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david 85260
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Saxophone would be cool for your folks and yes it is very near Victory Monument. You can exit the BTS there and walk a short distance. They serve food and drinks and the musicians vary on a daily basis. Nothing really happens until like 9:30 pm but it is an interesting place well away from the infamous areas of BKK. If your parents like Jazz then by all means give it a shot.
I realize this is a touchy subject and your dad would probably never regret being dropped off at Tulips for a two-Hour massage, but of course that is out of the question.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:11 am on June 18, 2007
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China Sailor
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Why is that out of the question?
Sounds like PC bullshit to me...
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 1:39 am on June 19, 2007
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DaffyDuck
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Yeah, never quite understood why, to some people, sexuality is a taboo subject with parents, particularly with their fathers.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:04 am on June 19, 2007
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ringthebells
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take 'em to jatujak on a sunday.
rtb.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 5:23 am on June 19, 2007
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Joe Wood
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Jatujak ? Yes, so long as they go early morning or late in the afternoon. You wouldn't want them to get heat-stroke and collapse. But good idea, rtb.
As for what you wrote Daffy : "Yeah, never quite understood why, to some people, sexuality is a taboo subject with parents, particularly with their fathers. "
It is either a mutually tabooed subject in which the parents have lived that all the child's life and so therefore not the child's choice or one felt to be such by the parents only. And even if the child, however old, wished to broach these areas, it is extremely hard for them if not well-nigh impossible for them to breach the barriers of years.
If you think about all the adults you have known in your life and think of how free they are with their off-spring, the pecentage may not even be 50% who would have the experiences of being open with their children, at whatever age.
Rather sad, really.
As to where to take your parents in this city of Bangkok, my problem is, when my children come to visit me with their partners, although very open in discussion, they tend to still think that I should be going to bed at ten o'clock and leaving them with the enjoyment of the night.
Well, it's fine by me to leave them to enjoy the night at ten o'clock or even earlier. They are young people and have their own ideas of enjoyment. I may not be young, but I have my own ideas and intentions for the night.
There is such a thing as openness, which seajohn's brilliant exposition eluded to. But there is also personal privacy and while that must be respected, it must not be allowed to impinge on the openness of the relationship.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:32 pm on June 19, 2007
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seajohn
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Privacy, a good point; perhaps even moreso when you are speaking of offspring of the opposite gender.
This topic suddenly brings to mind a curious situation I witnessed during my first or second trip to Cambodia some years back. I was staying in Sihanoukville and enjoying the beautiful wide beaches and quietude. I was also enjoying a couple brothels, etc.
Anyway, without getting into detail, there were these two fellows from Europe staying a half dozen doors down from me in the hotel. France, I believe, if it matters. They were a father & son team and shared a room. I say team as every morning they had a gaggle of girls, from clubs, beach fruit sellers, you name it, in their room... who had stayed the night with them. Each morning the girls' keepers or whatever would come and call them out again to the motorcycles to return to their habitat.
That was an example of openness and, I presume, sharing that I did not wish to attain to. That's what I felt at the time, and probably still do. However I see no purely rational reason why not. After all my own father and I have played tennis and chess together, and admired the same mini-skirted women on the street with lustful eyes. I know him well and have a good idea of what he's into or not.
I wonder. Freedom being the great cherished ruby among us humans... do you think that a certain modicum of respectful privacy (a conscious preference, as opposed to the fears of a repressed relationship) is practiced between persons to add some other valuable factor? I would say yes, there is something in that, in privacy... We have to leave our loved ones alone in some moments to make their own feelings, experiences, and decisions... even if it's just the zenith-like decision of which orifice of a new acquaintance to ejaculate in. It could be. Depends on the persons. We do not want to intrude.
And so, rather than the false definitions of the relationship (as China Sailor defines, "PC") and what people feel is proper between them, it is a question more of what the individuals in the relationship can handle without feeling intruded upon. Hey, we go for as much as we can in life with those we love. And much of the way, with those we don't. I wonder if there is any difference. Just the going as far...
But yes, it is sad, as J.Wood points out, that so many people have so little threshold before they feel defensive.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:09 pm on June 19, 2007
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thailife
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i took my dad to the lesbo show at shab's.... he had a blast... but, he is a bit of a crazy guy. When the show started, he left his seat and sat up on the stage..... 86 years old
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:20 pm on June 19, 2007
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DaffyDuck
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Quote: from seajohn on 11:03 am on June 20, 2007
But yes, it is sad, as J.Wood points out, that so many people have so little threshold before they feel defensive.
I wonder if there is a correlation between that and the cultural origin of such folks (like, maybe, from a more puritanical culture).
Personally, I found it lots fo fun to introduce my nephew to BKK, and now we have lots of fun picking up girls together (though we do not share a room).
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:31 pm on June 19, 2007
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bkkz
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Many guys don't seem to have problems with the mother and daughter combination, why not let your father join in as well?
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 11:47 pm on June 19, 2007
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koolbreez
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Sirroco's for drinks at state tower. A dinner cruise. Mambo caberet. The seafood market soi 24 for dinner. Muay Thai fights on friday night at Lumphini. Dinner outside at Gullever's soi 5. Saxiphone pub. A movie. Dinner at the Oriental.
Take dad to get a NANA burger, and see what his reaction is. Just go for a burger. Send dad on a Dr. Love tour....hehe.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:58 am on June 20, 2007
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