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DSBones
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This is food & drink for a private investigator. If this is really bothering you the a PI can solve this problem for you within a couple of days for a few hundred dollars.
If she is not at the temple then you have some thinking to do. This should not be a problem as you seem to be doing quite a lot of this already.
If she is at the temple then you will be happy...at least until the next "what if" scenario comes along.
Try to keep things in perspective and act accordingly. Plenty of advice form everyone on this forum, including me, but at the end of the day what you choose to feel & think is "up to you".
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:49 pm on June 15, 2005
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macaler
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I just love these stories and the brothers responeses are the best. There is no way for you to get solice from anything anybody says here. Half will think she is ina temple, the other half won't.
The basic fact is that YOU don't trust her completely, and without trust, there is no relationship, at least not a healthy one. So only YOU know what you should do.
I speak completely from experience. I occasionaly think about my once LT TGF. But I am happier now not ever having to think or wonder what she's up to. I believe she WAS a good girl BUT, it was MY lack of trust that made the relationship a waste of time.
C'est la Vie.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 10:10 pm on June 15, 2005
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harold444
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wots a typical bargirl..........one who when you are away f***s everybuddy she can to make sum extra money??????????
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:06 pm on June 15, 2005
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eddie eagle
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Guys...thanks for the advice, its good to talk even if over the internet.....
I am going to Pattaya this weekend on route from Singapore back to Japan....so I have decided to go and get pissed and see if the picture looks a bit clearer on Monday....mind you if I get on the Sambuca the picture may well be fuzzy for all next week..... not intending to go mongering.....just a few beers with the boys..........
she is a good girl and yes I would just be better trusting her....we have been living together for the last two years in Japan and Abu Dhabi...and she has not stuck me for any money over the very small monthly allowance I give her (most has gone to her family) we have a good relationship over the last two years...........and since she told me well in advance of the fact she wanted to go to the temple and the timing of her visit to the temple was dictated by my business trip to Singapore only new about it last thursday (she came back to LOS with me from Japan last week when I was on route to singapore) I will probably decide to trust her.... a big step for me with anyone....thanks again for all the comments...
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 7:13 am on June 16, 2005
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DaffyDuck
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Is she normally a temple-going kinda girl?
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:08 am on June 16, 2005
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eddie eagle
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Yes...doesn't smoke (ciggarettes), no tattoos, doesn't drink, doesn't swear....not been to the village.....but she told a while ago her mother goes to the temple each day....
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:20 am on June 16, 2005
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ColoradoGuy
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Eddie, you got your answers as to the opinion of the bros here on whether she was actually going to the temple. Some say probably yes, some say probably no, some say no way.
I didn't say whether she is going to the temple because I do not know for sure. I suggested that maybe you shouldn't care about it so much. My opinion mirrors Abrak's when he said "My question is does he really want to know. Isnt her real message that she is going away for a month and he doesnt want to know where? Cant he trust her that he doesnt want to know?"
As DSBones said, if you worry about this story, what about the next one, and the next one, and the next one...
I didn't say she is really going to the temple, I only suggested that you believe her when she tells you this. The farang quest for the absolute truth about their TGFs can be a task that is time-consuming, frustrating, unhealthy and time-wasting, in my opinion. Ignorance is sometimes blind, and might be bliss for you in this case. It would give you a hell of a lot less to worry about if you try to believe her.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:24 am on June 16, 2005
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sentry
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wow... I can't believe that some brothers here actually believe his chick.. I guess if we were all 'street smart' they'd all be out of long term business so I guess some ignorance on y'all's part is only part of the evolutionary chain...
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:33 am on June 16, 2005
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manowar
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Quote: from eddie eagle on 3:25 am on June 16, 2005
Guys...thanks for the advice, its good to talk even if over the internet.....
I am going to Pattaya this weekend on route from Singapore back to Japan....so I have decided to go and get pissed and see if the picture looks a bit clearer on Monday....mind you if I get on the Sambuca the picture may well be fuzzy for all next week..... not intending to go mongering.....just a few beers with the boys..........
she is a good girl and yes I would just be better trusting her....we have been living together for the last two years in Japan and Abu Dhabi...and she has not stuck me for any money over the very small monthly allowance I give her (most has gone to her family) we have a good relationship over the last two years...........and since she told me well in advance of the fact she wanted to go to the temple and the timing of her visit to the temple was dictated by my business trip to Singapore only new about it last thursday (she came back to LOS with me from Japan last week when I was on route to singapore) I will probably decide to trust her.... a big step for me with anyone....thanks again for all the comments...
Next time she calls, tell her that you want to go to her temple to visit with the monks for spiritual guidance, perhaps make some donation. If she sounds excited and can't wait for you to come, then you know she has not lied to you. If she hesitates and does not want you to come, then you may want to find out why?
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 9:35 am on June 16, 2005
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ColoradoGuy
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Quote: from sentry on 7:45 am on June 16, 2005
... so I guess some ignorance on y'all's part is only part of the evolutionary chain...
Or maybe it is good for both parties.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:39 am on June 16, 2005
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