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JackRabbit
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JackRabbit present...
Ok , You may love her , but does she really love You ?
And if she does , does she love You as a man or does she love You as voice-controlled ATM.
My vote :" Next stop Dumpsville , honey. Population : You ."
FFFFF !
JR
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:20 am on June 3, 2003
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Vancouver Jay
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Misunderstanding? Likely. It's too hard to believe that she said "13" and then later noticed how similar that sounded to "30" then tried to play that angle. She probably said 30 from the get-go.
I think what's happening here is that you're being plugged into the role of breadwinner for the whole clan. With only 1 rent to pay, you probably could take care of all of them for 30,000 come to think of it. It's Thailand, big man pays, and you should be honored to buy so much face so cheaply.
Want advice? Set the girl up with her kid in her own apartment and send the family 1000 a month to make up for her lost rent. Leaving her with the leaches is going to be even worse for you than leaving her on the game in the long run.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 12:31 am on June 3, 2003
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Ballsburstin
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Vancouver Jay,
good advice! It separates the numbers on the spreadsheet so that it's easy to track what she really needs. She can always opt to give the family 2K of the 13K or so she might be getting. There are many clean and nice 2K and 3K apts in BKK (I know, 'cause I've been apartment hunting with my TGF before), and she can get A/C for 3K to 4K a month, a luxury.
So yeah, put her up on her own, and ironically, bring the cost way down.
- Balls
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:38 am on June 3, 2003
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thaiprivateeye
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JimB,
some good advice here, mostly along the lines of what we have already discussed, - as Arramsey points out, always two sides to the story, I can but repeat, I see MANY good hearted TGs, who in another place would be loyal, devoted wives/girlfriends, - but pressure put on them by destitute familes, devious, conniving so called friends etc, often see's them get a short term gain, but long term, lose out on on a Guy you genuinely cared and could have helped ... T I T [ in capitals ! ]
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 1:08 am on June 3, 2003
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Vancouver Jay
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Ballsy-B, you know it. 4K will get a a/c studio in an out of the way area. Toss in 1500 for utilities, 1K for the clan, and 6500 for everything else, food, transport, kid clothes. 13000 on the nose that they guy already got comfortable with.
And there's no law that says the girl can't work a straight job to pick up an extra 4 or 5K a month. Let the clan earn that 1000 by babysitting.
But watch what happens when jimbo proposes that deal. The girl's gonna say "oh cannot, I lose my face" more likely than not. If there's more face in it for a girl in selling pussy you know you've picked a dud. The minority, the girl you can trust will jump for a deal like that.
I'd wager that jimbo is screwed, but miracles do happen and I wish him good luck. Either that the girl plays it straight with him or he bails before he gets torn up too badly.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 1:09 am on June 3, 2003
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Vancouver Jay
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TPI, that's one of the smartest posts I've seen and should be required reading!! We all love to comiserate with or sneer at the punter who gets taken but for every one of those there's 3+ TWG who had a real shot with a nice farang and blew it.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:21 am on June 3, 2003
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bretth7377
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Hello,
I'm not sure how to create a new post so I found the most relevnt post I could find and clicked on reply.
Anyways, I too have just come back from LOS (first time). Met a BG there that is really great. She put me before her during every occassion (i felt like a spoiled kid). When I left she didn't ask for money or anything which I thought really said something (actions speak louder than words).
Now I have a couple of problems. First thing is I have a g/f here in America. I would easily dump american girlfriend if I knew Thai GF was for real.
Second, Thai GF speaks very little english... When were together its easy to communicate with hand gestures, but on the phone its very difficult. And she is horrible at the computer, it took her like a minute to find each letter on the keyboard, so email is out of the question. Unless she goes to one of those service that types the messages out, could someone tell me where one of those places are in BKK? Also, I try to send her SMS messages on her phone but I don't know if they go through. I'm sending them from Yahoo messenger (she is a DTAC customer). Can someone tell me of a service I can send an SMS message that will defiently go through?
Thanks for your help,
- B
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:52 pm on Mar. 30, 2004
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invaderzim
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Jesus! Stop sending her money your just a big chump to her read over this forum thers tons of stories like this...
let there be no doubt in your mind ok she is screwing you over big time and shes prolly doing the same to others
Listen if getting married is your thing there are millions of great girls in Thailand you can marry and its not like your going to have a hard time dating there so dump this parasite and take your time and discriminate as much as you can get a girl with no kid and little to no p4p experience dont settle for anything less than perfection because in thailand unlike in the west the choice is all yours
PS for christs sake!! stop sending her money and dont listen to her crocodile tears or crazy excuses because it will never stop and it will screw your life up and she wont give a rats ass
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:29 pm on Mar. 30, 2004
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invaderzim
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bretth7377,
My advice is get a better girl that knows english theres tons of them most email shops have translators but it seems like this girl just doesnt know anything how can you have a good relationship based on hand gestures?
its not worth the trouble theres many beautiful women in LOS whoare reasonably smart and know english good that would give a kidney to be the girlfriend of a farang just take your time and be selective
or you could wisely just forget having any relationships and just bang em on your vacations which is usually the best route to go
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 3:39 pm on Mar. 30, 2004
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Arcadius
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bretth7377
Met a BG there that is really great. She put me before her during every occassion (i felt like a spoiled kid)
Yes, of course. This is the GFE (girlfriend experience), which is the Thai BG's claim to fame. You should do a search on this forum to read up about it. EVERYBODY has had the same experience, some people many times over.
Wonderful as the GFE is, it is not a 'real' relationship (whatever real means), and it should not be confused with one. You cannot make the GFE permanent by converting a BG into a genuine girlfriend or wife - instead you merely acquire a more-or-less conventional girlfriend or wife. You don't have a clue whether this girl would be suitable in either role, because so long as she is in GFE mode, she's playing a part (as are you, whether you realise it or not). Until you can break through this and start relating to the actual person behind it, you have no idea who or what she really is. As your communication is so limited, it seems extremely unlikely that you have yet managed to do this - and you haven't had nearly enough time anyway.
OK, you like her (why wouldn't you?), she hasn't asked for any money and you want to keep in touch. Fine - but you'll be much better off keeping this strictly on GFE terms for the forseeable future. As for communications, tell her she needs to get some help with her e-mail - there ought to be plenty of people in her circle (including other BGs of course) who can set her up with this much better than you can. This is really part of her job - all she has to do is ask for advice. Unless she's dumb, you should also find that her English will steadily improve as she gains more experience.
If (when) you go back to LOS, it would be a good idea to knock about with some other BGs - whether or not you pursue things further with this one. This is really the only way to put your experience with her into any kind of perspective. Until you do that, you will be hopelessly at sea.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:59 pm on Mar. 30, 2004
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