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fastmover
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Thursday, October 2, 2003
Guides to foreign lovers cause a stir.
Two books, co-authored by a Canadian and a Briton, are offering advice to Chinese anxious to find western partners.
Chinese women should wear black or red lingerie, and skirts for easy removal, to add some spice to their sex lives with foreigners.
And Chinese men who find themselves in a sexual relationship with western women should learn how to talk dirty.
These are just two pieces of advice to be found in two recently published books that are causing a stir on the mainland.
They introduce such concepts as the 10 easiest places to meet foreigners, including the workplace, bars, hotels, supermarkets and markets.
The books are published in Chinese but a selection of recommended chat-up lines are introduced in English, such as "Let me guess which country you're from", "Do you think Chinese girls are attractive?" and "Will you tell me an English joke to see if I'll laugh?"
The authors offer advice to help readers assess whether a foreigner is wealthy, and warn them not to be lulled into a false sense of security just because they see their foreign partners spending lavishly. The incomes they earn in China could be just an average sum in their own countries, or even as low as a cleaner's, they say.
They did not write the books because they believed that Chinese people ought to or wanted to marry western people. "That's not at all our feeling. Instead, we saw that more and more western people were being drawn to this great country, and so interaction between western people and Chinese people becomes inevitable."
He said he thought people would like the books because they were by westerners writing for Chinese people. "And that's very rare. Nearly every western book we've seen in China has been written by westerners for other westerners, and then translated into Chinese."
He believed cultural barriers were far from insurmountable. He said he was prompted to write the books as he had always found Chinese people to be curious about people from other cultures and countries.
The books were released this week and a total of 5,000 copies have already been bought by bookstores. Their popularity would stem from the fact the authors used very direct language. "It's very detailed and is really a directory for anyone wanting to marry a westerner," she said.
Li Xingzhen, a 25-year-old Shanghai woman, said she was keen to read the new publications.
"A majority of Shanghai people want to marry a foreigner and live abroad because we know that foreigners earn more than us, they are more respectful to each other, and their living environment is better."
She said that she believed many people would read the books to help them track down foreign lovers.
But Zhao Chen, a 26-year-old researcher at a science academy, said he would not be buying as he had no desire to marry a foreigner. "I am far too patriotic to ever think of that," he said.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:22 pm on Oct. 2, 2003
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Gungho
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how i wish someone could write how to attract Iranian women
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 12:09 am on Oct. 3, 2003
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fastmover
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I suspect it would not be to big a seller.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:15 am on Oct. 3, 2003
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Metaliclink
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I love chinese people, women especially, but it would take more than red or black undies and a skirt thats easy to take off for me to marry one!  especially how this book just points out that money is the main reason for them to seek out a foreigner
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 9:16 pm on Oct. 6, 2003
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fastmover
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Hi guy. Do you think every Chinese girl is only after money. Maybe you could find a nice one from Hunan, as long as you had a cow or two. I keep a couple cows handy just incase I get lucky.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:25 pm on Oct. 6, 2003
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caronte
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And after the series " PC for dummies " now we go with " Get your foreign 1-0-1 "....we are living in a world full of crap! (amazing: there are actually people buying this crap!)
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:32 pm on Oct. 6, 2003
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fastmover
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Whats fair is fair.
We are using this forum to get the inside scoop on TG's.
What if there was a forum like this for BG's to get the scoop on sex tourists. (Maybe there is-don't know)
Of course if their English was good they could read this one, but if they had one to discuss the finer issues, like which guys have the biggest dicks, or the biggest wallets.
The Chinese book just tells Chinese girls how to get a Western guy. There is one for Chinese guys on how to get a Western girl. Nothing serious.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:40 pm on Oct. 6, 2003
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caronte
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Brother Fastmover,
there is a great difference between a forum where ppl exchange ideas on how to have fun/sex with girls and a book/forum where girls plan how to get married with a wealthy farang!
I think none of our bros walk around Bangkok telling every TG he meets " I love, marry me! ".......it's a matter of fair play: we (men) are straight and honest (fun comes firts), we don't say the magic words (i luv u) thinking about wallet, credit card, house etc.......
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 9:48 pm on Oct. 6, 2003
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China Sailor
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That is not the only book for pick-ups out there. Last week a friend in ZhuHai showed me a book called "English for Lovers". My favorate line from the book - "Lie Down, I thnk I love you" the Chinese translation converts to "Lets go to bed, I want to make love with you." - Two totally different perspectives.
Moral: If she says something off beat, try to get another phrasing for it. These canned English pharses that some Chinese use are really poorly translated.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:30 pm on Oct. 6, 2003
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