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eddie eagle
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Is this the best excuse......at least one I have not heard before?
My TGF has gone to stay in the temple for a month. She first told me a month ago that she would have to spend time in the temple and she timed the visit to fit in with me leaving Thailand on short notice for a couple of weeks i.e. I fixed the dates not her.
Reason for her going into the temple is the monk told her on a previous visit she would have very bad luck and could die if she didn't. When I asked her if it she would shave her head like the buddist nuns I have seen she said no...she called me last night and said she was going into the temple today but would call me from time to time becasue she gets out of the temple some times to visit her mother. The routine is two (2) meals per day plus a prayer and mediatation regime. When I asked the TGF the name of the temple she said she didn't know....bit surprising since it is nearby to her village.
I would like to think it isn't a scam but there are too many areas of doubt plus I haven't heard of TG's going into a temple before....I am minded to walk away from her applying the principle "if you think a TG is lying she probably is"
....any advice would be appreciated
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Posted on: 11:20 am on June 15, 2005
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paulo100
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I think you know the answer already, don't you?
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Posted on: 11:30 am on June 15, 2005
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sentry
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man.... pinch yourself, are you awake?
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Posted on: 11:32 am on June 15, 2005
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eddie eagle
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If she was typical BG I would't be posting this thread....even so I am minded to walk away.....I haven't heard of TG staying in temple for one month before so gut feeling is it is in fact a "wake up call"...even so I would welcome feedback on the liklyhood of the temple visit being genuine
History is I met her in a bar 2 years ago...
she had just started (yes I know heard it before) but I know she was telling the truth...no tatoos, doesn't drink, doesn't smoke, could't speak a word of english...plus my mate who owns the bar showed me the book so I could how long she had worked there (6 days) and how many LT / ST she had done.
Her story before that is she worked in a factory until her Thai boy friend did the dirty on her...this again is true I have seen her bank book + job papers etc...
I took out of the bar immediatley I met her and in the past 2 years she has been with me all the time in Abu Dhabi and Japan except for 2 months earlier this year when she stayed in bangkok (visa problem) during which we kept in touch every day by telephone and she stayed at her TG friend's house and went to English classes.
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Posted on: 11:45 am on June 15, 2005
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ColoradoGuy
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Quote: from eddie eagle on 10:32 am on June 15, 2005
I would like to think it isn't a scam...
... then don't think it is a scam, if that is what you want. (BTW, doesn't 'scam' imply some extraction of money from you without providing the purchased service. I don't see how her disappearing for a month for whatever reason is a 'scam'.)
I suggest you believe her. You've believed everything she has told you up to now. Why stop now.
Based on what you have written, I think it wouldn't hurt you to believe her "story". When she gets out of the "temple", you can proceed with your relationship as before.
Maybe you think too much.
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Posted on: 11:55 am on June 15, 2005
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eddie eagle
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Coloradoguy....yes you are right I do think too much...thanks for the reply and the advice
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Posted on: 12:14 pm on June 15, 2005
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Abrak
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Eddie,
It sounds like a lie. It is probably a lie.
But you have to think why she is lying to you. she is doing that because she thinks you dont want to know the truth not because she wants to deliberately end your relationship.
Maybe you have some truths that you havent told her because you know she wouldnt like to hear about them. The key thing to ask you is how much does it really matter. If your relationship is really fairly superficial and about having fun together, forget about it. If you are viewing her a future wife and partner you are best to get to the bottom of it.
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Posted on: 12:51 pm on June 15, 2005
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Loung Steeb
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Eddie, Eddie, Eddie, wake up and smell the napalm.
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Posted on: 12:57 pm on June 15, 2005
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compexec1
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I know that Lao Girl, her Sister, and Her mother have spent time at the local temple in laos to make merit. I have pictures of them all in "Nun" outfits, traditional skirt, shirt and sash.
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Posted on: 1:01 pm on June 15, 2005
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manowar
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Eddie, I for one think it may not be a lie. For her to use "temple" as a cover for her possible indiscriminatory activities will be quite extrordinary. She could have come up with 10 other "lies" that you have no way of verifying. Using her beloved "religion" as a cover for such "sinful act" would be something totally unnecesary and her buddhist belief of "cause " and "effect" would be tantamount to "hellish" for any buddhist to bear. As why she does not know the name of the temple. It is because she does not know the "English" name of the temple. Ask a Thai friend to ask her in Thai what the name of the temple is? I bet she would have a good answer for you. Of course, I only know very suferficially your relationship with her. So I could be completely wrong. But my hunch says it is not a lie.
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Posted on: 1:24 pm on June 15, 2005
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