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When she sat down next to me, stuck her tongue down my throat and her hand down my pants, something clicked!
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:13 am on April 19, 2004
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Vancouver Jay
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Quote: from Yurune on 10:52 pm on April 18, 2004
As for the second paragraph, I don't think you find that sort of coersion in the farang owned bars that we frequent, girls there are able to come and go as they choose.
Yeah, well, look up what that one farang ownership group is doing -- the one that owns half a mountain up-country with a couple of pussy-money mansions on it. Their recruitment goes well beyond walk-ins and referrals from friends.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 3:51 am on April 19, 2004
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Packripper
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No sense in wooing a girl in a soapy or a bar, unless you plan on knowing her for more than a few hours. Being nice is not wooing and is more than enough for working girls (to get something nice in return... because I have no tolerance for poor service either, my employees are working too hard and for too long of hours for me to enjoy life like this). 
There's also no need to woo the checkout girl at Tesco Lotus or the Bug 1113 operator either. It's a service, plain and simple. They are providing the make believe for us. When customers start to play make believe themselves (well, maybe a little bit, in moderation is okay), that's the first step on the road to bitterness, especially for tourists and those who aren't truly financially independent.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:29 am on April 19, 2004
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Arcadius
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PR
Wooing - chatting up - being nice. Whatever you want to call it, but in any event impossible if your warm-up is confined to pointing to the third from the left in the line-up. OK, you can try being nice to 3rd from Left once you're in the room, but you're taking pot luck - if you find you're just not simpatico, you're on a hiding to nothing. The best you can hope for is an efficient servicing from an animated piece of meat. Been there, done that, got it well and truly out of my system - now I'd rather stay at home reading a book, frankly.
I think this has quite a lot to do with how old you are. At 45, rapport-free sex just doesn't have the same appeal as it did when you were 25. Unless you're sex-starved (which many newly-arrived tourists are, of course), you need to add value.
I would not woo the checkout girl at Tesco Lotus, but then sexual services on a par with checking out of a supermarket are precisely what I don't want. I could get that at home. The glory of P4P in LOS is that there is absolutely no need to settle for this if you want more.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 11:19 am on April 19, 2004
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ThaidUp
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Quote from Smegs "I am satisfied with good chemistry and normal sex."
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Right... Viagra and a TG
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:50 am on April 19, 2004
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Packripper
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I hear ya, Arc. And you're right, I'm a relative youngster (late 20's). But age regardless, I think it's more likely just a case of different personal needs, with neither being correct as to their own broad generalizations.
Being the relatively nice guy that I am (in my humble opinion anyway) and businessman, I'm definitely not the pot luck type of fellow. I feel that I do usually get along well with the majority of service girls who service me (can only remember 2 times in 5-6 years where it didn't work out well... mostly because of cultural miscommunication). In the rare case that it's not so great, I usually roll with it and enjoy it anyway. For me it's only the difference of apple pie vs. pecan pie (which I don't prefer, but doesn't taste that bad anyway). All I require is a 2 hour piece of good pie on my way to my main meal, meeting, racketball game, etc.
Clicking is fine... but if I want to connect, I save it for those who are in my social group and those whom I can truly communicate with on the same level.
Quote: from Arcadius on 11:19 pm on April 19, 2004
PR
Wooing - chatting up - being nice. Whatever you want to call it, but in any event impossible if your warm-up is confined to pointing to the third from the left in the line-up. OK, you can try being nice to 3rd from Left once you're in the room, but you're taking pot luck - if you find you're just not simpatico, you're on a hiding to nothing. The best you can hope for is an efficient servicing from an animated piece of meat. Been there, done that, got it well and truly out of my system - now I'd rather stay at home reading a book, frankly.
I think this has quite a lot to do with how old you are. At 45, rapport-free sex just doesn't have the same appeal as it did when you were 25. Unless you're sex-starved (which many newly-arrived tourists are, of course), you need to add value.
I would not woo the checkout girl at Tesco Lotus, but then sexual services on a par with checking out of a supermarket are precisely what I don't want. I could get that at home. The glory of P4P in LOS is that there is absolutely no need to settle for this if you want more.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:53 pm on April 19, 2004
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Kaymanx
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The original question was about brothels. And what I think defines a brothel -- in a practical sense at least -- is the mechanical approach, the visible unwillingness or disinterest of the girls, the parading of the girls for you to make your choice, and the lack of any "foreplay" in settling on a girl. You just take your pick based on her looks and your fancy. In such a situation, sex is anything but the reward of a game well played.
Smegma, this is what I was trying to say. In a bar or any P4P joint, on the other hand, I may not be looking for chemistry in a long term way (or I may, if during the play she turns out to be interesting) but I would certainly be looking for indications that she could service me the way I need. I won't get this opportunity of foreplay in a brothel. You just go in, talk to the mamasan and, without wasting time (her time, that is), you choose.
To come back to the original subject, why would I go to a brothel when there are more interesting options ? I wouldn't. In a bar, you can settle down with a drink, and punt in your own way and enjoy the reward. Or, curse your luck if things don't work out your way. But the sheer gaming makes the process a thrill. The journey, not the destination, shall we say. But, of course, to each his own.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:50 pm on April 19, 2004
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