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i've not been to los yet myself, going for first time in august, but your friends are paying wayy too much in nana! 3000baht for one pop? nonono, being ripped off( according to what everyone else says in this forum anywayz!) go to annies, get a massage for 1000bt!
cheers
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 4:36 pm on June 16, 2002
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Groundpounder
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Hi Nikko:
Interesting post. ÝNot really qualified to comment, but you may want to read "Private Dancer", an unpublished novel by Thailand-based novelist Stephen Leather, which really gives a great insoght into every angle of the farang-BG relationship. ÝIt's a free download in pdf format at the following site:
http://www.stephenleather.com/unpub.html
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:00 pm on June 16, 2002
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abe snake
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Yes you paid too much. Yes she's playing you for a fool. No you don't have a relationship - at least not the kind that you would like to have. Welcome to the club.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 9:14 pm on June 16, 2002
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DongJuan
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Am afraid I'm going to have to agree with Brother Abe Snake on that one nikko. What I can't figure out is that when you sensed the relationship was beginning to be more that just sex for money, why you continued to pay her?? Explaining it away as "it felt right" probably also led her to believe you wanted to keep it just one way (sex for money and companionship etc.) Also, the fact that you went back to the MP, when she asked you not to, then, in your anger, took another girl made you seem petty and dropping down a notch (remember she HAS to go with customers, because she's an MP girl, you didn't HAVE to go with another girl just to spite here)....
My advice to you, is to move on, and next time, draw the line in the sand more clearly and early on in the relationship to see if it is one. Having a girl tell you she doesn't want money or gifts from you is a good sign that she wants to be with you (even when she realizes deep down it won't last forever).....
Good luck nexgt time.
DJ
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 10:40 pm on June 16, 2002
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BigDUSA
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Remember this phrase; When I pay a girl for services rendered, it's a business deal, not romance!!
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:36 pm on June 16, 2002
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oldhand
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Sad story, the withdrawl syptoms when you have to go back to the real world seem to hit so many visitors to Bangkok, many including myself at times take Thailand and all it has to offer for granted, nikko the good news is that there are plenty more fish in the sea, look forward to the next trip go to the most expensive mp and take the most beautiful girl you can (afford) find and the past will be out of your system for sure.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:18 am on June 17, 2002
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Dave
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nikko
If it helps, I could tell you some stories about guys who have been just where you have been. Some of them were in relationships with non- BG's, non- MPG's. But the story was pretty similar.
The only real way an outsider could hook up with a TG would be to live in LOS for long enough to really understand the relationship. Money often talks too loudly in LOS with ANY girls.
Dave
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 2:46 pm on June 17, 2002
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Ballsburstin
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Nikko,
From all of us that have been with TGs, "we feel you pain!"  It is also why we return year after year, and develop a noticeable "blind spot" for non-Asian ladies.
My few cents, for what they are worth: I think you should end your current situation in your own mind before you return to LOS. Then steer clear of her when you get there. Take the advice of the brothers, and move on. And for sure, read "Private Dancer," for a little more insight into monetary and cultural expectations.
I'm currently hanging with a very sweet TG who has recently left the clubs. But this only works because we've established ground rules that I won't let her break: stay out to the clubs (no more ST/LT), finish school, and get a part time job at the same time. She really does want to do this, but only time will tell. Besides, she is a person of free will, and eventually will decide what future (if any) she really wants. It is very easy for these ladies to jump back into the scene, because the money is easy, and they make loads of cash compared to the average lady in BKK. If they are old enough to see beyond the bar scene (my lady is 24), then you have a shot, albeit a meager one, of the "relationship" working out for real. When our "relationship" first started, she was still doing the bar scene, because that was her job. But it became apparent to both of us that it would never work unless she switched occupations, because the emotional strain would slowly kill it for the both of us. So time will tell, but I am a realist.
Your experience has been shared by many of us. But you have to walk away from this one.
Hope your next trip to LOS (sans the current TG) is as memorable as your last one!
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:21 pm on June 17, 2002
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