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Coitus Continuous
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Lived with a girl from Hollywood East in, what was then Clinton Plaza before its sorry demise. She stayed with me for eight months before going on a total alcoholic binge for four days while I was working and visiting my FLs, go-go bars and daily massage places.
She then left while I was working one day, of her own accord with TV and music centre and virtually everything else except my computer which she was only just learning to use. ( maybe not enough room in the taxi.)
She went back to work in Nana in one of the Hollywood bars there on the third floor.
Some months later I began to live with another girl, and somehow the Hollywood girl found out and embarked upon phoning me up or getting her friends to do so from every available phone box in Bangkok nightly, generally between 2 and 4 a.m., for one solid year, even though they could hear the baby crying in the background. They were silent phone calls without the heavy breathing, repeated two or three times on each occasion.
Note taken. When living with a girl, don't f*** around and don't go for massage or FLs.
But do they really have any concept as to how hard that is for a guy when he lives and works in Thailand and it's flung in your face every hour of the day and night ?
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:56 pm on Oct. 18, 2006
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hyperterminal
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"embarked upon phoning me up or getting her friends to do so from every available phone box in Bangkok nightly, generally between 2 and 4 a.m., for one solid year
and you didnt change your number?
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 5:34 am on Oct. 19, 2006
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vox
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yeah, in four years living here I've enountered some pretty amazing displays of jealousy, even on the part of girls I'd only f***ed once (and paid). jealousy, what a waste of energy.
in defense of thai girls, however, I have also encountered many who are very professional about the whole thing (even when they're one of my regulars) and have no problem sharing, at least sharing in a playful, in-the-bar way. in fact, I've gotten to make this a test and a prerequisite before I even "accept" a new regular: she should have no problem with me having my arm around another girl in her bar at the same time as her, and no problem with me taking turns kissing both of them.
if it's one of the grope bars on cowboy, she better be willing to have me pull both of their pairs of breasts out and alternate sucking them...if she's got a problem with any of that, she won't be getting return business from me, haha...I'm not anyone's property (I never have girlfriends) and I refuse to be treated as such by any BG...
vox
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:09 am on Nov. 5, 2006
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don5252
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A very good question, have this same dilema on Soi 6, there are ladies there who have the same bar for years, walking in as a twice a year visitor they come on like a octopus, making it impossible to explore
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 8:43 am on Oct. 30, 2008
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Pegasus1
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Quack quack: Just returned from two day business trip to HK; and read your post
You ask three questions. I will address each one separately.
1.In theory the girls who work these bars, are employees of the establishment. Thus, their priority should be that you the customer are SATISFIED. That means, that you should have the right to pick a different girl (if you so desire), every trip to the said establishment. Then again, there should be no poverty in the world… I think you get my drift. These girls are very PROUD, and at times, egotistical. In some places there is actually a “grading system” attached to the girls (super model, model, etc). They actually take this seriously. Do not even joke about this with the girls. Thus, you are right in feeling a certain discomfort from the ladies you have seen on a previous visit. In the more professional establishments, this is less of a problem. There, the girls seem to be on a more “real” journey of life; and understand what their role in all of this is. I would suggest that you make perfectly clear to any girl you take out; that you visit these establishments often. That you are not interested in a long-term relationship. That you are taking her out that night for a good time, and that you are prepared to compensate her for her time and level of service. If this insults her, OK…just move on. Again my experience has been that if you are straight up with these girls you will not be disappointed, and shot down in the future.
2.Your second question about tipping your old girl at a new visit is interesting. Again, if you follow my points in number 1, this question will not come up. On many occasions, I have followed up my first visit by taking out my “old” date together with a friend. As the night progresses (before we go back to my place), If I am only interested in the friend I simply offer up a nice tip to the Old date and explain that I prefer to be with one lady that night, and wish to give her friend a chance. If explained correctly, and the two girls are really friends, this answer will suffice. Remember both girls left the bar/club together with you. Thus, they are both proud that they were chosen. The girl who you have now ‘rejected’ will probably take her “tip” and go home or party. She has saved face (if this really bothers her).
3.The third point you mentioned is about the intent of the girl in her approach to you when you walk in the door. Yes! Of course, in theory every girl would like to show you off that YOU are her steady CUSTOMER. However, most working girls here in this environment are more realistic. They KNOW that if they pressure you, you will probably just choose a different venue to go hunting. Again, please follow what I said in Point 1. Be straight with these women, and you will still find your jewels attached the morning after…
However. After all is said and done. I have not always followed my own advice. I have liked two or three girls from the same club, and really found no way to control the “jealousy”. This has led to great aggravation to everyone concerned, when one discovered that I was seeing the other (competition). It was after this, that I decided to always be upfront, and except the consequences -- whatever they are—before dating another gal from the same place.
ALL of this is only my opinion (for what its worth). I hope it gives you some guidance. I am interested to hear from others what they think, and to share their experience on this subject.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 11:11 am on Oct. 30, 2008
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don5252
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Helpful advice, especially for the resident expat and agree that jealosy or competition is less of problem in the higher class venues, which Soi 6 is not
The only solution I find there is a little small talk over one sprite, excuse myself and write that bar off, a shame really, as there maybe a 'unknown' girl who would make good company
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:20 pm on Oct. 30, 2008
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bkkz
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Quote: from quack quack on 8:08 pm on Oct. 30, 2008
1> Is there any way to select a different lady at a bar, that is, other than the girl one had bar fined on a prior evening, without causing problems?
I have a simple system that has worked for me, all the time. First of all, establish the rules of engagement. Tell the girl that you only take a girl out once, and you never repeat. If you do repeat then, she should consider herself lucky, nothing more. I tell them, I am not a butterfly, I am beyond that, I simply say, international airport.  Second, be generous, as this will help you establish the fact that you'd like to spread your wealth around, i.e. spend your money on every other girl, and if the first girl were to recommend you to another girl, she'd be doing a good deed. I've never had any jealous girls, and they happily recommend me new girls all the time.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:13 pm on Oct. 30, 2008
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Pegasus1
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bkkz:
Found your post on the mark. However, I recently had an incident were a girl fell in love with me. I did not take this seriously. But, she told all the girls at the bar, how she felt (this was only after two dates), and basically warned them, that she would kill them if they dated me. I"m serious! I was not amused. I took this girl aside (I liked this bar, or I would have simply moved on) and explained to her (to no avail) as to what the rules are. She still would not listen, and again told me, how much she loved me etc. So I did the only thing a REAL MAN would do. I bought her off, by sending her to work in Hong Kong. Did not cost much; but TRUE LOVE is never cheap...
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:30 pm on Oct. 30, 2008
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bkkz
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Quote: from Pegasus1 on 3:04 am on Oct. 31, 2008
how she felt (this was only after two dates)
See, that's why I don't repeat. This helps prevent attachment, both for you and the girl.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 1:44 pm on Oct. 30, 2008
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Pegasus1
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bkkz:
My God, I only took her out twice. I felt like I was in the movie 'FATAL ATTRACTION". This never happened before. In fact one of the girls at the bar, who knew both of us, was concerned that she really went off the deep end about me. For a very brief moment I was flattered. But when reality checked in, I realized how daming this could be, and moved her off to H K.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:56 pm on Oct. 30, 2008
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