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swissbuddy
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A friend of mine met a tg in a thai restaurant in switzerland. her aunt (ex bg, ex freelancer girl) is the owner of this restaurant and the tg works black there for 3 months. he is enloved a little bit and she told him she didnt have any contact to the bar scene. as he is unsure he asked me if there are some things he could ask her to find out if she had contact or not because he is enloved but unsure. pls help me how he can find out she had contact or not. (she does not play cards, drink, or smoke) thanks for your help.
swissbuddy
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Posted on: 10:39 am on Oct. 13, 2003
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NaughtiusMaximus
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just tell him to get her a little tipsy, then when she is all relaxed and feeling ok, tell him to throw in a 'so.. how much for short time' she will be so comfortable that she might just by sheer habit, spit out 1500 baht or 'up to you' either way he will then know for sure.
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Posted on: 10:51 am on Oct. 13, 2003
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Arcadius
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If the girl has family connections in the P4P biz, it's not unlikely that she's been involved herself at some point. He could try quizzing her about where she goes and what she does during her trips home, but he'll probably get 'satisfactory' answers no matter what she actually does do. Obviously, she's not going to say that she cruises Suk two nights a week and then sees what she can pick up at the Grace.
The fact that she doesn't smoke, drink or play cards means nothing. Many BGs are quite puritanical in these respects.
The truth is that your friend most likely will never know. His best bet is to work on not caring about it.
After all, does any of this matter so much? The key to 'reforming' a BG is to get her away from an environment where P4P is normalised behaviour. In Switzerland, this should be a lot easier than in LOS. As for the history - well, whatever it was, it's been and gone. Ý Ý
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Posted on: 11:07 am on Oct. 13, 2003
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Ballsburstin
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Yeah, not smoking, drinking, card playing, etc. means nothing. My TGF never did any of these, and some of her friends who are still in the P4P scene don't either.
I agree with Arcadius, better to not worry about it, if he loves her and if she is content with spending time with him in Switzerland. My guess is that she was involved in P4P, especially since her aunt was. But it only matters as much as he lets it matter. If he wants to be with her, he will have to accept her past and present, whatever if may be (and he may never know); otherwise he should just move on. This has to do more with his ego and Western values than the TG's.
- Balls
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Posted on: 12:51 pm on Oct. 13, 2003
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Ballsburstin
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swissbuddy,
One more thought: you should invite your friend to peruse the BKK Tonight forum (if he hasn't already). If he really wants to be comfortable with the apparent contradictions Westerners see in the Thai scene, it will be a bit of an education. Certainly not representative of all of Thailand, but the forum is an education. He will find that most of us accept these ladies for who they are, not what they do, or may have done (though we like that too  ).
- Balls
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Posted on: 12:55 pm on Oct. 13, 2003
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mm3
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swissbuddy,
Balls and Arcadius are correct. ÝYour friend should leave her past alone. ÝShe is no longer in Thailand and if she has been in the bar scene before, she is trying to start a new life. Ý If he is so concerned about what she has done before they met, perhaps he should just move on and leave this girl alone.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:34 pm on Oct. 13, 2003
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mokewen
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swissbuddy -
I concur with all the posts - excellent advise.
Tell your friend to take his time and use his instincts - stop trying to reason it out.
Besides as has been eloquently stated in this thread:
History is History - we all have one including your buddy!
We expect ours to be accepted with no questions asked, so afford the same courtesy to the other side.........
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:00 pm on Oct. 13, 2003
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swissbuddy
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Dear all
Nice advises and thank you for taking it serious. thanks and a hello from switzerland (still)
swissbuddy
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Posted on: 1:28 am on Oct. 14, 2003
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ringthebells
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get her into the sack.
if she is still a virgin, he can be sure she wasn't in the P4P scene before.
if she is really cute, has nice boops and her english name starts with J, I know exactly who she is. as I know a girl who went to switzerland couple of month ago to stay with her aunt. seriously.
if it's her, leave her past alone. she is nice and genuine. she never went ST but was looking for relationship and for somebody to take good care of her. my "hansum" friend from austria broke her heart once and yes, it was heartbreaking when she cried on my shoulder.
rtb.
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Posted on: 2:29 am on Oct. 14, 2003
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griffin
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rtb,
this is not jing you are talking about? anyway this jing is for sure good in giving heartbreaking appearances!
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Posted on: 3:56 am on Oct. 14, 2003
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