt...
And gosh, recalling these early feelings which I experience each time... I do believe I'll have to be paying another visit soon.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 9:33 am on May 30, 2006
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Joe Wood
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Kaymanx, thank you for that.
Your post has given an added dimension to this thread that was lacking before, namely the apprehension that most guys ( if they are honest with themselves ) feel before entering a blow-job bar for the first time.
Some guys choose to go with a friend or friends, with the declared intention of having a good time with their mates, but who use the company as moral support as well as peer pressure to see them through the experience, if they feel at any moment that they might want to back out.
The guy who goes it alone, may do so for any one of a number of reasons, the main one, in my opinion, and I could be wrong, is to preserve some sort of intimate privacy in the act which relates to their sexual history. Not only that. They know that they are breaking new ground in their sexual experience and are yet to know themselves how they will take it. And, not knowing the outcome, prefer to keep it to themselves.
For those guys well-versed in the participation of occurrences which have involved multiple partners or orgies or public or semi-public displays of sexual acts,
their entrance is less fraught with anxiety and fear or apprehension of the unknown.
And I must admit here, that going to a Blow-job bar anywhere in the world, including Thailand, can potentially be a very off-putting or depressing experience. Many bj bars are awful and their staff have not got a clue. But not here. Not the Star of light. It shines out like a beacon in the night. It throbs in the day.
And here, we are talking about the Star of Light. No other place. There is no other bar like it. And it is unique in its excellence.
A first timer can go into the bar and have a beer. He'll be approached by a lady or two. And if he wants to just take it easy and have time to get accustomed to his surroundings and not have a blow-job straight away, then all he has to do it kindly but decisively inform the ladies that he would just like to enjoy his beer first. The ladies will accept that...even welcome that. They might even leave him to drink on his own, if they think that that is what he wants.
But he may decide, having looked around and seen some girl he likes the look of and would like to know more, to ask her if she would like to join him for a drink.
( be ready for the business reply, but insist that you mean what you say, a drink.) She will be pleased to drink with you and to talk with you.
And then, you take it from there, slowly, deciding whether you want to have a blow job at all and if you do, whether you will have it on the bar stool, on one of the couches, in the back room or at a near-by short-time hotel.
You are in control.
You are the customer.
The customer is always right (?).. sort of.
The ladies are there to make you feel pleased, satisfied and happy with their provision and want you to feel that you will return to the bar soon....for seconds, thirds and more.
You can go this slowly.
However if this is your chosen passage of introduction to the bar, don't be put off by a fellow customer leaping into the bar in the middle of your conversation, pulling his trousers down and demanding that he be sucked off there and then. You may rightly assume that this is not his first visit. Likewise, if you see another customer quietly being attended to by a lady in the corner of the bar, don't assue that it is his first time as well. He may very well be on his 1000th.
A lot of the guys go for one or possibly two ladies that they like and have developed a customer/provider service relationship, some even friendship and in a few cases even more.
If you go with the same girl more than once, this does not prevent you from being serviced by another at some other time, or even on the same visit. They do not lose face publicly, merely because they are so accommodating and know that each lady is there for business and they support and encourage one another in their tough line of work.
Loss of face does occur though, at other times in the bar, though this is rarely shown, if at all, since business comes first, and the bar's reputation is a priority.
I wont repeat myself this time, since there is so much to read on this thread, but I will say that the ladies at the Star of Light give the best blow-jobs ever in any bar. Their teachers are extremely qualified and highly skilled professionals.
But what makes the bar so good, besides the supremely obvious of being highly skilled in the oral arts of fellatio, is the laid-back, happy attitude of the service provider to the customer and the relaxed manner in which business and the performance is conducted, that the established members of the team of ladies train and encourage to develop in the new girls during their induction period. There is charm ; there is care ; there is humour and compassion ; understanding, interesting conversation and exchanges of ideas and insightfulness.
If any big, international company wanted to give their top executives a bit of real training and professional development in the ways of what they hideously call "people management", they couldn't go to a better place than the Star of Light to witness quality and to settle on a benchmark for all to attain.
As for the ladies themselves, there are all sorts of ladies amongst the 20 or so there. A lot of them look very young, but they are all of an age to legally work in a bar. There are a few ladies, and some gems amongst them who are not in their early to middle twenties. There are slim ladies and not so slim ladies. Ladies well-endowed and ladies who possess a body to die for.
The bar has rules for the ladies, even though it pays them no salary. It is drug-free and theft free. It is a safe place to visit, although there are occasional times usually in the evenings, though rare, when a customer. too juiced up, makes a nuisance of himself in the bar before he is quietly escorted out of the place.
But all this, you most probably know already.
What your post touched on,but never expounded upon, was the mental and spiritual leap from a stance of the previously known and practised private intimacy of a sexual encounter to one of equal physical intimacy but without the privacy and the very real prospect of your encounter being viewed by others, and possibly publicly applauded and praised, coupled with a little voice in your head which screams out to you that your performance might be ridiculed or laughed at, but which, after the first few seconds of a mouthful, quickly sinks back into silence, as you are warmly and wetly assisted to ride the waves of heavenly pleasure.
Personally, if I were you,I'd take the leap into the Star of Light. You'll never turn back.
If you don't, you will always have that nagging feeling that you might possibly have missed out on one of the greatest experiences of your lifetime.
Let's boil it down to the basics.
The ladies are there, waiting for you, wanting you to come.
Take a deep breath.
Then, shallow breathing and start to walk.
Think that you are only going for a beer, that you have no intention of having a blow-job and that you will just see what the interior of the bar looks like.
Step into the bar.
Sit down.
Enjoy a beer.
And then decide to....................
Enjoy it all.
You only live once.
Joe Wood
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 9:54 am on May 30, 2006
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Joe Wood
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If I catch the guy who writes these bloody long posts, I'll..................................oops !
Another Tiger, please !
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:12 am on May 30, 2006
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Kaymanx
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Joe Wood,
Honoured that you devoted so much time and effort and, more importantly, precious sentiment in pouring out a generous mug of -- Tiger, shall we say. Your devotion to SOL and to its angels shines clearly through your post -- as indeed does others', like Sir Titus and SeaJohn. What is happening here is fantastic : grateful patrons doing the promotion of an institution that is quite clearly a legend.
As they say, good begets good, and it is to the credit of SOL and its workers that their name is shining far and wide, and mega bytes of cyberspace are being filled with their saga.
But, as in all things innately good, it takes seasoned critiques to appreciate the aesthetics of art. I have been convinced ever since my first few trips to LOS that Thais possess a rare art in sexual healing of the mind, spirit and body, the true worth of which is not appreciated by a hypocritical world. It is good that your post contains many notes of caution for I have often been disappointed, in the midst of tranquil experiences, such as a massage for example, by loud intrusions by insistent or newbie customers who fail to realise that peace is often the reason many people patronise massage parlours or quiet bars.
Forewarned is forearmed. But now, with all this elucidation I am certainly -- ahh -- aroused. Yes, the transition from an intimate experience in privacy to a unique experience without privacy does fill me with trepidation, specially in these days of multi-feature mobile phones. But I think I will be padding up now while I await my next trip to paradise.
Thank you, again, Joe and all, for an inspirational discussion. More strength to you all.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:16 pm on May 30, 2006
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Kaymanx
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SeaJohn,
that's a valuable tip. Afternoon. Thanks.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:19 pm on May 30, 2006
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seajohn
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Quote: from Kaymanx on 1:09 am on May 31, 2006
I have been convinced ever since my first few trips to LOS that Thais possess a rare art in sexual healing of the mind, spirit and body, the true worth of which is not appreciated by a hypocritical world.
You put that very well, Kaymanx, very clearly and succintly defining one of the important virtues that Thai culture offers our human race on Earth. I will remember it in my one of my less happy moments when I am questioning the value of my presence here.
"...not appreciated by a hypocritical world."
No, and even the Thais themselves have some trouble understanding and accepting it. But not in SOL they don't! 555
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 10:07 pm on May 30, 2006
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sirtitus
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Cheers, Kaymanx.
We all just write it as we see it and experience it. Praise for the SOL is unending... deservedly so.
All the recent writings and readings have got my own desires reaching the boiling point.... time for a trip to Patpong 2 for me.
A sensual, sexual, satisfying afternoon awaits me.
SOL.... here I cum!
Sir Titus
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:15 pm on May 30, 2006
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