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Smegma
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I can not really disagree with anything said above.
Well, I got all my money back handed to me. I could have let it go like this. I handed back money to make the point that my issue was not so much about the amount but the principle. Yeah! Kinda of " I don't care about money."
Had this been any other place, I would probably had not even tried. But I knew here I had a good shot.
I knew my mama would vouch for me. I am her best customer, and she had been herself best sale person two years in a row -no, I am not myself the best customer of the place-. Many times staff who have known me for a long time would take it on their own when they see new staff trying to rip me off. Often I only get to know after the fact when for example I ask why they are taking so long and fighting over my bill -and maybe it was that some newbie just wanted to put more drinks on my bill 
Rami, I like your classification. However I think you leave out a 4th group: The bitches who are not so proud as to not Ýtake your money, but are proud enough to not take is as an incentive to sleep with you. These are the worse. Oopps! That sounds like the majority everywhere.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:02 am on June 13, 2003
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Arramsey
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Smegma ,
Why have you been hiding your light under a bushel all this time ? So you do have a heart ? And fortunately it is in the right place .
FIRST :- I think you handled the whole situation very well - with maturity , firm-handed fairness & with an opening to resume where ever you left off .
SECOND :- If you really do have some feelings for this girl give it another chance . I am not going to cite all the reasons why a misunderstanding could have taken place ( you have yourself mentioned many of them already ) but from my experience I strongly feel that where there are genuine feelings involved then the carrot and stick method works very well with BG/PR girls . Haam Sup would of course say that this makes you a control freak - BUT my experience with 2 Thai BGs & 1 Chinese BG is proof that this works very well .
One aspect to emphasise - this has been said before :- These BGs & PRs are there to make money but given the chance they would prefer to have one permanent guy whom they like & could call their own so that they don't have service hundreds of other guys some of whom may be quite distasteful . However , they have seen enough of "butterfly" cases ( Remember in their eyes it is OK for them to "butterfly" because it is part of their job ) and so they need conclusive proof over a reasonable period of time before they can decide to lose out on other business potential and stick to their one man .
Does that make sense ? If it doesn't , no worries - when did being in love ever make sense ?
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 4:31 am on June 13, 2003
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ajarnboomboom
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to add my tuppence. to be honest, i didnt quite follow some of the original post. So apols if i now go in a different direction.
I too also dont really see the difference in a bg and a pr girl. same same to my eyes, just a different venue and maybe posher but thats all.
I would leave her now. Shes been playing some silly game and been caught out. If shes f_cked up why should you feel guilty? As you say she is probably feeling sorry more for the "Ive been caught and now I am going to suffer" than feeling sorry for what you went through.
Move on.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:32 am on June 13, 2003
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Smegma
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Quote: from Arramsey on 4:31 pm on June 13, 2003
Smegma ,
Why have you been hiding your light under a bushel all this time ? So you do have a heart ? And fortunately it is in the right place .
Guys guys! Those who know me -a few from the forum know me well- know that I am really a romantic at heart behind this facade of steel -as the saying in a European country I now forgot which: "Chest of steel, potato heart."
All that smart ass cynicism is just a shield to keep the soft side from coming out too much and/or too easily.
As for why I do not normally post this kind of reports. Wel,, because I tend to use too many words in anything I post already, and a report would be just too long (as this one proved to be). And there are also many reports already by those who love to post them. Some people like to bragg about what they do and others don't.
Most of the time I just wait until I see a post that draws me into elaborating on a personal experience as part of what is beeing already discussed. Why did I post this one,.... well because I was discussin this outside the forum with two bros (one was the one who also attended the dinner), and both prompetd me to post the experience.... And they convinced me easily. 
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 5:10 am on June 13, 2003
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MrJoe
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Don't believe him! He's completely heartless...;)
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 5:13 am on June 13, 2003
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MrJoe
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Oh jeez, now I'm worried that someone will be too literal and think I am being critical of the guy...
Note: The preceding post was irony.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:15 am on June 13, 2003
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Arramsey
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Quote: from MrJoe on 5:15 pm on June 13, 2003
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Note: The preceding post was irony.
Mr. Joe ,
That shouldn't have been IRONy - after all Smegma claims to have a chest of STEEL !!!!!
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:10 am on June 13, 2003
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rami
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You see what the difference between you and TG-they looks soft even more than potato from outside but their inside( I donno-soul or heart) is strong like steel.I'm sure she's not thinking now about this matter,she's too busy to find another softheart falang and sqeeze him well......
Sad but true...
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 6:47 am on June 13, 2003
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Rimbaud
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Didnít mind the length. ÝIt was an interesting fr. ÝPlease write more. ÝYou definitely did the right thing, because it seems to have resolved (somewhat) the misunderstanding. ÝI think you were right in the beginning: a cultural difference. ÝHopefully, the girl learned a good lesson and you did too. ÝSadly, it does sound like she is a good girl and meant no harm (romantic in me crawling out). ÝGod, I hate that look on their faces. ÝKills me.
Do you think she likes money too much or was just trying to make her quota/income. ÝIf she really is a good girl and does not p4p, she probably isnít making much cash. ÝYou were there and saw it first hand, but (sucker in me) Iíd go for it again. ÝHereís why. Ý1) ÝShe was sincere in her liking of you and it was one (of many) cultural bump in the road. Ý2) Ý there are hundreds of shades of friendship. ÝShe could still turn out to be fun and lead to other fun girls. 3) she could be more likely for p4p if she really needs the money. ÝGod, did I just go from romantic to conniving in two paragraphs. 
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:56 am on June 13, 2003
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