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ThaidUp
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Yeah the old decent girl arguement. If you only knew what the scene is happening in most univeristies in Thailand. Most and I mean most TG's there are juggling a minmum of two and upwards to 4 guys. A lot have the 'boyfriend' that Mums and Dad's approve of, meanwhile he is not getting any because she is a good girl.
Then during the weekends it is off for sex and 'E' parties with their Gik of the month. I thought I seen tall Thai tales with BG's, but they are put to shame by the professional uni-girls.
The path of searching for the good girls is just as hard as find the diamond in the rough in BG's.
Yeah you will need to learn at least to speak and understand Thai as many of these girls do not have a good grasp of English. Most are not that interested in farangs of any sort other than a curious sexual romp and like to continue juggling their Thai boyfriends and Thai Giks.
So don't let the facade of the nice uniform fool you. The 'decent' girls are getting f***ed every day and night just as much as the BG's and to make matters worse most of this is done with out any condoms.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:07 am on July 21, 2006
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Minder
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Of course, all of us can only speak from our own experiences. Abrak for example would have shared ThaidUp's view.
However I think that is talking more about the rich kids set - IMO that non-traditional behaviour is far less evident in the working class and lower middle class kids, even in Bangkok.
As to the idea that "good" Thai women are not interested in farangs except as a curiosity.
Prior to meeting me; my wife worked in an office of a huge clothing factory. The canteen area of that place is like an aircraft hanger filled with tables.
About 2 thousand women, mostly young women, in two distinct camps, the "sewing girls" and the "office girls" - were you to walk in and annouce on the PA (in Thai) that you were accepting discreet applications for the "job" of your wife - and I mean this seriously, you'd probably get at least a couple of dozen "applications".
The good girls are not hard to find but you have to look in the right places and the places we all love are not the right places. Enjoy.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 3:58 am on July 21, 2006
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Joe Wood
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To quote my forum brother Minder :
About 2 thousand women, mostly young women, in two distinct camps, the "sewing girls" and the "office girls" - were you to walk in and annouce on the PA (in Thai) that you were accepting discreet applications for the "job" of your wife - and I mean this seriously, you'd probably get at least a couple of dozen "applications".
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Funny you should mention this particular strategy, one that I chose to employ in my first week in Thailand those many years ago.
It happened to be the first week of the 1st.Gulf War and being a farang was taken to be an American.
I walk with what looks like a John Wayne swagger, but this is more down to the amount of imbibing I have done in the previous 12 hours..
I had made the big mistake of choosing a bottling plant for hair conditioner and deciding to make the anouncement myself.
Remembering that I left the place covered in goo, laughingly thrown at me by 2,000 women plus an application in hand from the manageress of fifty odd years, I would never recommend this course of action, unless you can get someone else to announce it for you, while you are off-site.
Another important point is to choose your place of work well. Have in mind the possible reactions of fun-loving ladies bored out of their minds by menial and repetitive tasks all day grasping the opportunity to relieve their boredom.
If I were to try to again, I would avoid all forms of food, liquid or fluid production plants as well as any that are producing anything hard or dangerous, like ball bearings or explosives.
However, I managed to escalate from that experience and modify it.
And so, I can recommend, to those members who manage to see an amount of wear and usage as good experience, to try this in a number of soapies or oil massage parlours, calling out a number of girls from the fish-bowl just for five minutes for a chat, 200 baht to the papasan or mamasan which they will greedily accept, without telling them of your intention.
You'd be surprised just how many girls are fed up with the job and would prefer to soap just one member full time for a considered return each month.
Of course for those members who are seasoned veterans and know what's what, the best places to do this are in the blow-job bars.
Miracles do happen.
And choosing a live-in provider / GIK / girl-friend / wife / partner is no casual or simple matter. It takes considerable care and attention to detail to know that you are choosing someone who has the necessary skills and knowledge to be able to make you happy, as well as you, her.
The other slight consideration is difficult for all forum members to grasp and that is that there is just a little bit more to life than a good massage and a thorough f***ing and sucking. You might be tempted to say,'not much more'. But then the simple things in life are what it's all about, like loving someone and being loved for what you are and not for what you have or what you do.
A last note : If you do decide to make the announcement in a factory yourself, wear protective clothing and a helmet with goggles. In a soapie or oil massage parlour you can afford to dispense with these precautions. You have to keep in mind just what sort of impression you are making on potential candidates.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:55 pm on July 22, 2006
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LocalYokul
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I am eye to eye with TU on this one
I've seen it first-hand
it is quite funny when the TG takes on a perfectly boring normal dumbass BF just to please her parents, meanwhile she is taking it up the ass from her real lovers, 555
and if you think BKK is bad, CM is worse (or better, depending on your perspective)
I would NOT want to look for a future wide in a hangar full of women sewing, but that's just me
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 5:12 pm on July 22, 2006
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thailife
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hey, wake up... ALL women all over the world are whores, they just have different ways of getting paid.
The reason I married a prostitute bar girl form Thailand is that she is actually one of the nicest, varing people I have ever met, but she is still a whore.
Not a whore for cock, but a whore in securing her place in life, the comforts most of us take for granted.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 5:24 pm on July 22, 2006
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LocalYokul
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I feel really sorry for you sir
and I mean that
yeah, I know, you're having the best sex of your life with your little whore
but that's it, there's no meaning, just sex and money changing hands
good for you, for now, but do you really want to be her Jon all your life ?
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:12 pm on July 22, 2006
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bimmher
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If someone wants to chance enough they can change. If that is a bar girl or a uni girl same same either way. Now can you change them? My guess no unless they want to change.
However if they want to change then I think it is possible but it has to be something they want to do. Trying to change someone seldom works. You can help someone to discover they want to change but it still ends with them wanting to change.
If they want to get the bar out of them then possible I think 
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:42 pm on July 22, 2006
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Ballsburstin
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I agree with LY and TU on this one. Been with my TGF for 5 years now (yikes!) and we are good friends. The original sponsorshp money I paid to allow her to finish school and take additional schooling after getting her G.E.D. was well spent, as she now has a decent job, and gets bored to tears when we hit the bar scene. Nothing for her there anymore, and she always comments how she has so little to talk about with the ladies she left behind -- it's just the same old shit, and she doesn't want to engage in that game anymore.
I think she will be moving back upcountry next month, as she wants to be sure her son does well in school. We've been sending him to a better school, and she's beginning to realize her mother doesn't know shit about bringing up kids, other than the time honored "tam jai koon." So people do change and mature, and I guess part of it may have to do with who you meet, and how old they were when you met them. The really young ones still have lots of partying left in them, and yanking them out of the bars right away (unless they really want to exit) means they are stuck in a potentially boring scene with a farang where money is the only real upside; a sure thing they will hit the scene again, 99 out of 100 times.
When my TGF told me she was thinking about moving upcountry to make sure her son goes down the right path, she asked me two things: "Teelakja, if I go home, will you still talk to me?" and "If I leave my job to help my son, will you think I am lazy?" I told her she has to do the right thing, and if that means spending a year or so upcountry straightening out her son, that's fine.
Regarding the walking ATM thing: after my TGF finally finished "skoon" and got a job, we dropped her monthly sponsorship amount by 6k baht. And if she goes upcountry, she suggested we drop it another 8K baht, as we would have far fewer bills. That says a lot about how she views things; I don't know if this is an unusual relationship, or if she "really is different," but I haven't seen anything in the 5 years that suggests she's with me just for the money. That's part of it, but it's not all of it. I'm beginning to realize that if our relationshp ends, it will be because I pull the plug, not her. When I asked her last month why she has stayed with me all these years, her simple comment was, "Why would I leave you? You have never done anything bad to me."
- Balls
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:49 pm on July 22, 2006
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seajohn
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Ballsbursting, that was a nice post: good points. Yes, a family is composed firstly of a couple thinking about the good of itself as a unit in order to make it better for each member. Everyone's not on their own.
From my experience I'd say that the better-to-do 'good girls' are probably more inclined toward numerous lovers, as you say. However we must bear in mind that the poor always want everything the rich have, or the image of it, whether it's good for them or not, and they'll try to imitate what they can get away with. It takes a commitment to the relationship (and if she's young enough, maybe even some training) to pursue a more productive mature development.
'Farang' have a reputation for more money. So naturally lower class women and many middle class women can fantasize what life might be like with a handsome fairskinned wealthy prince charming. That's normal. Though as to whether or not she can step out of her milleu to obtain one--and how--is another matter. He may not resemble prince charming either. The effort involved may be too much.
A relationship can grow if both parties are willing to adapt and to compromise. Emotional insecurities should be stronger a couple years down the road and so on.
For myself, though I think office girls are often breathtaking in their skirts, I have often found my lovers among the factory girls and shop girls instead. Not so much Chinese blood, but more relaxed and used to menial labor. To paraphrase Goethe, the women who work hard in the day like to play hard at night!
A visit to a large factory, if you're dressed nicely or professionally, just as the shift ends and the 1000's of smiling girls flood out is like wading into an ocean tide of nymphs.
I think further education is important for Thai women. Not because I respect the Thai educational system much (it's still too primitive), but because it is some stimulus toward self improvement or self accomplishment in the intellectual or spiritual sense.
As to the ultimate nature of the human female worldwide, this is a combination of biology and gender-relations and socialization. Throwing around words like 'whore' is superficial. I think this has been covered extensively in other threads.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 11:43 pm on July 22, 2006
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harold444
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thais do need a better edukation sistem.
how many times have I gone to an internet cafe and the person running the place doesnt know how to equate 1 minnute to one bath.
i stay 3 hour and they chrage 30 butts. I dont want to embarass the person so instead of paying the correct amount I just pay wot they ask for and leave.
mai pen rai seem s to be in order here.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:57 pm on July 22, 2006
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