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China Sailor
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I agree with 'manowar'..
It is common for a Thai to go to the sanctuary of a Buddhist Temple to meditate, clear the emotions, and/or make an important life decision. Devout Catholics do the same thing at monasteries and convents; Moslems use the Haj; etc.
I have a friend whose Thai wife was exhibiting a lot of anger and having emotional outbursts (apparently related to menopause). He and her family packed her up, sent her to a temple for a month, and she returned home in better spirits and pretty much her old self again.
I would believe the girl, as no devout Buddhist would use religion to cover up inappropriate behavior, especially if that behavior would cause harm to another living being.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:36 pm on June 15, 2005
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silentbob1234
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Don't stop believin'
Hold on to the feeeeeliiiin'
Streetlight peopleee oooooohhhhhhh..... 
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 1:57 pm on June 15, 2005
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Bangkoksexydotcom
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Some girls goes to a Temple once in a while but not for months at the time. Sometimes they go there for a week or something when some one dies in the fam. But this time I think its more the sponsor #2 that that she thinks of when she say tempel
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Posted on: 4:00 pm on June 15, 2005
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LastSurvivor
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Quote: from Bangkoksexydotcom on 4:12 am on June 16, 2005
Sometimes they go there for a week or something when some one dies in the fam.
My tgf has been "making food and serving drink" for about a week now. My understanding is the monk had an accident and I find out yesterday that he died at 100 years-old. She said that on the same day her best friend (a ladyboy in Samui) lost her grandmother. Although I am unfamiliar with the grieving process at the temples I have no reason not to believe her and she always answers the phone when I call and stays at home. I call at different times of the day and call her mothers number every so often and ask for the tgf. Follow your heart. It's a whole lot easier to end it when you acutally catch her than jumping to conclusions. A lot of members on this forum will have you believe all Thai girls lie and most are probably speaking from experience. I think in the back of our minds we are convinced it is a sham and want to say "I knew it!" You have to trust her or the "what if's" will beome overwhelming.
LS
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Posted on: 4:28 pm on June 15, 2005
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DaffyDuck
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You know, honestly - how much does it really matter wether what she says is true or not? Chances are that what she is telling you (seeing as how it deals with a temple) is true, though the issue of her not knowing the name of the temple is fishy.
Honestly, as long as she doesn't skip out on your during your 'quality time', what does it matter if she spends a month in a temple, or is off galavanting for a month in a different country with another sponsor?
Basically, you've known her for a couple of years - so it's really up to you (yeah, really) to determine how well you know this girl, and how honesty based your relationship has been so far.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 6:29 pm on June 15, 2005
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CalEden
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This may not be a scam. It is common for Thai Buddhist to spend time at the temple. There are living quarters set up for people to stay at the temple. People do spend a week or more at the temple. During Bowoutee (phonetic sp) some Buddhist will spend a month at the temple. Bowoutee occurs in April.
Last month my wife spent a week at the temple with her mother. Last year after our marriage my wife spent 4 days at the temple preparing (purifying) herself for entry into my family. I had my own religious experience in Pattaya for four days. I still had the gold strings on my wrists from the wedding. All the Thais knew I had just gotten married. The strings were bargirl magnets!
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Posted on: 7:11 pm on June 15, 2005
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Minder
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eddie eagle Posted on 12:32 am on June 16, 2005
"if you think a TG is lying she probably is"
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That is correct BUT I also apply the notion that you never really know if someone is lying but you know the truth when you hear it. Her story sounds true to me in the context of your relationship. 2 years on. You still think Thai husband or farang sponsor is hidden in the cupboard?
No. For several reasons I think she is genuine. The time you have been together is one. The "weight" given to most things a monk says is another. Not knowing the name of the Temple is not suspicious to me - its the village temple....does the one cinema in your little hometown have a name other than the "cinema"...does the shopping centre have a name other than the "shopping centre"...
Personally I'd been even less suspicious if she lasts about a week instead of the intended month...if she was lying the whole thing would be neater. My wife went to her temple at Songkran in April, with two GF's all dressed in borrowed white robes, three days was the plan..they lasted one night...it was too hot. They haven't been back since. Enjoy.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:34 pm on June 15, 2005
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Blattsucker
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Eddie,
Collect all posts here put them together and aply some logic. I collected some random thoughts, you give them the size they should have in your life, with your set of values.
Option 1 : It's a lie.
1) What is her profit?
2) What does it cost you?
3) What has she done then?
4) Will it be just a month?
What if she f***s around? Does this have a bearing on your relationship? Are you a virgin? Does she get money out of her vacation? Maybe she has fallen inlove with someone else and wants to make a soft break. Maybe you slapped her around to much. On 2) You have not said it, so I asume it does not cost you.
Don't forget she is a BG. She has been alone for 2 months, could that be a side step for her with some nookie? Was the VISA shit for real? Or an excuse?
Option 2 : It is real!
5) Why is she going to a temple?
6) What happened in the time before she came with that idea?
She has time away from you, but you are not there anyway. Why even tell you this shit? I think this is much to elaborate a lie to tell a guy that is out of the country.
Think about the reason. In the west there is just one reason the do this. She is having a baby that nobody may know about. Does she look like a blimp? That could be a clue. In the east there are 2 other reasons. Meditation or getting treatment for drugabuse. Does she drink alot? You ever see needles sticking out of her arm?
On the meditation side; what has happened in her life that might seem as a big drama? A death in the family? Or what is going to happen in her life? Has the "M" word come up in conversation. Have you come to a point where a reflection is in order? Calling it quits or tieing the knot?
Conclusion : Only you can make that. Will she be back and business as usual? Well what is the problem then? Did she f*** a monk? And do you care? And I think you take her to Shitville in Farawaystan anyway, so if she had a relation with a guy, can he get in your way again?
Only you know what you now have, you want it for 2 more years or does she bore you? Or even worse annoy you? Maybe she has fallen inlove in those 2 months and is now in turmoil of which path to follow.
But my advice would be to do the same thing, take some time to reflect on you life with her and then on your life without her. See what comes back and then make up your mind. Running away now when you know nothing can be the worst thing you will ever do. The running can easily be done next month if you so desire. Maybe she will tell you the whole story then. And if not; would a mystery month have any impact on your "happily ever after" life? I think it was Bimmher that said yesterday something like : "If you don't trust her then you are already lost!" Maybe you should cut her some slack. An LT of 2 years is not something to think lightly of.
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Posted on: 8:54 pm on June 15, 2005
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scobie
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- shakes head in disbelief -
A month in a temple, indeed, and coinciding with the tail-end of a two month unescorted stay in Bangkok!
Did you know that the word gullible isn't in the Oxford English dictionary?
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 9:34 pm on June 15, 2005
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Abrak
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Quote: from manowar on 1:36 am on June 16, 2005
Eddie, I for one think it may not be a lie. For her to use "temple" as a cover for her possible indiscriminatory activities will be quite extrordinary.[/quote)
So what you are saying is that she is not smart enough to come up with an original lie. The key thing here is that she has come up with an 'excuse' for not seeing him for a month. What to me makes it an 'excuse' rather than a reason is that she 'doesnt know' the name of the temple.
If he really wants to know it is very easy to verify. Just say when you get to the temple ring me with its 'name and address' then I will come and visit you. He doesnt have to go in person - send someone else.
My question is does he really want to know. Isnt her real message that she is going away for a month and he doesnt want to know where? Cant he trust her that he doesnt want to know? If not just find out. It is that bleeding simple.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:46 pm on June 15, 2005
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