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LivinLOS
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I know LOTS of stable normal relationships with Farangs and BG's... Personally I met a 'superstar' (9+) who was working as a headline stripper and peepshow girl in Austria... She was on Holiday back 'home' and I was on holiday in thailand.. She made 6 - 10k Euro per month in the life she had built for herself in Europe.
We met and hit it off... She gave up working once we met and moved to Holland from Austria leaving lots of money and a stable life she had set up for herself. We were together a little over 3 years and would have been together for life but she died Feb of this year.
TGs / BGs / GoGo girls / etc are all women at the end of the day and for the most part want a normal life with a good guy. Of course if all you bring to the relationship is money then expect that this is what you will have to do but if you have fun, show respect, enjoy each others company as real people TG's are the same or better than women anywhere.
Of course long distance relationships suck on any level with any nationality... magnify that by 10x for a working girl. Hence I live here now !!
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:13 am on Mar. 31, 2004
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Abrak
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Just to make it clear - my comment was directed at BGs and not TGs in general.
I fail to understand why so many guys fall for BGs when there are so many gorgeous normal TGs out there with whom I believe there is a far far far greater chance you will have a successful long term relationship.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 1:24 am on Mar. 31, 2004
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Arcadius
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I fail to understand why so many guys fall for BGs when there are so many gorgeous normal TGs out there with whom I believe there is a far far far greater chance you will have a successful long term relationship
Well, since when has anyone ever had a reason for falling for a girl? Many guys meet far more BGs than any other kind of TG, and sooner or later they just fall in love with one. This isn't very difficult - many BGs are very good at making themselves lovable.
I for one don't accept the great working/'normal' girl dichotomy at all. At any event, I think my bar GFs are nicer, more lovable and more worthwhile people than many of my past 'respectable' GFs. At any event, they suit me better. A large majority of bitches are not prostitutes - and in LOS, at least, many prostitutes are not bitches. To my mind, that's the only divide which really matters; not a girl's job description.
OK, getting a girl off the game creates special problems - but if you think she's worth the effort, they're not insoluble. Ballsburstin provides a great case study in how to go about this intelligently and create good chances of success. Most guys fail because they go about it all wrong.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:02 am on Mar. 31, 2004
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ringthebells
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I am sorry to hear that LOS. you are correct, Abrak. it is a great advantage to live here. I meet many girls/ladies on a business level. so far none of the ones I asked have rejected a invitation for lunch or dinner. they seem to be quite experimental and not afraid to get to know someone new.
But.
I sort of agree with arc aswell. bg's are just easier to get and have much shorter shelve lives than normal gf's. a fact that is currently not a disadvantage for me. I usually grow tired after a month or so.
but I did miss the bus (again) recently.
rtb
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 5:52 am on Mar. 31, 2004
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Arcadius
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Sooner or later, the vast majority of M/F relationships fail. How many guys marry their first GF and live happily ever after?
There are countless causes for failure - probably the most common is simply that the relationship goes flat. If a relationship with a BG fails, it may be for a host of reasons that have nothing to do with the fact this she is or was a prostitute.
OK, that creates additional problems which need to be dealt with. This won't be easy, given that you're likely to have little or no experience in this area and will also need to empty your head of some very unhelpful cultural baggage.
But is is certainly do-able. To answer Abrak's question - yes I do know a few guys who have (or appear to have) successful long-term relationships with ex-BGs, and many more where I suspect the lady falls into that category. Not everyone is keen to advertise the fact, and it is very impolite in LOS to inquire too hard about a female SO's past (not that I could give a damn).
It's not all that long ago that people used to debate seriously whether x-racial or x-religious marriages could possibly work. That all seems faintly ridiculous now.
At bottom, this boils down to whether you think a working girl must be permanently damaged or in some way dehumanised by her experiences. Personally, I believe this is sheer nonsense and based on a hopelessly outdated view of female virtue. At any event, I can't imagine allowing other people's prejudices on this score to prevent me from pursuing my own happiness, according to my own lights, with people I happen to like or love.
So anyway, Teacher - best of luck to you. And her.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 12:07 pm on Mar. 31, 2004
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bretth7377
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Ok, maybe I went over board with the hand gestures thing... In reality she has a limited vocabulary and once I realized the words she understood, I just used those words to talk with her (and I bought an english - thai dictionary which also helped communicate). Let me go into a little more detail about what happened and please tell me if this is all part of the game or not.
After six days of spending all day and night together (I did have to pay her BF) she asked me to meet her parents, so I took a three hour drive to Pashboon (not sure about the spelling) and met her parents. I stayed over night there... The next day I went to some sort of ceremony with a monk at a temple and before I left, her father gave me this medallion and her mother gave me some sort of clothing. She told me I was the first guy she's ever taken to meet her parents (ok, not sure if I believe that).
Then when we were back in BKK she took me to meet her friends at her university. We hung out with her friends for a while... Next day I had a flight to catch at 6am, so she insisted on getting up and going with me.
Since this *was* my first time to LOS and I *did* only hang out with this one BG, please let me know if this would be a normal thing for every BG to do. She said she's been working as a BG for 6 months and she just turned 23.
Thanks for your help,
Brett
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:23 pm on Mar. 31, 2004
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invaderzim
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That could be true its bad face to bring lots of guys to meet the parents.. but I think your rushing things a bit you havent even experienced all that LOS has to offer there are so many women so many different flavors why just call it quits after the first girl you meet I think you might regret it theres so many options for you in Thailand choose carefully because not all the options are good ones
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:56 pm on Mar. 31, 2004
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Arcadius
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Brett
Going to see you off at the airport, a tearful farewell &c is part of the standard GFE package. She wouldn't have taken you to see her parents unless she had some interest in you, but this is certainly not uncommon.
A BG and at university? Part-time student at Ramkamhaeng?
6 mos on the job seems about right given the poor state of her English. What's she studying though?
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:03 pm on Mar. 31, 2004
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bretth7377
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She said she's studying law... Yeah, Ramkamhaeng was the name of the university. Maybe I am rushing a little bit... Probably I'm just amazed that there are girls out there like this.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 2:13 pm on Mar. 31, 2004
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Arcadius
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No, there are loads of girls out there like that (why do you think so many people get hopelessly addicted to LOS?) Worst thing you can do is start thinking "this one is different from all the rest". Fatal.
Best thing is to play it cool and play it long (no need to just switch her off). And DO get some experience of other BGs, because it's your only hope of getting a handle on where this particular one is coming from. Your existing frame of reference is simply useless.
In the meantime, you could do a lot worse than read up a lot of the stuff on this forum - especially 'Thai Girls' and similar sections. Some of it will make sense, some of it won't (yet), but it will all come in very useful as & when you get back to LOS. If you want to get involved with TGs/BGs beyond straight sex, there's a hell of a lot of unlearning and mental reprogramming you're gonna have to do.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:37 pm on Mar. 31, 2004
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