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sorry Deepfile... I still don't get it. ÝWell I get part of it... I had half assumed that it wasn't so much "what she asked" but the manner in which she asked it.
However... even if I did assume that a certain guy is going to LOS for p4p.... how does that mean that I reckon all Thai women are prostitues or that all men going to LOS do so only for the p4p. Ý
It's still too big a leap in logic to make any sense to me.
(i.e: assuming someone partakes in p4p scene = think ALL men partake in p4p scene and all Thai women are prostitutes)
Thanks for trying though. ÝI'll wait for Kevie29 to shed some light on it for me.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:02 am on May 30, 2003
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ÝI nor anyone can speak for Kev, but I understood his statement as follows,
Ý Kev in the company of all women was asked if he was a sex tourist, not descretely ( if she was genuinely concerned about his wellbeing ) but in open with an Ýaudience of only the opposite sex . I would take it as an inference by her that he was.
Ý ÝKev was merely using an analogy he considered appropriate to the feminists ASSUMPTION Ýthat because he was male going to Thailand he was a sex tourist with an equally generalised asumption that all TGs are prostitutes.( so she could see how pathetic her logic was)
Ý I think she will give more thought to her public comments before tackling Kev again.lol
Ý Again only my interpretation I may be totally wrong.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 8:36 am on May 30, 2003
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Tropical... to me you are making the same leap in logic as I think Kevie is making....
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ASKING if one partakes in the p4p scene = the person asking must assume all men who go to LOS must go there for the sex-scene.
let me put it another way... I don't see anything wrong with asking a guy I know who is about to travel to LOS if the p4p scene is on his agenda. ÝHowever I DO NOT think all guys who do go to LOS are sex-tourists. ÝThat's where I can't lay the link... between those two things.
The whole "discretion" thing... well maybe Holland's just more sexually-liberated than other places... the only time I would use discretion is if parents, or partners (church going bible-thumoing boss) were around. ÝObviously I wouldn't ask a perfect stranger... but I have asked (and been asked) this very question by collegues. ÝIt didn't offend me or them. Ý I've had collegues showing me pics of their favourite BG and telling me all their "love" stories. Ý Which I possibly never would have learned if I hadn't asked that initial question.
I don't think anyone I have ever asked that question to has ever thought it was an inference on my part to mean "all men who go to LOS only go for the p4p scene".
Also I don't understand where you get the "how pathetic her logic" was bit... so far as I read and understand the post, she didn't tone any logic... she just asked a question, the logic-toning but normally follows in the persuing debate. ÝKevin assumed she meant more by it (and possibly she did)... but seriosuly if you re-read it comes out as...
--woman asks do you partake in the p4p scene in los...
man thinks that means that said women automatically assumes every man that goes to LOS must.--
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I dunno... maybe all you guys get so many snide comments about LOS and the p4p scene that even a genuine question with no hidden jibes or feminist agenda could trigger an over sensitive response. ÝI can't speak for everyone in Holland... but I really don't think this "snide-ness" around LOS & p4p exists here.
btw... it's just dawned on me as I was sitting typing this... I've sat on flights to LOS and discussed the p4p scene with perfect strangers. ÝCan't for the life of me think who initiated the convo's though.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:32 am on May 30, 2003
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