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NINGNING
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Luke,
Good on you! I agree 100% with that.
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Posted on: 9:16 am on Feb. 19, 2005
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Masy
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Its not what you call them that matters, Its how you
treat them.....that matters
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Posted on: 10:01 am on Feb. 19, 2005
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tilac
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Hmm,
Well what can I say ?
It's just what you think is the definition of prostitute ( whore is a subjective term that shows no respect, I will not use it).
I think the definition of prostitute worldwide = males of females that make their (part-time) profession to provide sex services for money, correct or not ?
So the GFE experience is just a part of their service, correct ?
What will happen if you decide to dump the girl you took last night, well she will return to her bar and look for another customer, right ?
Bottom line: you have the 1st choice, but if you decline they will just go looking 4 another customer, that's how girlfriends behave, right ? The same as anywhere else.
Just goto a bar and decline the girl a drink, what will they do ? You know the answer !
Off course the P4P scene in Thailand is unique in the world, im the 1st one to agree with that, but don't make it more romantic then it is !
I've been with 100's of Thai girls over the years, and enjoyed with most of them, so just have a good time and don't think about tomorrow !
Regards
Tilac
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Posted on: 1:09 pm on Feb. 19, 2005
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yodsaker
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It's in your mind what she is and its in her mind, too.
I would rather not de-personalize them into a category but some guys find this is necessary. That's their pathology.
For me the girls are people, some are good and some aren't, just like "real" people.
How the girl sees herself is key.
Most of the TGs I have encountered are decent girls trying to get by in a society that doesn't extend many breaks to those who have had bad luck, or aren't connected, or don't have many opportunities to get paid $500/week to be a receptionist.
They don't see themselves as prostitutes but as people who have to earn a living by doing some unpleasant things with unpleasant people who see them as lesser beings.
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Posted on: 1:21 pm on Feb. 19, 2005
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Luke
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Dear Brothers,
I don't disagree on the whole with Tilac's comments, nor with his philosophy, but I think it would be helpful to examine the word "prostitute" a little more closely. The following is from the MS Encarta Dictionary:
prostitute
pros·ti·tute
n (plural pros·ti·tutes)
1. somebody paid for sexual intercourse: somebody who receives money in return for sexual intercourse or other sex acts
2. somebody who degrades talent for money: somebody who uses a skill or ability in a way that is considered unworthy, usually for financial gain
vt (past pros·ti·tut·ed, past participle pros·ti·tut·ed, present participle pros·ti·tut·ing, 3rd person present singular pros·ti·tutes)
1. misuse something for gain: to use a skill or ability in a way that is considered unworthy, usually for financial gain
"He has been accused of prostituting his talent by appearing in TV commercials."
2. work or offer somebody as prostitute: to work as a prostitute or offer somebody else for sexual intercourse or other sex acts in exchange for money
[Mid-16th century. From the past participle of Latin prostituere “to expose publicly, offer for sale,” from statuere “to set, place” (source also of English statute).]
In light of the above, almost every human being in the modern commercial world could be called a prostitute in one sense or another, or at the very least has encouraged and fostered prostitution in some form through his or her custom and commerce. Moreover, if we use as the criterion of prostitution the fact that a BG will, if rejected, simply seek another "customer," then once again, I would submit that we're all prostitutes, because people in the so-called legitimate world do exactly the same thing, albeit usually on a more expanded time scale and for far higher stakes than a couple of thousand baht. The experiences posted by brothers on this forum comparing the financial behavior of their "legitimate" farang wives and girlfriends with prostitution are too numerous to mention.
In the purely sexual sense, Tilac is right, of course. But most of us have thousands of prostitutes within a few miles of home back in farangland. Here in NY, there are many Asian hookers whose beauty rivals any in the world. So why go through all the contortions and grief associated with a trip to Thailand, if the girls in Thailand are "just" prostitutes? This is the crux of the issue. It isn't so much whether the word "prostitute" technically describes one aspect of what Thai working girls do -- okay, it does -- but whether that aspect defines them as people. If you believe that it does, then calling them whores (and I note, to Tilac's credit, that he doesn't use that word) or prostitutes is appropriate. If you believe that it doesn't and that in fact there is something exceptional about Thai working girls as a whole, a sweetness and humanity that is genuine and even admirable given their lot in life, then in all probability you won't.
Finally, our preference of one word over another may be more a reflection of what it is that we are seeking from the girls than it is of the girls themselves. If we're only out for a shag in complete isolation from our emotions and spirit, then maybe "whore" is the right word, not because it's what defines her, but what defines our perception of her. If, however, in the back of our mind and heart there lurks another hope, the hope for a real human connection (which the first type of brother will, I know, label as stupidly romantic and even dangerously naive), then we will most likely refrain from using those words in the interest of eliciting something in ourselves that is worthy of that hope.
There's no final answer in this debate. People can only be "convinced" by their own experience and inner wisdom, not through argument. These two categories of brothers have peacefully coexisted from time immemorial, and continue to do so on this forum!
Cheers brothers!
Luke : )
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Posted on: 2:29 pm on Feb. 19, 2005
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Jojje
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Quote: from outbound on 6:46 pm on Feb. 19, 2005
Why do people get so offended when a bar girl is called a whore or a prostitute??? I mean if you are paying the girl for sex then the esence is that she is a prostitute.
You are paying her to provide you with with a sexual service hence the word prostitute, whore, etc. So why do some peple try and sugar coat it and pretend its something different???
I accept the fact that if I pay a girl for sex then I am having sex with a prostitute nothing more and nothing less.
Surely it can't be that hard to accept??
Aha - so they are whores in your view, plain and simple and with that label...
You know... many girls of said profession also have a rack of names on "customers" using their services. So you dont mind to "accept" those less than sweet expressions then eh....... John? Take an advice - stay home and use your regular 1$ girls at the streetcorner, you are certainly misplaced in LOS.
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Posted on: 9:19 pm on Feb. 19, 2005
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Bangkok Chang
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I accept the fact that if I pay a girl for sex then I am having sex with a prostitute nothing more and nothing less.
Surely it can't be that hard to accept??
Ah I'm getting the hang of this now.
If I pay the girl for her company and DON'T ask to have sex with her then she's not a whore.
If, later, she throws herself on me she still isn't a whore because she isn't being paid for sex. The sex is free.
I'll try that next time I'm down Nana and let you know how I get on.
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Posted on: 9:58 pm on Feb. 19, 2005
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issanking
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I find the words whore and prostitute very derogortotry,
most of the p4p girls in uk are making loads and are the starfish you dread.
thai girls in the main do not choose to do this they are driven by society and the familly.
with out people like us there would be no trade, if you not in to this don't get involved, because for sure somebody else will.
in all we are men and we need no strings p4p more now than then thank god for los.
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Posted on: 11:32 pm on Feb. 19, 2005
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PoopScoop
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Thankyou Outbound for stating the obvious.
I am sure we are all aware of the facts. What I fail to see in here, apart from your childish attempt to stir trouble, is where are all these upset and miserable members who get so heartbroken when you mention the word "whore".
They are hookers, just a much finer class of one than you are obviously used to.
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Posted on: 12:39 am on Feb. 20, 2005
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FP
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100 % agree with the Outbound.He has the balls to say it like it really is.They are whores,prostitutes,bitches,lazy c***s,............
All those who defend the whores are either shame of being a customer to these whores or can not get any free pussy in thailand or in their homeland,therefore they have to sugarcoated.
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Posted on: 4:03 am on Feb. 20, 2005
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