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bkkz
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Quote: from Pegasus1 on 12:23 pm on Nov. 20, 2008
After dinner I wished them well and told them I would see them in a few weeks, when I returned to BKK. They immediately turned to me and asked for money as though I had bar fined them etc.
A good girl would not ask you for money...  Perhaps they wanted the night off after that magnificent dinner. These girls tend to be very lazy, y'know. Or, they are just plain mercenaries.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:53 pm on Nov. 19, 2008
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poskat
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or perhaps as "working gals" they understand that a beautiful dinner doesn't pay many bills.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 10:36 pm on Nov. 19, 2008
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Oldtimer
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Sadly those lassies thought that they were simply on escort duty and you were just a customer.
I would have made it plain up front that they were not going to be paid, and then the ladies might have declined the invitation.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:09 am on Nov. 20, 2008
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bluber
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Thai "working girls" are refreshingly unimpressed by "beautiful dinner" treats by patronizing farangs. At best they are simply bored by the whole event and find it a waste of time, at worst they feel ill at ease. Going dressed up to "beautiful dinners", Western style at fancy restaurants are just not their idea of fun. Not mine either, by the way.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 8:06 am on Nov. 20, 2008
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thailife
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there are only 3 things that important to a thai girl.... 1) money 2) food 3) gossip
and family...... but then again, thats where money, food and gossip all come into play at the same time.
take the girl to the som tom cart, she will be happy there.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 8:55 am on Nov. 20, 2008
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bkkz
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Quote: from Pegasus1 on 12:23 pm on Nov. 20, 2008
After dinner I wished them well and told them I would see them in a few weeks, when I returned to BKK. They immediately turned to me and asked for money as though I had bar fined them etc.
Come to think of it, I barfined 4 girls from a club (I won't mention the name of the club here) once, took them out to Nana Plaza, we all had a great time, no LT or ST after that, but at the end they wanted a "tip". I was taken aback, as I thought I was doing them a favor by taking them there, since they wouldn't have gone there on their own. Next time, I will ask them for a tip instead (for wasting my time with them).
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:27 am on Nov. 20, 2008
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Pegasus1
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Quote: from bluber on 11:55 pm on Nov. 20, 2008
Thai "working girls" are refreshingly unimpressed by "beautiful dinner" treats by patronizing farangs. At best they are simply bored by the whole event and find it a waste of time
Sadly, I think you are right. However, these "ladies" were different. They spoke fluent English, dressed in designer bags, and were very familiar with "Western culture". They were not "Patpong or Nana" girls. Perhaps, that is why I THOUGHT that they were different.
Again, I am using a Western mind-set and projecting it on Thai women. A big mistake
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:42 pm on Nov. 20, 2008
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DaffyDuck
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Quote: from Pegasus1 on 7:32 am on Nov. 21, 2008
Again, I am using a Western mind-set and projecting it on Thai women. A big mistake
This seems to happen a lot.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:27 pm on Nov. 20, 2008
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thailife
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daffy, as I have explained to you in a few pm's, I really feel that you have to treat a thai girl like they have been raised to be treated.... that is not something bad, just that it is what they are used to.
once you try to get a thai girl to be a western girl, it gets all screwed up. you can have respect, love, friendship and all those other things, but do it in a thai way. my wife is in the u.s. now for 2 months.... the other day I has meetings with attorney's al day... she called my cell more than 30 times during a 3 hour period. is this normal for a thai girl? yes, in all my years, they go nuts when they cant find the person they love... or need, or whatever...... I had to explain very nicely that this is not thailand, we dont do things like that here..... call it 'adjustment to america' or whatever.....
by the way, had a great time in san diego last week with her.... la jolla, del mar, gas lamp, etc...... but she is still in the 'isaan I am not worth a shit mode'....little by little she will adjust.......
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 5:52 pm on Nov. 20, 2008
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Pegasus1
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Quote: from thailife on 9:42 am on Nov. 21, 2008
I really feel that you have to treat a thai girl like they have been raised to be treated.... that is not something bad, just that it is what they are used to.
I think that your quote is the essence of my problem. When I first discovered Thailand over 15 years ago, I felt that heaven had been discovered. Not only because the women were beautiful and "willing". But, because the entire country seemed to be the antithesis of our American culture. They were Buddhists, and as such had a certain calmness to their very being. I remember my first trip. A cockroach was walking by our outdoor table while we were eating. I was so disgusted by this; I crushed the bug with my foot. I will never forget the gasps and looks on the faces of the people I was with. You would think I had just murdered someone...
After awhile I studied Thai History, culture and religion. It gained me favor in the eyes of my business associates, but I never let it enter my psyche. I did not apply this 'knowledge' to my social life.
Thus, the problems I am discussing on these posts. I think I am projecting what I would like to see in women on a Thai bargirl. It is a fantasy that we all share; but is difficult to bring to fruition.
I know many Thai women, and truthfully (except for the very wealthy ones who have Westernized), seem to have this Thai stereotype about them. As you mentioned they seem too obsessed with their men, and are very protective of 'saving face'. I am starting to agree with some of you people, who date every girl once, and that is it. I never thought I would agree to this philosophy; but I am getting hurt at every turn. I just do not have patience to deal with this B S anymore.
I know many of you will disagree with this. You will say I have had a few bad experiences, and that I should not throw it all away because of this. However, really! Is it worth our sanity to have some of these "psycho bitches" run our lives? Is a good lay really worth it? Come on, be honest! Can you honestly disagree with what I am writing here? Sorry Guys1 I am retiring and going to a monastery...
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:48 pm on Nov. 20, 2008
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