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jack attack
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Harry,
DG might not be delicate but IMO you should really read again and again what he is saying. I would recommend no money until you know the lay of the land. And don't use your own guilt with other ladies in the wings as justification for behaing this way with the TG.
3 months is not much time to know anyone. I would hate to be reading about your demise on this board. So take your time keep your bucks in your wallet and it will all be revealed soon enough.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:14 am on July 14, 2004
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HarryParatestes
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Quote: from LocalYokul on 12:35 pm on July 14, 2004
harry, you are SOOO toast, unless you can one-up his offer, but I wouldn't bother if I were you.!
hell, i'd move in with him for a million US and a boob job.
well, almost...
Big, BIG difference between 1M THB and 1M USD, bro...
BTW, you might want to check if she hasn't already withdrawn ALL the cash with her ATM card in Wales.
Hope you signed up for ScbEasy.com internet banking.
He he he, I may be ignorant but I ain't stoopid -- of course I got the internet banking... it's all still there as of end-of-business today, but we got a long time yet to go...
edit, add :
you do realize that only Good Girls get a dowry in the true sense of the word ??
and she could just be playing you for a better offer...
Of course I realize that, but still.... stoopid, fat, short, balding farangs from the land of cold weather and warm beer will easily pay stoopid money (over a million THB) for bargirls that are way, way out of their league in the real world.... Me? I'm probably good for about 10G's USD, if that's what it takes....
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 2:53 am on July 14, 2004
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Abrak
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Harry,
I havent read the entire thread so what I am about to say may be nonsense in the full context of your relationship.
It is simply an observation...
Sponsorship is prevalent throughout Thai society with both farangs and thais (most thais give their gfs a monthly allowance). However, it is IMPLICIT within this that they dont f_ck around with other guys. (A lot of them do, of course, but they do it behind their sponsors/bf back).
The fact that she is accepting money from you and f_cking others in your full knowledge shows a lack of respect on her behalf (and implies to me that she sees you as a sucker).
The whole idea of sponsorship is that it replaces her income stream. If she intends to go on working until you are in Bkk, she should refuse money from you until that time. Now you could argue that she is a hooker, with no morals or respect for thai culture but, if that is the case, I dont know why you are bothering to persue some sort of relationship.
As I see it, your post on page 1. showed typical behavior of a BG who had lost interest on finding a new 'more interesting' punter. You have brought yourself back into the equation with some dosh and she will now happily play you for a sucker.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:25 am on July 14, 2004
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LocalYokul
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ok, I said this once before, but I mean it this time.
this thread itself is a troll...
it is getting seriously redundant and no matter what we tell Harry Parasite he just comes back with more reasons to waste time with this woman.
up 2 him...
pls don't reply Harry, but it really is up 2 u
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 3:42 am on July 14, 2004
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Ronnie Raygun
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Harry seems to be 1) aware of all of the risks, 2) comfortable with potential losses of time and money, and 3) has a plan to take care of "unfinished business" that will allow him to commit to his Thai GF. It's a long shot and he realizes it. If he goes through with all of this then he'll never have to wonder "what if." An expensive question to answer, but his to undertake.
Five weeks to kill. Suggest a few weekends in TJ. 
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:20 am on July 14, 2004
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dirty guru
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This guy is the biggest moron I have read off. He has the audacity to not only try and talk up his manhood, (while admiting he is hurting as his girl screws around on him) but sets up a joint account, attacks his brothers that are warning him, and even defends her for doing it all. AS has been pointed out accurately by others harry, its par for course (NO P4P) IF SPONSERSHIP IS GIVEN. Indeed you say this is love? She sees you as a total stupid wanking boy. Which is why you attack members with alot of knowledge experience and advice, answering why your heart is breaking. And consel you to desist. She isnt saying "'look I wont go harry, I love you, and will stop work to prove it"' She is sending you a face of the tormenter, that you as a piss weak man allow. I would never tolerate that. The girl I am with now ""JOY"" went to a small village 3 kilometeres outside of phan, (75 kilometers from chang rai) And she is content to e-mail me on the lap top I bought her, call, text, and be completely devoted, and await my return. WE have "'no joint account"" but she has her own money. Own house, and a sense of respect and worth for me and my daughter who has met her twice. She is at the temple most after noons and sees her escape and love affair with me as a saving grace, a diamond. Your girl sees your heart as something not worth preserving something that can be fragile like glass, crushed smashed. And you with so little self respect and worth allow it. My previous marriage wasnt her burning me so much harry as me butterflying and suffering australian law, see divorce. At least in both instances they never transgressed. And as a reader pointed out its even part of the true courtship process. What your involving yourself in doesnt require guts, its a cowardly unmanly pursuit of a bitch that has the heart of a jackal and thinks your a sucker, AND I WISH HER WELL, BECAUSE YOU DESERVE IT IF YOU NOT ONLY CANT SEE THAT, BUT ATTACK OTHERS WHO KNOW THAT IT ENDS IN SUFFERING, (for you that has already begun) thailand isnt about that harry, walk on have some self respect.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:14 am on July 16, 2004
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HarryParatestes
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Ok then brothers, assuming all the negative assessments are true, what to do now? Pull all the cash back out of the account, and don't answer any future emails from her?
I mean, there's no shortage of brothers who seem to enjoy taking the opportunity to kick me while I'm down and laugh at my self-inflicted wounds, but where pray tell are the constructive suggestions?
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:44 am on July 16, 2004
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ColoradoGuy
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Quote: from HarryParatestes on 1:44 am on July 16, 2004
... where pray tell are the constructive suggestions?
On the first 19 pages of this thread 
Quote: from HarryParatestes on 1:44 am on July 16, 2004
I mean, there's no shortage of brothers who seem to enjoy taking the opportunity to kick me while I'm down...
You think you are down? I think you said this girl makes you very happy, you can screw her in the ass and only give her 1000 baht a day, you had a great trip on your 2nd visit to Thailand and that you had solved this problem by you two professing your undying love for each other (and by you giving her US$1000). Problem? It is "up to you" whether you think there is a problem, not "up to us". Me think you think too much.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 1:56 am on July 16, 2004
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artful dodger
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harry,
are you sponsoring your filipina as well?
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:11 am on July 16, 2004
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