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manowar
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Lack of communication ? Of course. Just because you replace a female in your home country with TGs in Thailand does not make communication between a man and a woman any easier. On top of that, now you have a language and cultural barrier. That's why, please, all you "hunson" men, treat your BG's as playmates, not girlfriend. Look at Hugh Hefner ( the luckiest man alive ), he must have what, a couple of hundred stunners at his Playboy Mansion at any one time, and how many girl friend does he have ? One. The rest are appropriately called " Playmates", for a f#$%ing good reason !! Now you are all in your "Playboy Mansion" of some sort in LOS, enjoy them as your playmates, lighten up, have fun with them, but all this seriousness about what to do next and worries for nothing. They can never be the "girl friend" that you are searching. They can be GFE, but no GF. Just enjoy the way it is.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:33 pm on Sep. 16, 2004
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BigDUSA
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manowar,
I never thought about LOS that way. Biggest Playboy Mansion in the world and I play the part of Hugh Hefner. I can dig it.
19 days till lights, camera, action.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 3:52 pm on Sep. 16, 2004
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manowar
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To me, when I am in BKK, I feel like I am in pussy heaven which I am sure is what Hef feels like all the time. ( that lucky bastard ). I am also in my undies a lot when I am in my serviced apartment and all we do all day was to drink, eat and do the %$^ like a horny rabbit. ( there is another Playboy inference). I also feel rich like Hef because my US$$$ goes a long long way....... All the girls think I am sexy and "hunson" and they all want a piece of me, just like Hef. Who wants to be like Mike when they grow up ? I want to be like Hef......hef hef hef
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:02 pm on Sep. 16, 2004
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Biff
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I talk about the weather, and weather to do it now or later and how many times!
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 10:13 pm on Sep. 16, 2004
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Brocher
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If you are running out of things to talk about (from a distance) surely this tells you something! Even with non BGs, when I find myself repeating the things I spoke about and I start to realise that the BG is only responsing to my comments rather than startin' a new topic, I reckon it's time to stop what I'm doin.
So if you are running out of things to talk about surely this tells you something. Oops time to shut up now...
Cheers
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:37 pm on Sep. 16, 2004
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Smegma
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Again, why talk? This old post from another thread comes to mind:
Quote: from Smegma on 3:08 am on July 5, 2003
I can't think of anything ruder than horny men who have to be all brainy and intelligent with their TGs. As my father used to say, if you can't say anything mundane to your girls, don't say anything at all or they may stop sleeping with you. He was right: It's not so nice to be smarter than the poor little things.
Why did you have to say all that stuff about that book you're reading? Would it have been so hard to keep your love of literature to yourself? When you display your intelligence to the Issan girls you're talking to, you're really just telling them that you don't have enough respect for them to keep your smarts to yourself.
Reeling off a list of your favorite jazz artists may make you a good parrot, but it doesn't make you a good lover. Good farang men hold their tongues, knowing they could hurt Issan girl's feelings if they show knowledge their sex partner doesn't have.
I'm sorry to have to set you straight, but most Thai girls don't speak because they want to be educational. They speak because they want to be nice. They have an interest in interacting with men in a non-confrontational manner that doesn't make them feel like dummies.
In other words, they just want to be friendly. What's friendly about bringing up some article about the Mideast crisis you read in The New York Times? Not much, that's for certain. No, it's friendlier to say unchallenging things about the time you ate, and let the girls feel like they know as much as you do.
There's more to life than being well-informed and cultured. There's good graces, good manners, and good old-fashioned horse sense -especially when it comes to knowing when to talk and when to keep your mouth shut. And, let me tell you, you may know something about astronomy, but you could certainly stand to learn a thing or two about politeness in a Thai environment.
Do you think Thai girls want to hear your views on abstract art or the First Amendment? No one wants to hear things they don't already know, because that just makes them feel dumb.
I don't think it's your goal to try to make the girls feel stupid, but you seem to have this fixation with sharing your intelligence with them. That doesn't make any sense to me. Do you know how you sound when you do that? When you say something like "I'm a big Kubrick fan," what the girl hear is, "Look at me! I know things!" And nobody likes to hear that.
I don't know why you want to come off all smart and well-read, anyway. Sure, with your head full of facts, you may seem to have the world at your feet, but if you keep it up, you'll soon have no one to share it with. Smart people are the loneliest people in the world. They don't have anyone to talk to except other smart people, and who wants to join a conversation between two smart people? No one I know. 
So, if you want to keep the girlfriends you have and maybe even make some new ones, try being a little less of a know-it-all and a little more of a know-it-some. I mean, would it really kill you to think the capital of Malaysia is Kuala Lumpur? It could only help. Trust me.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:51 pm on Sep. 16, 2004
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Brocher
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Quote: from Smegma on 5:06 pm on Sep. 17, 2004
Again, why talk? This old post from another thread comes to mind:
Quote: from Smegma on 3:08 am on July 5, 2003
I can't think of anything ruder than horny men who have to be all brainy and intelligent with their TGs. As my father used to say, if you can't say anything mundane to your girls, don't say anything at all or they may stop sleeping with you. He was right: It's not so nice to be smarter than the poor little things.
Why did you have to say all that stuff about that book you're reading? Would it have been so hard to keep your love of literature to yourself? When you display your intelligence to the Issan girls you're talking to, you're really just telling them that you don't have enough respect for them to keep your smarts to yourself.
Reeling off a list of your favorite jazz artists may make you a good parrot, but it doesn't make you a good lover. Good farang men hold their tongues, knowing they could hurt Issan girl's feelings if they show knowledge their sex partner doesn't have.
I'm sorry to have to set you straight, but most Thai girls don't speak because they want to be educational. They speak because they want to be nice. They have an interest in interacting with men in a non-confrontational manner that doesn't make them feel like dummies.
In other words, they just want to be friendly. What's friendly about bringing up some article about the Mideast crisis you read in The New York Times? Not much, that's for certain. No, it's friendlier to say unchallenging things about the time you ate, and let the girls feel like they know as much as you do.
There's more to life than being well-informed and cultured. There's good graces, good manners, and good old-fashioned horse sense -especially when it comes to knowing when to talk and when to keep your mouth shut. And, let me tell you, you may know something about astronomy, but you could certainly stand to learn a thing or two about politeness in a Thai environment.
Do you think Thai girls want to hear your views on abstract art or the First Amendment? No one wants to hear things they don't already know, because that just makes them feel dumb.
I don't think it's your goal to try to make the girls feel stupid, but you seem to have this fixation with sharing your intelligence with them. That doesn't make any sense to me. Do you know how you sound when you do that? When you say something like "I'm a big Kubrick fan," what the girl hear is, "Look at me! I know things!" And nobody likes to hear that.
I don't know why you want to come off all smart and well-read, anyway. Sure, with your head full of facts, you may seem to have the world at your feet, but if you keep it up, you'll soon have no one to share it with. Smart people are the loneliest people in the world. They don't have anyone to talk to except other smart people, and who wants to join a conversation between two smart people? No one I know.
So, if you want to keep the girlfriends you have and maybe even make some new ones, try being a little less of a know-it-all and a little more of a know-it-some. I mean, would it really kill you to think the capital of Malaysia is Kuala Lumpur? It could only help. Trust me.
So that's all the things he shouldn't talk about, got any suggestions about what he "could" talk about or is it still, "Why talk?". What about her family, what music does she like, has she thought about gettin' her hair cut differently etc. Questions about her would be worth a try, no?
Cheers
Cheers
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:21 am on Sep. 17, 2004
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Smegma
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Why do you have to feel responsible for leading the conversation? Let her do it for once. Let her lead. If she wants to talk, she will talk. You do not have to keep proving to her you are always in control.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 3:47 am on Sep. 17, 2004
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Brocher
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Quote: from Smegma on 9:02 pm on Sep. 17, 2004
Why do you have to feel responsible for leading the conversation? Let her do it for once. Let her lead. If she wants to talk, she will talk. You do not have to keep proving to her you are always in control.
That's a good point. However, this lady could be a bit shy (some BGs can be) and p'raps she needs a bit of leadin'.
Cheers
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:01 am on Sep. 17, 2004
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