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loquint
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With the "good" TG the public display of affection is pretty much a no no. A fleeting hand holding crossing the street, a quick touch of the hand or arm, or maybe even a quick , light hug at greeting are about the limit.
However,after you have got to know them and they feel comfortable with you,when back in your room I have found that there is a strong liking for kissing,touching, stroking and generally taking things slow and gentle.
The passion and intensity grow and I have found it all to be very worthwhile.
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Posted on: 3:35 pm on June 9, 2003
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tingtong
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hi mr. joe,
buddhism has to do with girls being shy and not wanting to kiss you IN PUBLIC !! please read my post carefully before you post. of course, back in your hotel room, it is a different story.
yes , in this point you are right, christianity does not make you sexually more adventurous. but a christian person will be less timid to show his affection IN PUBLIC.
tingtong
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Posted on: 4:19 pm on June 9, 2003
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haam sup
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hi ting tong,
Don't let MrJoe's dozen or more years in Thailand influence you...just go ahead and post whatever your inane preconceptions are. ÝHe just answers by drawing on vast experience. Bah! ÝWho needs that?
Yep, Buddha was VERY explicit: no kissing or holding hands in PUBLIC. ÝIt's one of the main precepts: appearances are EVERYTHING! ÝAnd Thailand is comprised of STRICTLY fundamental Buddhists...
Or...
Could it be that Thai culture and social norms are the REAL operative factors here? ÝCould it be that Theravada Buddhism is something DEEPLY ingrained, and governs behavior both seen and unseen, and along with Animist beliefs and a body of history and cultural anthropology, defines a behavior standard, variably adhered to by the Thai women YOU are likely to encounter?
Nah.
haam sup
SO glad I read it CAREFULLY!
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:36 pm on June 9, 2003
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tingtong
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hi haam sup ,
thanks for your elaborate reply. i think, that to distinghuish that the cause of "non-affection in public" is from religion or / and a country-specific culture is difficult to see. and of course both influence each other. but if you look at other buddhist countries, let's take laos or cambodia as examples, you will have to agree that you see the same behaviour in this aspect. of course you can say that it is their contry-specific culture too, but is there a rout in the religion ?
tingtong
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Posted on: 7:58 pm on June 9, 2003
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haam sup
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Well, you deserve a straight reply...
I believe the issue is whether Buddhism is the cause of Thai girls' shyness in public, which is how I (and, apparently, others) interpreted your statement. ÝAnd in your answer to MrJoe, you draw a direct comparison of stereotypes:
"...but a christian person will be less timid to show his affection IN PUBLIC. "
This isn't all that far from BLATANT bigotry.
Clearly it is not about religion. ÝBuddhism is pretty scant on sexual matters. ÝOne of the first precepts is to refrain from sexual misconduct. ÝClearly, it does NOT proscribe the venue, i.e., publically OR privately, nor does it really define "misconduct".
Of course, it would be wrong to say that the influence of Buddhism had no effect on the social mores of the culture(s) you invoke. ÝBut to say that it is MERELY because they are Buddhist that Thai girls refrain from public displays of affection, is misleading, and IMO erroneous.
Take, for example, the reversal of this trend among Thai teenagers. ÝAre they LESS Buddhist than their parents? ÝOr, more to the point, are WE qualified to make the assumption that because young people hold hands in public, they are anti-Buddhist? ÝOf course not, and specifically because Buddhism is deafeningly quiet on the subject. ÝThey may evoke anger from more conservative, generally older Thais, but in the name of 'good girl' vs. 'bad girl' and their reputation as such.
Bringing Laos and Cambodia into the picture is a non-starter, as they are largely differences of a political nature, having MUCH in common culturally. ÝAfter all, the Khmers ruled most of what is now Thailand and Laos, at one point. ÝLate 19th and 20th colonial influence is where they begin to diverge culturally, due to the fact that Thailand was largely unaffected (except in size - land was conceded to preserve Thai soverignty). ÝDetails aside, I think it's fair to say that the region has more in common culturally, than it has differences.
If anything can be said generally, it is that southeast asian social mores are more UNIFORM, reflecting something about conformity in these cultures...we, in the West, have varying degrees of appreciation for individuality and independent thought. ÝAsia has a different outlook.
The other point to be made (dare I say it?) is whether the culture of this forum is tolerant of those who toss unsubstantiated opinions, and then wax curt, reminding others to 'read carefully, before posting'. ÝYou might be surprised at how much experience and general knowledge some of the posters here have.
A better approach would be to pose your suppositions as questions, with follow-ups as needed. ÝMakes for good discussion, and evades the 'clueless newbie' alarm so easily triggered...
haam sup
busily waxing curt - the poor bastard!
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 9:00 pm on June 9, 2003
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dirty guru
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he is right i have often experienced the paradoxs that involve going to see BUDDHA on a sunday night with your thai girl...and keeping your hands off them ..show respect (like at the flicks for king) then returning to the hotel where after a lite inncense and a further pray she gets you to apply lube on her arse geniunily happy you let her do all her stuff (now your turn she will say smiling) if only the christians were so fair minded> thailand the gentlest place on earth...buddhism is cool
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Posted on: 10:03 pm on June 9, 2003
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MrJoe
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Tingtong: I did read your post carefully. My post still stands and anything I would add has already been covered by the esteemed Haam Sup (and very very well).
I'm curious how much you know of Buddhism? I don't consider myslef an expert but I've spent a fair amount of time studying it and Thai culture over the last 2 decades (and even spent a brief time as a monk) and I can tell you that HS has got it exactly right.
I'm reminded of a freind who told me how a girl wouldn't give him a BJ because she said the Buddha proscribed such things (I found it especially amusing because on another occasion she had ripped my towel off on my way to the shower and without any solicitation proceeded to do that very same dirty deed.)
Oh and by the way, I really don't need you to tell me how and when to post.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:52 pm on June 9, 2003
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bound4bangkok
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Hello all
I had a TG that was totally into kissing. its about all she wanted to do really though. She was really into the kissing but has the action got farther into it to the SEX she didn;t really get into it anymore. Then I had a few other girls that didn;t like kissing much but really tryed hard in the SEX action part. Funny how I had 12 girls in the 14 days I was there some shortimes and a few long and Each had something about them I liked all told if you combined all them into one super TG I marry her LOL ROCK ON GUYS
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Posted on: 1:01 am on June 10, 2003
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thaiprivateeye
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well said mr J !! Yes, it seems quite possible a "good" TG, i.e. one that has not as yet been corrupted by Farangs, will be loathe, or at least not be used to, kissing, and certainly wont give a Bj ... any TG who tells you she has been at the bar 3 days, or she not go with man before, and is willing to give you a Bj, is either a bull-shitter, or more likely, a katooey ! Obviously one can take some satisfaction therefore in teaching the sweet innocent TG the art of the above mentioned 
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Posted on: 2:29 am on June 10, 2003
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Smegma
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Once again, lack of knowledge is making some guys mix tradition with religion; making them believe that cultural behavior and tradition is the result of following religious dictum.
Are non-Buddist Thai girls more willing to kiss in public?
TingTong I think perhaps we can compromise here. Maybe we can more carefully read your posts before replying if you also promise not to post stupidities anymore about things you have no clue. Do we have a deal?
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Posted on: 2:29 am on June 10, 2003
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