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manowar
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Quote: from Doomas on 8:06 am on Mar. 22, 2006
Hope to get some advice from the good brethren here.
I know this MP girl for abt a year or so. We went out after her work recently and spent 2 enchanting nights together. Funny thing is, she refused to accept any money from me. I had to practically shove 3,000 baht in her hands (yeah, I know, I'm a Cheap Charlie but I had no clue what to do then). Another strange thing she said was that she likes me but doesn't know if she loves me.
How high does this rate on the BS meter? We started off as customer-provider but I sure as hell don't know kind of relationship this is now.
Doomas
You are 50%Gik and 50% customer.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:35 am on Mar. 22, 2006
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MickTheKick
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Now look at this one:
I know this stunner who is one of the top shot waitresses in a very popular upscale bar. Super sweet and super sexy. The place has an outrageous barfine policy because they don't really want their girls to be barfined too much, they (bar and girls) make their money with drinks/LDs. Nevertheless many of their very beautiful waitresses get barfined once in a while. Overall barfine quota is about 20% I guess... Only my top shot girl has a strict never-go-with-customer policy.
After some very nice evenings with her in the bar I wanted to date her. She was ready to see me after-hours for another drink but the night finally ended at her never-go-with-customers gate...  But I was hooked already and met her again and again in that bar and somehow our contact got closer and closer, phone calls and messages went in and out...  After a while she gave some signals that I might be able to bypass her policy... Finally - after 2 month (!) - and at my biggest surprise she agreed to be barfined and was also ready to open the gate for me... Yes, I'm talking of *that* gate... But it took me a long long time of being a very good boy to reach that point. No other barfining in her bar, no groping beyond public standards, solid generosity all the time...
Today she claims that I'm the only one customer she opens her gate for. She only admits that she agreed to be barfined 3 or 4 times in her 6 month working in that bar but only for going out and with no additional services from her... But I know that she's going out until late almost every night and I only get to know about the female part of her entourage... 
She has quit working recently and says this is because she can't stand the ongoing hustle from her customers in the bar or to be barfined without giving the customers what they really want. She says she's now helping some family in their shop and has plans to open her own shop...
Here are the possible explanations between which I'm drowning at the moment:
a) she is a good girl and completely honest, everything she said is true. She wants me to be her b/f.
b) she is a semi good girl and relatively honest, there is some truth in everything she said, although it is finally not the whole picture. She wants me to be her new/only sponsor.
c) she is a semi bad girl but a fairly good liar and sees other guys (customers, Thai b/f) regularly... She wants me to be one of her sponsors.
d) she is a very bad girl and an excellent liar and f***s around with falang and Thai b/f every night... She wants me to finance her costly living.
By now there is no clear evidence for any lie from her and I know her quite some time and some of my friends know and see her as well... I think the "good girl" is not possible, this is Thailand, she is a BG and to be honest I wouldn't really like this explanation - too much binding... The "very bad girl" seems to be unlikely also. Why all this fuss if she just wants me to p4p? So I have to find out how much of a semi good or semi bad girl she is... Any ideas?
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 1:09 am on Mar. 23, 2006
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or e) she is thai so ignore all the above hahahaha
ooops and f) she is female (i hope)
never trust anything that bleeds for 4 days every month and doesnt die!
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:41 am on Mar. 23, 2006
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bkkz
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Quote: from MickTheKick on 2:57 pm on Mar. 23, 2006
The place has an outrageous barfine policy because they don't really want their girls to be barfined too much, they (bar and girls) make their money with drinks/LDs. Nevertheless many of their very beautiful waitresses get barfined once in a while. Overall barfine quota is about 20% I guess...
Let me guess, Titanium?
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 5:30 am on Mar. 23, 2006
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ringthebells
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me thinks, I know her, too.
rtb
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 7:24 am on Mar. 23, 2006
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ma9
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Frankly, you should structure your expectations and emotional entanglement in such a way that the truth really is not important.
Have your fun, keep it light, and above all, protect yourself.
When the inevitable day comes that you learn that she has been selling her pussy to Singaporean businessmen, you will be able to shrug, wish her well, and say the only thing that makes sense: "Next!"
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:27 am on Mar. 23, 2006
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Bangkoksexydotcom
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MICKE did you not listen to anything I told you? Titanium is a BAR in that bar they have BAR girls. Even is they look nice they still have a price. About 1 2 3 4 5 forgett it this is Thailand it can be a mix of it all. She can already have 5 sponsors and more. Maybe she is going to Holland next year. I am very bored with them all I actully like girls that say they are BARGIRLS SPONSOR GIRLS or what ever they might be. I met maybe 10 % of all my girls that were not hookers never took a dime for sex or company. But this is Thailand its in there culture as we all know 30 % of the hookers are the farang and the 70 % good looking once are for Thais we all know it. COCTAIL bars, CAFE, Karaoke, Massage, MIA NOI, GIG its not Western words. Trust me Mike she was is and will be a hooker one of this days. So now I know why you have not called me....
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:14 pm on Mar. 23, 2006
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manowar
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Quote: from MickTheKick on 10:57 pm on Mar. 22, 2006
Now look at this one:
I know this stunner who is one of the top shot waitresses in a very popular upscale bar. Super sweet and super sexy. The place has an outrageous barfine policy because they don't really want their girls to be barfined too much, they (bar and girls) make their money with drinks/LDs. Nevertheless many of their very beautiful waitresses get barfined once in a while. Overall barfine quota is about 20% I guess... Only my top shot girl has a strict never-go-with-customer policy.
After some very nice evenings with her in the bar I wanted to date her. She was ready to see me after-hours for another drink but the night finally ended at her never-go-with-customers gate... But I was hooked already and met her again and again in that bar and somehow our contact got closer and closer, phone calls and messages went in and out... After a while she gave some signals that I might be able to bypass her policy... Finally - after 2 month (!) - and at my biggest surprise she agreed to be barfined and was also ready to open the gate for me... Yes, I'm talking of *that* gate... But it took me a long long time of being a very good boy to reach that point. No other barfining in her bar, no groping beyond public standards, solid generosity all the time...
Today she claims that I'm the only one customer she opens her gate for. She only admits that she agreed to be barfined 3 or 4 times in her 6 month working in that bar but only for going out and with no additional services from her... But I know that she's going out until late almost every night and I only get to know about the female part of her entourage...
She has quit working recently and says this is because she can't stand the ongoing hustle from her customers in the bar or to be barfined without giving the customers what they really want. She says she's now helping some family in their shop and has plans to open her own shop...
Here are the possible explanations between which I'm drowning at the moment:
a) she is a good girl and completely honest, everything she said is true. She wants me to be her b/f.
b) she is a semi good girl and relatively honest, there is some truth in everything she said, although it is finally not the whole picture. She wants me to be her new/only sponsor.
c) she is a semi bad girl but a fairly good liar and sees other guys (customers, Thai b/f) regularly... She wants me to be one of her sponsors.
d) she is a very bad girl and an excellent liar and f***s around with falang and Thai b/f every night... She wants me to finance her costly living.
By now there is no clear evidence for any lie from her and I know her quite some time and some of my friends know and see her as well... I think the "good girl" is not possible, this is Thailand, she is a BG and to be honest I wouldn't really like this explanation - too much binding... The "very bad girl" seems to be unlikely also. Why all this fuss if she just wants me to p4p? So I have to find out how much of a semi good or semi bad girl she is... Any ideas?
Mick, she is all of the above and none of the above. To TG's, bar girls or not, " to be taken care of" = "love". Not so much different than the girls everywhere else in the world. They all need a little love, a little security, a little companioship, and most of all, a little more $$ can't hurt. All girls need to feel that they are "important" to this man ( who claims to love her). And to make them feel that they are "important" to this man, this man has to either (to the western girls) declare unwavering love, buy diamond ring, pearl necklaces, swear to marry her, never leave her ( for richer or poorer, in health or sickness, till death do us part).........etc., or ( to the TG's) to "take care of her". I think Thai girls way is ultimately less expensive in the man's wallet and emotion. That's why, knowingly or unknowingly, we all want to come back to LOS and keep company with the TGs - bar girls or not........
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:34 pm on Mar. 23, 2006
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MickTheKick
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Ha BK, that's not fair, I was asking you about Titanium barfine policy before... And of course you knew it already and had your own experience...
RTB let's go private messaging...
ma9 (what a password handle...) never heard of you smart ass... But I have to say, I'm afraid you are perfectly right! I agree that making truth not so important is the secret key to loving a bargirl... It's just a special thing to reach that level of coolness... I think it was brother Abrak who wrote this sentence: "The worst thing is that we get hardened too."
Bangkoksexydotcom: Yes man, your're right. This girl has occupied me quite a bit recently. And as you know my "single" time is very limited anyway... Let's see what the future brings... I feel that I'm in for the decisive battle...
Manowar: I agree with your interpretation of the way they see love... I've learnt about this already when I had this African BG back in Europe as a long time companion. It was all the same. At my surprise I learned that the fact that I took care of her resulted in some true feelings on her side... This is so far away from the western concept of love, where 2 autonomous individuals meet at eye level...
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 8:44 pm on Mar. 23, 2006
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DaffyDuck
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Mick, the question is not "What does she want" or "What is the deal with her", but rather - What do YOU want?
If you don't know what you want, then no amount of speculation will provide you with a satisfying answer.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:47 pm on Mar. 23, 2006
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