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jacob
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I met a girl in CM2 and gave her money after she cam eot my room in the hotel.
I went back to BKK a few times and on my first return trip I spent lots of time with this girl for the full Thai GFE. I gave her about 2000 a day as was suggested by someone here if I recall correctly. I always treated her very well and although we could not communicate well I liked having her around as sex was not my main interest per se.
She was not great in that department anyway but oddly that added to her charm as it made it seem like she did not do so much with guys she went with. Basically she does not kiss or do oral sex and does not get on top.
Also seems very preoccupied with "water out" notions during sex. She especially likes to take care of me and seems to take genuine pleasure in hand jobs with me.
Naturally if I was judging her just on sex she would score low but the truth is I am kind of attached to her and like the whole GFE. Although make no mistake I am not a total fool as when she was not there to meet me in my hotel when I had told her in advance to be there I had great fun going out and bringing back a real sweetie from Patpong who did all the things she didnt with a smile.
Of course I amde sure I was not caught [nearly was] so as to keep my GFE sweet and I figure that it was better to let her think I was a push over if that was how she thought.
She is taller than most Thais I think, about 169 cm which although not tall is tall for a Thai girl. She has a beautiful body and seems quite full of stuborn pride.
She wanted to call me her BF and wanted me to help her which I guess means some kind of "sponsorship" but although I felt attached to her because of the time we spent together I did not feel obliged to send money. I figure it was just hard to think of her in trouble having to survive and I though that a bit of kindness maybe would go along way. Perhaps offer some light in what I imagine must be a bleak life? SHe does not drink, smoke or speak much English so I had the idea that did not really have much luck with Farangs anyway.
Despite being 26 she had never even been to the Airport so I got a kick out of buying her a plane ticket for a holiday in Malaysia for a few days and gave her about 16000 for that also.
Subsequently I sent her gifts of 10000 and 20000 over a 4-5 month period and am about to send another for 10000.
Back when I sent the first she had asked me to send money as she had little, or so she said [have my doubts] but after this she did not ask as I felt her pride would not allow her to ask. Ihad the strong feeling that she was being coached by her sista friend/s SO was always mindful of being played anyway.
Thing is I dont mind sending her money so long as it is on my terms, ie.. I feel like doing something nice for another human being that I have some experience and knowledge of, but I don't like it either particularly. Last time I phoned she was talking about staying in a Hotel not so expensive which would seemd to be a genuine concern for me to save money. Except somehow I cant help feel this is coz the more money I have the more she has yto get put of me when I am there.
I had in my head to give her 10000 the day I get to LOS in March or February and then not give her anything else bar a present I may or may not pick out shopping in MBK.
Just wondering if it is understood that all that money I sent should mean I dont have to give her money when I am there with her.
Any thoughts or similar experiences out there. I should add I am intending to go back to LOS on another trip after this and not tell her about that. Thern I will do a bit more exploring in the sexual field. My trip in FEB or MAR will see me going on a holiday to changai with this girl and mainly relaxing.
Feel free to offer any hard hitting critisisim of my whole approach etc. I am keen to learn from others.
Sorry for the length of this post.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:06 pm on Jan. 22, 2005
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thaiaficionado
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jacob,
I would strongly suggest that you not pay in advance, since this is not the norm in LOS and would only raise her expectations that you'll be increasing your generous remitttances, which would ultimately be a huge letdown, and she may start to wonder if she did something wrong to make you stop giving money. Take her shopping, and out to dinner if you like, let her see you to the airport when you leave, then pay her there, or else just give an incremental amount each day. That's my suggestion.
Otherwise, if she's not going to see you off at the airport, just change hotels during your stay, tell her you're leaving, drop the guilt trip, and bonk a few other girls from NEP or Soi Cowboy. After all, this is LOS, you can have your cake, and eat it too. Trust me, it's OK. Enjoy life!
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 10:42 pm on Jan. 22, 2005
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LiamOZ
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Hi Jacob,
Thaiaficionado is absolutely right. If I might add my 'two bobs worth', I still use dailly payment for my TGF around 1k baht, even after two short tours with her. Every now & then I will give her a little money to have lunch with her friends or go shopping, which allows me to butterfly if I want, or just take a break.
When I have a friend doing a tour, I get them to drop by the bar and give her only 1k Baht - this only happens about 3-4 times a year. I find every time I send any money, she is very happy. In fact. when friends drop in the money, she can't contain herself and rings me in oz "thankyou for my present, I love you my darling etc etc"
She also knows that the size of any goodbye gift is directly related to how often & in how many ways she makes me happy (in the biblical sense). It's like a game, but it was very important to convey the rules to her in the interest of fairness.
So what I am saying is that for the sort of money you are outlaying, I think you would get so much more value if you did it in smaller amounts, & held some out to the end.
Good Luck,
Liam
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:33 pm on Jan. 22, 2005
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Blattsucker
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Hi jacob, first read more posts here.
Unless you plan to marry this girl sending money is wrong.
Don't fool her and don't fool yourself. You don't love her, you just like her. And does she love you? No! Does she like you? That is possible, but I doubt it. But you can check that easily. Stop sending money. If she still wants to see you, you have a chance. Don't even pay her during your stay there (except some taxi money and barfine). If she realy likes you she will stay with you anyway. If she starts asking for money, say you will pay her on your last day and that you will not send more money in the future (because you heard there are some bad girls in BKK, not her ofcourse). Also tell her how much it will be. Don't f*** her on that. Give her something like 2000 x # of days, not more, I prefer less. If she likes you, you have some nice days coming to you. If she is after your money your fun days (with her) are over. The more she bugs you for money the less you will give her in presents and such (extra money). If she has an emergency like the rent is due (only on the end of the month) you give her not more then the money you already owe her. Her rent is about 2000 Baht so if she needs 10.000 she is f***ing you big time.
If she only wants your money and hates your guts, she will find an excuse very quick, like she has to visit her mother or something and she will be gone. Don't go out of your way to expose her, leave it at that. The money is gone and the only thing you will get is grieve. Don't visit her bar for the rest of your stay.
If she stays with you, you can test her. Go to places with her where you have to pay and negotiate for something. Buy a t-shirt on the street or something like that. If she helps you in getting a lower price (before or after the fact) you have a good girl. But the best test will be visiting her bar in the middle of your stay. Stay there for several hours. If you leave the bar with a bill of 1000+ Baht of ladydrinks, look how she reacts. If she made sure you ordered and payed those ladydrinks, her loyalty is with the bar and not with you. Time to dump her. If she reacts like my girl did : "WHAT??? You pay to much!! We will never go to bar again!" then you have a good girl. Keep her and give her all the presents you feel fit.
BTW presents are better then money as extra payment. Money goes to her boyfriend/husband to buy whisky. Presents are for her and her alone (you hope). Goldchains = money, so no present. If she askes you for that, you are f***ed.
My guess is you got f***ed over real good. Be glad you are "only" 30 or 40K down. There are suckers out there that sent money like 100K per month. Which would make those girls richer then the king. Get rid of her and find a REAL nice girl. And forget about Patpong, you will not find them there, that is where those 100K's are going. Go to Pattaya and pay 1K per day and have yourself a NICE girl.
And you said she was big for a thai girl, she only gives handjobs and "water out". What does that mean? her "waterworks are out"? She have no pussy? Is she a ladyboy? Then you got f***ed in more ways then one.
Next time check if she has some kind of little snake where here pussy should be. If so then SHE is a HE. 
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 2:41 am on Jan. 23, 2005
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Bangkoksexydotcom
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there are so many girls in CM2 that does this. The sex is no good and she does not want to do it. If you hire a Thai Guide from Thai air ways and a Limo you pay 1000 THB a day and I bet the guide make a better date then some cheating BG from CM2. I do not think any of the memeber in the forum will advice you to pay 2000 THB a day for a boyfriend girlfriend typ of ting. You pay her when you go home thats it.
She has no "Barfind" to pay as many other bar girl she is a freelancer and should make about 5000 THB a month with a normal job. If you do not like her sex change and get some one how does there is plenty to go around. And if you are paying you are the boss ALWAYS remeber that.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:42 am on Jan. 23, 2005
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Basher
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No communication
Lousy sex
costs a fortune
Sounds like you are already married mate
Bash
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:48 am on Jan. 23, 2005
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Autosweep
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Bangkoksexy.com, you make some good points. I never really looked at it as I was the boss. That gives me a whole new perspective on p4p. Not to get into this money issue again but I look at it like this. If I have this girls' services for x amount of days, she is not earning from any other customer. Its not so much what I am paying her but she is not able to solicit her services if she is with me. I guess I feel like I have to compensate her for her lost wages. The actual amount being paid is another story.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:46 am on Jan. 23, 2005
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Blattsucker
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?????????? Is it just me or should they Autosweep him straight into the loonybin??????????
Shove him in a rubberroom and throw away the key. Your logic is seriously flawed. First you throw money around like it was sand in a dessert. And now you get all generous on your girl because you take up her time???? She can not make money while she wastes her time with you????? Jesus, your one sick mo'digger.
Maybe you forgot, but you took a girl out of a bar. That means you entered a contract. If you have no intension in fulfilling your end of the contract, that makes you a scam artist. A lowlife. A crook. You should go to jail. See how far you can throw your money in a thaijail, maybe it buys you a juicier cackroach.
And out of the f***ing goodness of your heart, you even consider to pay the girl the money you OWE her because you entered the contract with her. Maybe even something extra.
So you also go to AVIS or HERTZ and rent a car; after you have done the Daytona 500 with it, you bring it back and you CONSIDER paying the Avisguy some money because the car was just standing in the parkinglot and could have made him some money if he could have rented it to some customer?
I hope you don't mind me caling you ASSWIPE from now on? Do you????
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 6:27 am on Jan. 23, 2005
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Autosweep
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Blatt,
I am willing to forgive your remarks because you must have misunderstood my post completely.
All I was trying to say was I am happy to pay the girl I take with me. It was very much the opposite of what you read. If for example I BF a girl for seven days, she could have earned anywhere between 14- 20000 baht.
I was trying to explain that I must cover those costs if I wish the girl to spend those days with me. Whether she says up to you, free, whatever, I feel I must compensate her for her days being off the market. I hope that clarifies my view. If you still think i'm loony, well f--k you too!!
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:29 am on Jan. 23, 2005
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