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ThaiPrivateEye II
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Quote: from bimmher on 6:33 pm on Sep. 25, 2005
Quote: from ThaiPrivateEye II on 9:25 am on Sep. 23, 2005
Good question CG.
The answer is simply this.
I would try to avoid a conflict of interest and maybe decline the job.
But then it gets deeper...Much deeper...
If I know "BTFMemberA" personally as a friend or colleague then ethics come into the equation!
Do I...
a) Tell him his wife is trying to catch him!
He may then tell me to proceed and paint him squeeky clean. After all its probably his money anyway.
b) Ignore it as it's not my problem!
He may find out that I was aware of the situation, when she employs someone else to burn him. Then were do I stand?
c) Tell his wife I know him and I can't betray him!
That way she may give up on the idea and save his money.
My answer has been PM'd to BK and will be revealed in due course.
I am interested in what you would do...
TPE II
Edit: For some reason, I could not PM BK so I sent it to myself timed and dated. Let's see what you guys think...
Quote: from thaiprivateeye on 9:53 pm on Sep. 24, 2005
Of course not always safe in the Hotel room safe either Big D... Remember one Hotel that the Farang Manager called me into work with, had a few complaints of $$ gone from the safes, - it was the old fine oil over the keypad of the room safe trick... when Mr farang went out, one of the maids would then come back and check the safe, only 3 or 4 keys would have been touched, and didnt take too long then to usually get the combination -
Well on the first quote that is a very good and hard question.
a) No I wouldn't tell him. You are running a biz and your part on this forum is personal. Best to keep the two separate. Now if I was the guy I would really want you to tell me but I would understand that you couldn't.
b) No not ignore as she will just use another firm to do the work. Also what reason would you come up with that she would believe for not taking the case? I guess you could just say you are to busy. This option I think I would consider taking if you think she will believe why you can't take the case.
c) Well not in those words. I would just say I know him and it would be a conflict of interest. The best option I can find is this one.
d) An option you didn't mention. Take the case. Hand it off to a worker or another PI and take a cut of the fee. Let someone else do all the work who doesn't know the guy and is not a member of the board. Report back the findings to the wife that the PI found out about him. This would put you at sort of at an arms length transaction. The job would get done but your involvement would have no effect on the outcome.
Now on the second quote.
Good info never heard about that one. I always thought a small combo travel safe that you could put in the hotel safe would be a good product? Anyone know of a product like this? Something like those cash boxes you can buy but with a combination lock you can set instead of a key.
bimmher
Thank you for your comments bimmher.
And for pointing out another option (d) but I could not conisder taking the case then passing the responsibility on to another.
That too would involve a conflict of interest I believe.
TPE II
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:43 am on Sep. 25, 2005
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Bangkoksexydotcom
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Just a tip for you people using google desktop search. Everything will be saved in the search and can be seen just search on the right key word. You can even read hotmails with out log in. No need for your wife to use TPE at all.
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Posted on: 10:36 am on Sep. 25, 2005
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thaiprivateeye
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Correct - mind you if Wifey lets you go off alone to bangkok... we can assume the relationship has about run its course... or she wants you out of the way as she has found some else 
In which case a more expensive US/PE may be called for!
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:30 am on Sep. 26, 2005
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ringthebells
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I sent mata hari to suzie wong tonight. hope they went along fine.
rtb
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Posted on: 5:00 pm on Sep. 26, 2005
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Cerberus
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Quote: from thaiprivateeye on 7:58 pm on Sep. 26, 2005
Correct - mind you if Wifey lets you go off alone to bangkok... we can assume the relationship has about run its course...
Me thinks you and not we assume.
BTW TPE do you know the precise meaning of the word definition? I think yuo do not or you would apprecate that anybody reasonable can present you anytime at least one TG that falsifies your so called "definition".
There is quite a difference between "a definition" and "a description of maybe a majority maybe a minority of occurences, aka as an opinion" 
As said : imho you, not we, assume way tooooo much
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Posted on: 7:14 am on Oct. 13, 2005
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Mel Gibson
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Cerberus,,,very cerebale,,, shame you (yuo) can't spell you.. Other than that you just made as much sense as a rabbit with mixamotosis.
NEVER assume it makes an ASS out of U and ME.
Do not foget,,,Commas or your sentence structure is apt to conjecture.
Cerberus please define your definition of definition????
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Posted on: 9:13 am on Oct. 13, 2005
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Yurune
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Do not foget
Always pays to check when criticising others spelling
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:12 am on Oct. 13, 2005
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Triyclops
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I guess he foget...
must be the cerebral thingy...
TC
ps. How do you spell Mixaamiytosesises Dr. Love?
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 10:24 am on Oct. 13, 2005
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ThaiPrivateEye II
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Quote: from Cerberus on 2:42 am on Oct. 14, 2005
Quote: from thaiprivateeye on 7:58 pm on Sep. 26, 2005
Correct - mind you if Wifey lets you go off alone to bangkok... we can assume the relationship has about run its course...
Me thinks you and not we assume.
BTW TPE do you know the precise meaning of the word definition? I think yuo do not or you would apprecate that anybody reasonable can present you anytime at least one TG that falsifies your so called "definition".
There is quite a difference between "a definition" and "a description of maybe a majority maybe a minority of occurences, aka as an opinion"
As said : imho you, not we, assume way tooooo much
I think TPE is intelligent enough to answer your question about his own definition about the word definition! So I will leave it to him.
One thing I will say is that I believe over the years, TPE has quite possibly met more Thai Bar Girls than you (Cerberus) have.
And that forms the basis of his TG definition.
Plain simple facts, not conjecture as in: guess, surmise, inference, speculation, assumption or supposition.
TPE II
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Posted on: 11:51 am on Oct. 13, 2005
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