| |
Hugh Jardon
|
Jojje, I can relate to everything you say.  Maybe there are other Bros out there who would scorn the very idea of a TG getting under their skin because their attitude was the same as yours was before. But their day will come, just as yours has. I reckon that as you say, the temptation to either phone her, just to hear that lovely soft sexy voice, or to write an email, just to ask how she is, will be too great.
Sometimes you find something that you weren't even looking for and didn't even know you wanted or needed until it's there.
I initially went to LOS just over 28 months ago following my divorce, just for some pure unadulterated sex and I fell in love with Thailand and TGs in Phuket. There have so far been a couple of BGs that have gotten right under my skin, but I realise that a relationship with them is futile for me, as I couldn't bear knowing that some other guy would be screwing my girl most nights. That might also grow to be a problem for you if you carried on with this girl. 
So I will be meeting two girls from a dating site at the end of December that I will have been in touch with since my last trip in June. And both of them are already right under my skin before I've even met them!
But before I meet the first one, I have put aside a day and night to see the BG that I was with on my last night in Bangkok in June. She sounds just like your girl, only 20, stunningly beautiful and hates the BG work, wants to meet and marry a Farang, even a much older one like me. I promised to help her get on the internet, post a profile on that dating site and generally assist her to find a guy to take her away from that life if she genuinely wants to leave it. Of course I'll really enjoy having sex again with her that night, but she still managed to be so adorable that I felt inclined to do these things for her out of feelings of compassion and humanity for a fellow human being. I phone her every Sunday to ask her how she is. So although I'm developing a serious relationship with these two dating site girls, I take time and trouble to care for this young BG that I was with for one night. Stupid, eh?
But like you and Manowar, my attitude is that we only pass this way once and if we are able to bring a little happiness into the lives of others along the way, the satisfaction that we get from knowing that we have made even the slightest beneficial change to another's life is reward enough.
Of course, whether I'd be quiet so prepared to put myself out in this way for a girl that was fat and ugly, is a question that I'd rather not ask myself! 
|
Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:02 am on Oct. 31, 2004
|
|
caronte
|
Jojje, welcome to the club!
I, as many other bros as strated by Hugh, used to laugh about the idea of falling in love with a TG/BG and go for the sponsorship.....
I learnt what is Thailand in a very hard way, got screwed the first time cuz of my inexperience and the "evil" intents of a TG I met.....TGFE, trip to Isaan, lot of money poured and then all got f***ed up...and looking back, I'm glad it did happen in that way...
Later I got myself married with a nice, well educated, call it hi-so lady, became part of the family and got a very regular and stable life here in BKK.....some sporadic daily actions and visits to MPs, never got into serious shit until.....few months ago, I met the only TG that totally got me out of mind....and here I am now, living on the edge of a drama, endangering a safe life just to spend few more hours with my candy....
As Tolstoji said, emotions is the ink we use to write the pages of our lifes......
|
Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 5:32 am on Oct. 31, 2004
|
|
Abrak
|
Jojje,
I dont want to sound cynical BUT...
I am sure one of the undoubted attractions of this girl is that you CANT have her now - because you are not in Thailand. She is a gorgeous memory that you are missing badly. We all lust after things we cant have.
I find that the lustre fades on even the finest of fine TGs if you can have them 24/7. Still there is always another sparkling gem just around the corner.
|
Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:47 am on Oct. 31, 2004
|
|
BigDUSA
|
This brings to mind the song addicted to love, we all think were immune to this stuff until we meet the one and if were lucky she will feel the same way.
Any chance you can move to LOS and start a different life?
Damn the illusion is powerful......
|
Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 8:02 am on Oct. 31, 2004
|
|
John NM
|
"Cold-hearted orb that rules the night
Removes the colors from our sight
Red is gray and yellow white
And we decide which is right
And which is an illusion?"
To a large degree, we make our reality. I think one should always try to make as many of our healty fantasies true in this time here. Time is short, and gets shorter the older we get. A shame to waste it.
|
Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 8:10 am on Oct. 31, 2004
|
|
CalEden
|
Excellent post Jojje! And you hope that little extra given can make her life a little bit more comfortable. It makes you feel so good, you wish you could do something that would truly change her life. There are some sweet little TG's that deserve a better lot in life. How they face such adversity, can smile at life, and leave your heart a glow with their innocent love of life.
|
Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:45 pm on Oct. 31, 2004
|
|
StrayGypsy
|
Yeppers you and every Bro in here never ever ever ever forgets his last Tee Ruk before he catches the jet ride home......You got the Da Ja Vu flashbacks to fond young girls always wet and waiting for us.....they will always be young and come of age when we arrive and return and return again for more everlasting memories.
Young girls come from all over SE Asia to Bangkok and Pattaya for better lives.... When I retire there I hope have many young 23 year olds come and go outta my life.
I would email and call em; keep in touch dont spoil too too much with western union cause thing uopn return may never be same same....she grows up from shy new gilr to jaded drinking/partying BG thats really spoiled by living a dream life that gives her much attention if shes pretty enough.
But hey they will always come of age....thats why ya gotta Butterfly around the little soi bars for the cute ones.
If she changes sour upon next meet, move on... it will happen eventually maybe or she'll be sponsered well....
Good Quotes from all in this FR
And the strangest feeling of all is that the little girl with her smile, her amazing firm and young body broke through some barrier that I certainly thought was unbreakable. Her appearance is still in my head - and I think about her almost daily even now that I am back home - and miss our too short time together...... damn...
|
Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:57 pm on Oct. 31, 2004
|
|
Jojje
|
I think all here posted nice and genuin entries. It is obvious that many of us have had very interesting moments that gave us memories for life -- even if it is new bets and numbers next time!
I am just greatful as long as there is a "next time". Some months ago I was seriously reminded of lifes fragility. An old buddy - not particularly old - was gonna hook up with me for a few brewskies on saturday. Thursday late, his lady calls and tells me that he had just fallen down outside their door. Dead before he reached the ground......
Gone forever and he certainly cant have the great feeling of stepping out of the planes door at Don Muang knowing you have a couple of weeks great fun ahead of you.
So that has changed me in a way - because it is not first friend lost but this time very "real" somehow.... I will for the rest of my days ENJOY myself and not miss a single chance of whatever satisfactions are available!
So there!
|
Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:29 pm on Nov. 3, 2004
|
|
StrayGypsy
|
May his Spirit rest on the wings of a Thai Butterfly, AMEN
Kor Thoat !
I will for the rest of my days ENJOY myself and not miss a single chance of whatever satisfactions are available!
Chi all of us Bros need to know that there are many fair thai maidens to take care of us; wanting and willing. IF they get too too spoiled move on and Butterfly....cause they will. I hope to find a nice bliss as lesbian sisterhood jet ski boy in my later years over there.
|
Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 4:26 pm on Nov. 3, 2004
|
|
silentbob1234
|
Here today, gone tomorrow. Life is a garden, ya gotta dig it, man.
Git-R-Done!!!
|
Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:01 am on Nov. 4, 2004
|
|
| |
|
