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Thumper
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Here is a question for all your long time residents and/or frequent visitors to the kingdom. Do you find yourself on a downward spiral of sexual perversion and depravity? This is an honest question I’m asking as I see this happening to me.
First a little personal background might be in order so as to give some perspective. I’m a west coaster for the good ole USA. I’m in my mid 30’s and been in the kingdom for over a decade now. Got myself an almost wife, a beautiful Thai girl, she is an executive and has her own career/money. Got a nice place of my own and am pulling down a very nice salary, my job is not overly taxing either. All in all life is good.
When I first arrived in Thailand I did the usual rounds for the first few years. Go Gos, MPs, clubs and freelancers etc was the norm. After a short while I found that my view of the world was changing slowly but surely. Suddenly, it was normal to have a threesome with two beautiful ladies on a Tuesday afternoon. How about a quick stop in a BJ bar around noon for a relaxing interlude on my way to a business meeting, sure why not? My weekends were starting to resemble a fairly decent porn movie with me as the star and I’m not even fazed. But this is not enough.
Soon the challenge of picking up semi-pro Uni students ensues; a collection of non-pro giks has been added to my regime as well. Add a few full blown orgies to round out the mix and add some flavor. I’m giving serious thought dedicating a planner just for my depraved activities, and again this is normal.
I won’t go into detail about the myriad of sexual acts I’ve participated in, acts that most people only dream about in the good old West. I’m sure that the phrase “teabagging” conjures very different images for me than the average Joe. But hey, that’s a good thing I guess.
Where do I go from here? When will enough be enough? Have I become a pussy junkie? If so, I can think of worse places to be. How can I ever go back to the monotony of the US? What do you think brothers? Does anyone understand my plight?
I am forever, tragically skewed.
Thumper
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:25 pm on Aug. 22, 2005
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LocalYokul
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WTF is this doing under FRs  ??
newbie questions seems more appropriate
and YES
the trio of gals in bed, so that you have to sleep width-wise on the bed
the blow jobs while standing by the door of your local
the trips to Eden for takeout
sex in the pool at your hotel where all the other patrons can see
tag team sex with a mate, then swapping chicks to do it all over again
spit roasting a couple of chicks in Pattaya, after swapping a couple of chicks just hours before 
dropping off one GIK at the bus station only to pick up another 30 minutes later and start having sex again 
waking up at 2am, 3am, 4am, 5am, and 6am wake-up for another slice of that hairless pie
(i've since gotten into shaving around their pussy lips, but leave the mound  )
hmm, the list goes on, but I'm sure you can see the Pussy Addict trend
and not just any pussy, but TG pussy
but I considered it an UPWARD spiral
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 9:01 pm on Aug. 22, 2005
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Frank La Rue
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Thumper,
Not everyone will agree but it sounds like you are ripe for reading "Travels With Frank"
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:06 pm on Aug. 22, 2005
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scobie
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I think it's the opposite.
When it's handed to you on a plate and all you have to do is nod to get laid, the attraction wears pretty thin pretty quickly.
Where is the challenge? Isn't that part of the predatorial fun?
Kids in sweetshops start to feel sick quickly.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 9:22 pm on Aug. 22, 2005
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LocalYokul
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challenge ??
that's the point of having GIKs (non P4P)
and the UniGals is an even greater challenge, unless of course you're paying them, then you're just P4Ping with non BGs who are still whores in sheep's (student's) clothing
the challenge is to have as many GIKs as you can without them finding out about one another
or finding ones who don't care how many others there are
and that my friend is the difficult part ;-}
oh, and a GIK 3some is something that's a bit of a challenge
but mostly because of the jealousy that can culminate from it 
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 9:34 pm on Aug. 22, 2005
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Abrak
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I certainly emphasise with Thumper here.
My thoughts:
(1) My guess is that sexual morals have changed the world over following the mobile phone and the internet. While we tend to think all the sexual freedom we experience in LOS is confined to LOS, I suspect otherwise. 15 years ago 3somes, g2g action, anal, even BJs were a bit of a rarity - now I think just about everyone is doing it.
(2) Long term residents who are not in a permanent relationship, usually get bored of the p4p scene pretty quickly. The regular TG/gik scene offers far more challenge, excitement, performance and satisfaction than the p4p scene.
(3) Once you are a sex addict it is nearly impossible to break out of the cycle. I believe that this is because sex is pretty much the best fun you can have between 2 human beings. As such, it is difficult to give up and it is difficult to justify giving up.
(4) Holding together long term monogamous relationships once you become a sex addict is pretty futile. You will get caught and if monogamy is at the root of the relationship, the relationship is bound to flounder. The best course of action is either (1) to remain permanently single or (2) to find a girl who is prepared to put up with your philandering so long as you remain committed to the relationship (this second option is not as difficult as most people think).
(5) I disagree with LY on one point. Most Giks I know dont give a toss that I have other giks - I am sure they have their giks too. Seems to me everyone stopped pretending a couple of years ago.
I do however agree with LY on the gik 3some point - it is difficult to do without it ending in tears one way or another.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:54 pm on Aug. 22, 2005
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sirtitus
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Pussy junkie? Interesting concept.
That would be the guy who lies to and steals from his friends and family, sells all his stuff, and begs on the street for loose change. All so that he can afford the next barfine at Nana.
"Can you spare 10 baht, buddy? I'm in desperate need of a blow job". 
However, I do agree that the availability of sex in LOS does lead to a far more active and interesting sexlife than back in the West. But I certainly don't see it as a problem.
Can't have too much pussy.
SirTitus
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:56 pm on Aug. 22, 2005
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philly
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I think posts like this are trolls who are trying to inject some right wing morality into a pussy forum.
Downward spiral? Toward what? Why are you here?
Junkies don't moralize about the evils of heroin, they would give anything to get some more.
Or maybe I just don't want to admit that I'm vacant and immoral and not really enjoying this. 
phil
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:07 pm on Aug. 22, 2005
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Thumper
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Local,
I guess I should have excluded you from this question as you are already waiting at the bottom of the sprial looking up. I do mean that in the nicest possible way.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 11:16 pm on Aug. 22, 2005
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thaiprivateeye
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.. Dont quite know in my case whether its the age thing - or, as I tend to think, somehow related to producing an offspring... but after that occurence, my need for TGs /P4ps sort of diminished.
Yes thumper, I went thru a stage of 'arai godai' - and of course as we all know, provide you have a few $ and are reasonably looking, you dont have to look too hard in LOS to find a TG or 3 to say "arai Godai" - [ do what you like / anything goes ] - but for sure you get to a stage when you have been down most avenues.
A sign is when you almost prefer, when you take some Newbie Mates to a Go-Go bar, to watch the guys reactions, rather than look at the girls themselves ! -
In the end it took a real cutie, and also one that was obviously 'fresh' to the P4P scene, to do anything much for me ; I only was getting buzz out of being able to spot the young sister, friend, or little TG short of the months rent, who I termed a 'Fringedweller' - or a Trainee P4p, - who was new in town, and more often than not hadn't been with the 'farang" before - of course by the time I did finally reach that stage - my 'youthful ?? ' good looks had gone, and having to rely simply on a bundle of $ to convince some TGs to come with you - just isnt the same, as you like to think that they are going to put a bit of 'heart' into the performance ! -
Anyway, sounds like you have a few years to go yet before you get to that stage, - if you do need an additional challenge, get a map of Thailand, and start sticking a pin into each province youve scored a TG from, wont take long to cover I-sarn, but finding some from a few of the southern provinces can test you a bit !
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:35 am on Aug. 23, 2005
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