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HaroldGodwinson
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doesn't work well for your pocket though, paying for 3 hotels....
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:41 pm on Nov. 16, 2003
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nokna
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getting 'permission'?
i find this was the case in a few Bars.
i normally have a regular Girl in a Bar and I would have their 'permission' to take other Girls as long as it was S/T.
the regular Girls expected the L/T and the arrangement normally worked well.
but a couple of problems did occur now and then.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 6:41 pm on Nov. 16, 2003
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HaroldGodwinson
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i wouldn't have needed to take her friend s/t anyway nokna, if the original gal didn't have herpes lol
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:43 pm on Nov. 16, 2003
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nokna
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but at least you got to take the friend.
nothing like a bit of variety.
i have had the experiences of one girl for a visit and the butterfly one.
and I definately prefer being a butterfly, but having a special one to fall back on.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 7:39 pm on Nov. 16, 2003
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Walley
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HG, you do know that herpes will not go away, right?
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 8:13 pm on Nov. 16, 2003
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JHolmesJr
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Harold, these girls are the masters of manipulation. They can spot a sucker (in most cases, a terribly nice fellow) and get him to go through most of what you described. The details change but the script is more or less the same.
I once did a really stupid thing by calling a girl I met in bkk down to pattaya. Talk about carrying coals to newcastle! There I was in the go-gos looking at all these gorgeous creatures. Not one would approach because I already had this girl sitting next to me. Never again!
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:28 pm on Nov. 16, 2003
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ThaidUp
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I think the perfect guy to give advice here is ChicagoGuy. He juggles more girls than a circus performer.
Any advice ChicagoGuy for this bro?
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:54 pm on Nov. 16, 2003
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ChicagoGuy
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Quote: from ThaidUp on 9:54 pm on Nov. 16, 2003
Any advice ChicagoGuy for this bro?
Well, now that you ask...
First of all, if you are on vacation and the BG you just met tells you that she has herpes, you continue to be with her for the duration of your trip while you really do not want to be with her, then I'm not sure that any advice I can give will help. If this situation does not cause you to "change lady" then maybe nothing will.
Work bring me to BKK. I ALWAYS have an excuse for being unavailable. Last trip, I see Lin on night #1, then tell her I am working and will take here to Samed on days #5-7. Night #2, go get KhmerCutie, next day, tell her I am working and will be busy, might see her later. Night #3, go trolling, find nothing suitable, go get KhmerCutie, "why u here?", "work finished". "Tomorrow?", "Mai dai, working". I never go with her again on this trip. Night #4, RT and Privilege, meet NoHandsPinkHottie, she wants to be with me the next night, "mai dai, working, have to go out with boss Yurune". OK.
3 days with Lin, back to BKK, "tonight?", "mai dai, working, boss Yurune is slavedriver". You get the picture.
So, why can't you just tell them you are working and cannot see them? No girl has EVER even asked me what I do for working, where I work, etc. They don't care, and wouldn't even understand if I told them. All they care about if if I can see them. If they believe I can't or won't, that is good enough for them.
You are in control of who you see and when you see them. Be assertive, and don't let anyone push you around. If you want to have girls push you around, why come here? You can get that in FarangLand? You don't have to fly 9000 miles for that sh*t.
Also, I tell them that if I am busy working, I cannot answer my mobile.
Seems like most of my time is spent in go-gos, I think. I like to see what they look like with little or no clothing before I take them  If some girl sidles up to me and wants a drink, she does not get it. She doesn't EXPECT you to buy her a drink, she is hoping you have very little self-control! Take control of this situation and ignore her, tell her thanks but no thanks, tell her you have no money, pretend you speak only french or many other techniques, all of which have been covered in previous threads. If you buy her a drink, you are stuck with her, how can you scout the talent in the bar? Why even go to the go-go if you are going to be manipulated by some chick who you are not even interested in?
I'm not cheap, it has nothing to do with money, you cannot put a price on your wasted time
All of the above is just my own opinion and what works for me. It's "up to you". This week, I have my work cut out for me, because NanaHottie is back in BKK for part of the time I am there, there is Lin, NoHandsPinkHottie, NanaHottieLookAlike and Soi33Girl, all of whom I want to sleep with! The pimp, DrLove, has his hands full managing my affairs. And a roundtable! And to top it all off, Tyler Durdin is hitting town. How am I going to get any work done!
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:30 pm on Nov. 16, 2003
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Yurune
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See!!!!...I get blamed for everything it seems.....slavedriver....this is the guy who leaves Soi Cowboy at 6:30am and goes straight to the office, I can do it...so can you.
I wish I was his boss, he earns so much money, I'd be on more!!
I've heard that Tyler is the real master of juggling girls, but then again, I keep my stories to myself.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 11:28 pm on Nov. 16, 2003
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Arcadius
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How does a woman deal with unwanted male advances? She can be boorish and rude - get lost, creep - or she can signal her lack of interest through body language, inattentiveness &c. It's perfectly possible to do this without being in any way unfriendly or ill-mannered.
In the bars, it's just the same situation in reverse. No BG is naive in this department, and she can tell perfectly well if you have any interest in her. If she just won't take the hint and is persistent, she's being as much of a jerk as a guy who won't take no for an answer. At this point, provided you've given her every opportunity to bow out with face and dignity intact, I think your obligations to courtesy start eroding very quickly. Just neglect her and start showing open interest in other girls. Even if she has the skin of a rhino, 'face' factors will come into play sooner or later.
When you take a girl for the first time, you normally have no idea whether you'll want to convert this into a full-fledged GFE. As CG says, it's ridiculously easy to invent alibis - just tell her you have business in BKK tomorrow, or need to meet up with friends in Hua Hin, or whatever. Be studiously vague about when (or whether) you'll be back. This covers you if things don't work out. And if they do - well, obviously your 'plans' can change. Overnight.
There's no need to have any inhibitions about this kind of lying. Thais give you no brownie points at all for honesty per se. Lies which save feelings and face are a good thing; truth which wounds feelings and damages face is a bad thing. The lies you should avoid are promises you have no intention of keeping.
It's ridiculous to get stuck with a girl you don't want. The only real obligation you do have is to preserve her face - so don't butterfly from the same bar; and (unless she's impossibly sticky or obnoxious) don't tell her outright that you don't like her any more. These are all just variations on letting people down gently, adapted to local conditions.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:10 am on Nov. 17, 2003
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