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laidback
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guys: Let me tell you this. After reading massages on this board. I may be "alone" in this regard. I am married for 15 years. In my life I NEVER had a sex with any girl other than my wife. Is that "bad"? I am tired of cold sex and love to visit Pattya and BKK. I can't wait. Man you guys are enjoying life and having good time.
I am not sure when I will go? ( or come to BKK). Because I have to come up with some excuse.
Can you belive I never had sex with any other woman.
I would love to sleep with Thai, White, and Hispanic woman.
I live in US. ( Asian Indian.)
Any comments or suggestions.
Any of you guys like me that had sex with just one woman - or wife only??
Interested to see how maney?
Thanks
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:04 pm on Jan. 24, 2003
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Chompoo
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Well, you're not going to find many posters here who have only slept with one woman, but there are plenty of lurkers who are in the same situation (often a lot worse) than you. However, I'd say a good number of us at one point in our lives had slept with only one woman, so it's nothing to feel bad about.
We've talked before on the morality (and rationale) of cheating on your wife and family, so we don't need to go into that again.
However, it is very easy to get a hyped up view of prostitution (even in Thailand) from this board. After experiencing it for themselves many people find it's not all they thought it would be. Sometimes, it's bad luck, other times they just don't have the character for it. Try to keep a little perspective.
By the way, there is no reason you can't get your feet wet a little bit in the states before you take the major step of going to Thailand. Yes, it will be more expensive and probably very different, but it may tell you a lot about yourself and what you really want (and whether you're capable of living the life without endangering your family).
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 1:44 pm on Jan. 24, 2003
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BoomARang
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After sleeping with the second women in my life, I found out that having sex with more than just one woman, or the woman I was in a relationship with at any given point in time had more to do with me and what was going on inside me more so than it had to do with having sex with multiple/many women.
Sure, there are women that can "rock your world" but then again, maybe you and your wife could learn to rock each other's world. Since you are both each other's first and have only each other to learn from, maybe a discussion between the two of you as to how you might expand or experiment with new things might be an idea?
You might try the various books available that discuss and describe different methods and positions with some of the books being similar to school "homework" books in which different things are described and even shown and the both of you can rate each one with a desirability level and then try. Also, watching some porno videos together may be useful, purely from an educational point of view of course. ;)
The important thing is to try to talk to her and if it isn't doing it for you, it may be the same for her. Talk to each other to find out why it's not working. But be prepared, it may be something she needs from you to thaw the coldness.
15 years is a big investment. If things are working out otherwise, sex is the easy part to fix!
Ichi
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:39 pm on Jan. 24, 2003
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afm171
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Laidback,
I don't think it is "bad" to have only slept with one woman, but if it makes you unhappy to wonder what you are missing, you probably need to find out. It may or may not be everything you imagined, but only direct experience will tell you that. You should recognize that following through on these kinds of activities can put your relationship at risk, then again it may help...
As for coming up with an excuse, here's an idea:
- tell her your boss invited you to go on a fishing trip, also tell her that you don't really like fishing, but it might be good for your career, then she'll urge you to go. Call her when you are changing planes and explain that you are at a gas station on the way to your bosses fishing cabin, there are no phones at the cabin so you can't give her a number, and it's too remote so your cel doesn't work... sorry honey, see you next week...
I'm going fishing at the end of May 
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 4:10 pm on Jan. 24, 2003
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ABC
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MrJoe:
Isn't that the same thing Bill Clinton said about Monica?? Can you please define what having sex means?? ha ha ha ha!!!
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:46 pm on Jan. 24, 2003
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TaoHuaNgu
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Just make sure you don't lose your perspective. Far too many guys come over here and on their first trip "fall in love" with the young firm cute commercial sex worker that has given them the best sex they have had in decades (or ever) ... forgetting the family and life they have back home. Come and play but make sure you note all the posts about how difficult it is to sustain relationships with in LOS. Keep it fun and try it all when you finally get here.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:16 pm on Jan. 24, 2003
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MrJoe
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Good comments from all (except for that smartass MrJoe guy) but I think Tao Hua Ngu makes an especially important warning considering Laidback's situation/inexperience.
Be Careful.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 9:31 pm on Jan. 24, 2003
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rami
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laidback,imho I think you lucky guy.....i wish I can be like you, but even when I loved my ex ex ex GF and stay with her for 5 years I cheated on her....:-(
I'm sure many guy on this forum will be surprised,but I do want family and kids,however one of the reasons not to do it,is a fact that I'll cheat on my wife and lie all my life.
Hmmm this topic made me sad....
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:53 am on Jan. 25, 2003
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, definitely more than one