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Arramsey
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This is really upsetting.
As some of you might remember, I am currently "sponsoring" a mainland Chinese girl. Although she now resides in her hometown in China she is currently on a 3 month visit to Bangkok ( for my benefit and for hers !!! ).
We still maintain her apartment in Huay Kwang so that she has a place to stay when she visits Bangkok.
On one of my visits to her apartment, a friend of hers ( Chinese girl from her hometown ) was visiting her along with her daughter who is about 12 years old.
This friend came to Bangkok about 14 years ago, worked ( and still works in the Massage/Sex business ), married a Thai and for all intents and purposes has settled down here.
During the conversation, I was suprised to know that the daughter had never been to school and there was no thought or plan of her ever attending school. When I asked why, the mother first said that they could not afford school. I then told her that public schooling was free in Thailand, but she countered that her daughter did not have a Thai ID card. But when I explained to her that since the father is Thai the daughter could very easily get an ID card and also free schooling - then the true story came out :-
The mother has already decided that the daughter would go into the Massage / Sex business and since this requires only the use of her body and not her brain the mother sees no use in wasting time and money on schooling.
I was devastated to realise that children could be deprived of a better future just because of their parent's ignorance.
And then it struck me that maybe they are right and I am wrong. What makes me think that my "values" are right ? What makes me think that everyone in the world should follow the path that I walked ?
Could it not be that their decision is right for their daughter in their circumstances ?
I am willing to concede this - BUT I am extremely depressed.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:56 am on Sep. 17, 2004
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jack attack
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It may be everyone's business! Seriously consider getting in touch with the authorities. If what they said is true, they are grooming the girl for a big payday from her first experience because she is (presumably) a virgin.
This stuff really p*sses me off. People like that have no respect for human life and its the life of their daughter. If the girl makes a decision on her own in the future (18 yrs or older) it is completely different.
I am curious what your GF thought of this? Now I feel depressed as well.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 3:13 am on Sep. 17, 2004
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Arramsey
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Jackattack,
My "GF" initially tended to think that it was OK for girls but not for boys !!!!- I guess thats the way they are brought up.
But after the guests had left I sat her down and asked her, "Now that you are out of the Massage / Sex business, what do you want to do with your life ?" & she answered that she would like to work in a Department Store or Office. I then explained to her that to do that she has to have at least a High School Diploma if not a University Degree - and then reality hit her.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:44 am on Sep. 17, 2004
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shark68
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Arramsey
I have read a lot of your posts and realized that you seem to have a good heart and are a very tolerant person.
You should not beasking yourself in face of a situation like THIS, if they might be right in their decision for the girl.
Of course if I try hard, I can put myself almost into everybody's shoes, even mass murderers (bad youth,mantally unstable etc etc)
but I refuse to understand some kind of people.
This is the case here as well. We are all seasoned guys, who are knowing the p4p scene. This is not a job like any other.
Of course there are a lot of parents out there, who force their kids into careers from craftsman to ballerina, but already here I disapprove. Kids are innocent, they have a right to get the best of choices. Parents should give them the best of choices, always according to their (economical) circumstances/possibilities.
IMHO sending a kid into the p4p scene or planning its p4p future is UNACCEPTABLE!
Get real, Arramsey! This decision is under NO circumstances the right decision for a kid.
I am not depressed, I feel anger against these f%§*#g parents. 
shark68
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 3:52 am on Sep. 17, 2004
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Arramsey
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Shark68,
Apart from my sadness, I felt ( and still feel ) even more anger than you - remember I was there.
So far I have not described the daughter, because I did not want that to affect the discussion.
BUT - she is such a happy, innocent, playful, laughing delightful child.
Reporting the parents to the authorities may be OK in Western countries where the State may give the child a better life - BUT I am not sure that will be the case here. In fact I am afraid that if the authorities take over the child may face an even bleaker future.
However, tomorrow I am meeting with a Social Service Agency that takes up such cases - I will evaluate whether they will be good for the daughter and then hopefully arrange a pleasant transition.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 4:09 am on Sep. 17, 2004
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shark68
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My idea about you that I have derived from reading your posts is right. 
shark68
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:22 am on Sep. 17, 2004
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S05
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Good luck tomorrow,reading your moments with this mother,I do think you should try at least to get the daughter out of harms way.
I would think mother is excpecting a big payday by offering a pure girl ti the highest bidder.
Its made me rather sad as I`m helping a Viet girl in Phnom Penh,same deal,schooling ect and she is 23,
and more.
cheers S05.
Kone Ling.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:23 am on Sep. 17, 2004
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Gungho
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Maybe adoption would be a best option. Think about it.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:25 am on Sep. 17, 2004
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BigDUSA
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It's best not to get involved in the private lives of sex workers.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 4:27 am on Sep. 17, 2004
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S05
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The kid is only 12 Big D, and she is not a sex worker !!!!!
Read again the post,her mother is setting her up for it !!
S05.
kone Ling.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:30 am on Sep. 17, 2004
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