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They assume wrong then, I was given string stuff and my little boy as well when we took him to see the monks on his birthday, what does that mean then, I married my son ???
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Posted on: 10:22 pm on July 1, 2004
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Jafa
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Quote: from NaughtiusMaximus on 7:01 pm on July 1, 2004
Geeez jafa, I think it went over your head…
Actually no, it didn't go over my head. My comments are just my way of saying that there are enough variations of behaviour all across the world to go around.
Now I realise that you were referring to specific Thai idiosyncrisies, and not making a generalisation of all non-Thais.
cheers,
Jafa
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Posted on: 7:57 am on July 2, 2004
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Abrak
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Quote: from NaughtiusMaximus on 10:22 am on July 2, 2004
what does that mean then, I married my son ???
Oh God this isnt another one of your crazy ideas is it NM?
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Posted on: 8:30 am on July 2, 2004
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HarryParatestes
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Thanks again guys for all the input - positive, negative, and indifferent.
I just got back from a week spent in LOS with the young lady in question. It would be impossible to properly describe all that transpired during the last week, so I won't even try. Suffice to say that chances are good I will move to Bangkok soon and see where life leads me.
Quote: from LivinLOS on 12:29 pm on July 1, 2004
DG
Love springs in odd places mate... I think the BKK scene is so much more professional than the Phuket scene.. I would say a huge proportion of the girls here are basically hunting a steady and would love for a way out of the game.. Not only have I see it I have done it years at a time monogomous with ex BG (and her me 100% for sure)...
I pray HP keeps us updated in a few months time but he is on my beer buying list too.. You either go through life cold f_cking away for 1000 a time or you risk emotional pain against the intense pleasure that getting it right can bring.
Good luck HP but please do try not to let this f_ck you head too much.
Thanks bro, I'm doing the best I can to keep the situation in its proper perspective. It is so true what you say about cold f_cking your life away for 1000 a pop or risking possible emotional pain for the intense pleasure getting it right with one person can bring. I can whoremonger with the best of them, and have done so for many years, but there is something this woman gives me that I have never quite gotten before, either in the p4p arena or outside of it.
Obviously I'm a romantic at heart, and even after a lifetime of experiences to the contrary, I would like to believe it is possible for two people to love and appreciate each other for who they are as well as what they can do for each other.
Quote: from Hermanolobo on 3:20 pm on July 1, 2004
Harry P,
You will stay with this girl for all your visit.
Yes, I did.... except for a quick visit to Eden one evening while she was in class. In retrospect, I wonder why I wasted the money - my honey does for me everything they will do but it's so much better with her, because she does it with love and emotion. Actually the Eden experience was valuable because it proved to me, once and for all, I don't need to go out for a fast food burger when I've got filet mignon at home.
You will send her money.
Not exactly - I gave it to her in person. Actually, we opened a joint bank account...
You are in Love.
I certainly have all the classic symptoms...
The odds are that she is not in love with you.
What do you base that assessment on? Do you know me?
It is likely you will end up with a broken heart.
It wouldn't be the first time, and may not be the last...
However this could be an important part of your life experience.
Absolutely - at the very least.
Better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. (old saying but true)
I definitely subscribe to that theory.
You will learn and grow from this experience, even if you are 50 years old !
Yep, so maybe it's not such a bad thing after all.
Read those long posts of mine a couple of times.
I'd love to... which ones are you referring to?
You may be lucky and things work out, but the odds are against this.
I'm not much of a betting man, but when I do bet it's always on the underdog or the long shot.... no guts, no glory.
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Posted on: 7:19 pm on July 10, 2004
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LocalYokul
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Quote: from HarryParatestes on 7:19 am on July 11, 2004
You will send her money.
Not exactly - I gave it to her in person. Actually, we opened a joint bank account...
The odds are that she is not in love with you.
What do you base that assessment on? Do you know me?
You may be lucky and things work out, but the odds are against this.
I'm not much of a betting man, but when I do bet it's always on the underdog or the long shot.... no guts, no glory.
i can suggest that if you'll be sending/giving money that you ask her to move out of BKK while you're not in LOS. Most likely she's from Isahn and cost of living is cheaper there and her getting a new ATM there is almost impossible
we are betting that she's not in love with you because we've seen it so many times
most will be sleeping with another ATM while you're not in LOS, and will dump you if they weren't dependent on your money.
it can work out. I know a guy who got one of the hottest little BGs and they've been living together for about 7 years minimum. They have two kids now and she doesn't seem to be doing any straying. But here (where I am) the situation is different.
There aren't as many retired wealthy men around to tempt her, and no BKK nightlife scene.
Tougher to get into trouble around here.
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Posted on: 8:24 pm on July 10, 2004
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HarryParatestes
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Quote: from LocalYokul on 8:24 am on July 11, 2004
i can suggest that if you'll be sending/giving money that you ask her to move out of BKK while you're not in LOS. Most likely she's from Isahn and cost of living is cheaper there and her getting a new ATM there is almost impossible
Thanks LY for that suggestion - it's the same thing DG was saying earlier in this thread. The deal is, she's lived in and around Bkk for the past ten years or so; she attended high school there, university there, and worked office jobs there after graduating from the uni. Her family lives in Surin, basically a farming village, and she is now a city girl with no desire to return to a rural lifestyle. Do I fault her for that? Hell no -- ain't nobody gonna tell me that I've gotta move out to the boondocks just because I'm worried they're gonna cheat on me. By the way, she didn't ask me for any money -- I offered it.
we are betting that she's not in love with you because we've seen it so many times
most will be sleeping with another ATM while you're not in LOS, and will dump you if they weren't dependent on your money.
You might remember from earlier in this thread that, in fact, my tii rak will be travelling to Wales for a month with another punter who has already secured her a visa. He met her over New Year's and I met her in mid-April, by which time the visa was already in the works. She has come clean, told me all about him, and in fact he was in town on the day I left and she took a photo of him on the digicam he gave her and then came over to my hotel for a last visit and showed it to me.
I have no illusions that she won't be f_cking him now and again for the next month (and having seen his photo I'm quite sure it will be as infrequently as possible), but then again she knows I have a caucasian girlfriend who lives with me in the States, and a filipina girlfriend just as young and pretty as she is in the Philippines. At this point we are looking into the near future, when all our other commitments and entanglements are disposed of, and we are both free to be together exclusively. Right now we are prepared to deal with the fact that we may both be sleeping with other people even though it is each other that we truly love. In my humble opinion, this honesty is part of what makes our relationship stronger, and in the long run more viable. I know plenty of brethren out there don't understand this way of thinking, but hey - it works for her and for me and that's all that counts, right?
it can work out. I know a guy who got one of the hottest little BGs and they've been living together for about 7 years minimum. They have two kids now and she doesn't seem to be doing any straying. But here (where I am) the situation is different.
There aren't as many retired wealthy men around to tempt her, and no BKK nightlife scene.
Tougher to get into trouble around here.
Temptation is a bitch, ain't it? Believe me, I know all about it -- I live in Los Angeles, where rich, handsome men troll in Ferraris and beautiful young women roam the boulevards in abundance. At some point, there has to be trust in a relationship. There is always a richer, more handsome man and a younger, more beautiful woman out there to be had, but that won't stop me from giving it a go with my little Thai princess.
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Posted on: 11:37 pm on July 10, 2004
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LocalYokul
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ok last post on this thread for me, as it's getting redundant and loooonggg...
too bad that she's "citified" already, not much you can do about that
if it suits the both of you, so be it...
and yes, temptation. not only in LA, but all over Cali
I remember in some of the more trendy bars, even in Long Beach, the first questions for small talk involved your job and what sort of vehicle you drove.
Might as well be walking around with signs around your neck (Volvo, 200k/yr, etc.)
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Posted on: 11:53 pm on July 10, 2004
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yodsaker
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I remember in some of the more trendy bars, even in Long Beach, the first questions for small talk involved your job and what sort of vehicle you drove.
Might as well be walking around with signs around your neck (Volvo, 200k/yr, etc.)
Not all that different, really, than "where you come from?" "where you stay?"
The objective is the same, mentally count the potential payoff.
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Posted on: 1:24 am on July 11, 2004
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cyborg
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FWIW, I think these bargirls are the most amazing ladies ever. It is SUPER easy to fall head over heels for them. Unfortunately we usually have little time in country to appropriately secure a relationship with a Thai lady that is more of a peer to us. IE Middle class and educated and with a job that does not include getting facials from overweight, bald old men. (OK maybe a few of us have a job like that but I would rather not hear about it OK?) Who needs the additional psychological damage of an ex P4P lady when you have enough cross cultural issues as it is?
If I were serious enough about wanting a Thai lady to move there, I would bang the P4P ladies while properly "Courting" a nice lady.
Convenient way to keep the blue balls at bay while you wait. One of the big benefits of LOS.
One thing about LOS that I think is almost refreshing is the frankness of the ladies in their obvious desire for the financial security we can offer. This is in NO WAY different than anywhere else in the world. The Caifornia variety IMHO is more about greed than it is about a healthy desire for security and as such is less attractive. Women want security, men want sex. This thing we call love is simply a biological/psychological trick played on us to keep us with one lady for a while. That chemical cocktail is potent but wears off even when it is actually present.
If you do go for it with a P4P lady be prepared for her to be VERY hesitant to drop all other suitors until you have a track record of "taking care good of her." She will lie about her liasons with others to save you the pain. Who knows what may happen. I like LY idea of getting her away from the temptations. Until your relationship solidifies at least. Makes sense to me.
Good luck Harry. I hope this works out well for you. Keep us updated.
Cyborg
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Posted on: 8:49 am on July 11, 2004
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ColoradoGuy
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Quote: from HarryParatestes on 10:10 pm on June 27, 2004
I'd rather show her what she might have if she plays her cards right than shell out stoopid money to "sponsor" her as she continues to bang every Tom Dick and Harry that dangle a thousand baht note in front of her.
Quote: from HarryParatestes on 10:02 pm on June 29, 2004
DG, I don't think throwing money at her is the solution.
Quote: from HarryParatestes on 7:19 pm on July 10, 2004
You will send her money.
Not exactly - I gave it to her in person. Actually, we opened a joint bank account...
Quote: from HarryParatestes on 11:37 pm on July 10, 2004
By the way, she didn't ask me for any money -- I offered it.
Any chance of you telling us what changed your mind?
Quote: from cyborg on 8:49 am on July 11, 2004
If you do go for it with a P4P lady be prepared for her to be VERY hesitant to drop all other suitors until you have a track record of "taking care good of her." She will lie about her liasons with others to save you the pain.
Spot on, Cyborg. And the punters sponsoring them know, way deep down, that the girls are seeing others. The smarts ones don't give their girls the 3rd-degree, they just don't think about it at all. Part of what they are paying for is the feeling that they are exclusive. Perception is reality.
The sponsor understands that it is not very smart for a girl to throw away the other cards she was playing just because she has been told she will be taken care of from afar. And ther's no reason she should, a girl who does this is not taking care of herself.
Edit July 14:
Harry wrote:
In case you're wondering, I put in 40K THB, or 1K USD. That is 4 months pay for my University-educated SecretaryHottie. In US equiv. pay scales, it's like handing over $12,000 - something to think about (or not.)
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Posted on: 9:10 am on July 11, 2004
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