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The longest I've had a girl stay with me was 4 days and man she was one of the greatest f-cks I've ever had. But I still wanted to play the field and off hired her.
I did take a girl from BKK to a friends wedding up country, there was no bar fine as she had stopped working, I found out later she had a sponser so I saved on the 400 per day. paid for her flight ticket and of course all meals hotel etc. when we got back to BKK I offered her her usual LT rate for the days we'd been together. But she would not accept it saying she'd had a great time and that this would be the last time she would be seeing me because of her sponser, she only came with me because I had baught the tickets together with her on a previouse trip and she did not want to dissapoint me. While she was in the loo I stuffed the money in her purse, have met her once by chance and she says is still true to her sponser.
The raeson I had wanted to take her away was that I'd girls were hard to find in Tak, in fact there were any number of cuties, plus there were quite a few guest's that I fancied. Other lads in the group who had gone unacompanied had a great time.
I have only ever fancied one girl from Midnight SC and she would not even do LT, so to find one to do 14xLT ? But then I'm a girl would jump at the chance of a holiday, lots of them havn't even flown before so that would be exciting for them.
One of the famouse BKK sayings is: It's up to you.
My choice: go alone and if you dont like the girls down there come back to BKK and bang the arse off the bird in Midnight.
Have a good un, UKP.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 4:21 am on Feb. 3, 2004
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sirtitus
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Update:
One month away from Thailand now. I've been in constant touch with the BG via phone calls and e-mails.
She's never asked for a single thing (as yet). I gave her the option of where she wanted to go in June when I go back and she said some island near Phuket (Phi Phi maybe... I don't remember). I'll leave it up to her judgment since I know little about the country and I'm going back to see her, not this or that island.
Wondering what you guys think of this. Her e-mail today said that she is taking a month off from her bar and going to an English school to study (so that we can communicate better). She said she'd tell me more about it later.
Does that happen a lot? Could it be a lie? If so, what's to be gained?
Again, I'm a novice to the BG scene so I rely on the wisdom of more experienced people (tempered with my own common sense, of course).
Cheers,
Sirtitus
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:28 am on Feb. 24, 2004
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cyborg
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Sirtitus, Sounds like you really like this one. I know so many of our esteemed more experienced bros have warned against getting too involved but it sounds like you may be looking for what I was looking for the last two trips to LOS. I fell into the full on GFE. I found the sweetest lady and I find myself constantly evaluating whether or not her "Love" for me is real. If you allow yourself to get as close as I did it is the most amazing thing and the most excruciatingly painful.
My advice, if you do take this lady for 2 weeks do not discuss money too much. Give her a "gift" of cash up front and another at the very end. Maybe put it in a card each time so it is officailly a gift. She will understand and will appreciate the effort to be cool.
Have you read my FRs? (Cyborg Invasion 2004/Cyborg Invasion of LOS) I just wrote a series of them ending on the 15th of Feb and a previous series ending on the 23rd of Oct. They might be an interesting read for you.
Good luck and let us know how it goes.
Cyborg
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 8:04 pm on Feb. 24, 2004
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canomad
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Sirtitus,
I suggest you get a couple of books to read to help you understand Thai culture.It will help you with BG/TGF. One is Wondering into Thai culture. You can buy it on the web. The other is a book on thai love language for farangs. It sells at Bookazine all over thailand. Has a big heart on the cover maybe one of the other bros here can tell you the title.
Despite the western advice given by so many here. Remember,, to most traditional i.e. rural thai girls, money is how you tell them you love them. BG transactions make it extremely confused. A really good BG will act like she really cares about you and will want to spend 2 week with you if:
1. She really likes you and wants to run away with you forever.
2. She thinks you are okay, and spending time with you is fun.
3. She thinks you are standable, and being with you in a nice hotel and being fed is better than staring at the wall for 14 days during the slow time in June.
4. She thinks you are the most respulsive foul smelling creature she has seen but June is slow and she really needs the money.
The problem with a BG is anyone of the 4 could be true, trying to figure it out can drive you into a crazy farang.
I like the suggetion of a gift card up front and at the end. I'll try that next time. From the BG perspective this is a 2 week unpaid vacation. If you really cared for her you would give her enough money so that she won't suffer finacially for being with you. Or you will give her a nice present to show all her friends and gain face.
When I took a girl to Chang Mai and didn't pay her anything till the end she started acting crazy and worried after about 4 days. She and I never mentioned money but I figured she was afraid she had been off work for close to a week and was going to wind up with nothing to show for it. So I gave her an envelope with cash in it. Back to all smiles and wanted to Fk my socks off. pulled the "no condom, you boyfriend" line. From that point on she wanted it bareback. Of course once I was her "boyfriend" she started to point out how her girlfriends with "Farang boyfriends" all had rings. Ah yes, I told her next trip.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:27 pm on Feb. 24, 2004
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sirtitus
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Cyborg,
Yes, I did your more recent FR - Cyborg Invasion 2004.
As I was reading it, I couldn't help wonder if similar things were in store for me when I go back to LOS in June. I was especially worried about the foot touching incident and when she went ballistic. We don't need those kind of things to happen when we're on vacation.
I do really like this girl and I am liking her more and more even while I am away. Her e-mails are personal and involved. There can be no doubt that she wants me to come back to see her (her exact reasons, of course, aren't known - though most people can take a pretty good guess).
I do respect the advice of the more experienced brothers on this forum. However, at the same time, I know that to fully understand anything, you have to experience it for yourself.... including the ups and downs of a GFE with a BG.
Everyone will have to wait till June to read about my FR's with this BG but they'll come. 
Cheers,
Sirtitus
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:27 pm on Feb. 24, 2004
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sirtitus
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Canomad,
I know that money is the initial attraction for a BG concerning farangs. With my BG, she wasn't all over
me at the bar when we first met. I thought she was beautiful and it was late and I didn't want to go searching other bars for a woman for the night so I asked her how much the barfine was and how much for LT.
THEN she got super-interested in me. But it wasn't till a day or two later after we've been together sightseeing around Bangkok that money didn't seem that important anymore - to me or her.
Remember that I originally wrote that I ran out of money on my trip and couldn't pay her barfine or for her my last night and day. She paid her own barfine and f**ked me anyway and saw me off at the airport (crying the whole time).
I'm not a rich guy and I came across as a guy with little money (it was after Christmas and I was hurting financially). It didn't matter to her.
Basically, what I'm saying is that there's more to this than just money. Now, she's spending her own money everyday to be sending and receiving e-mails (both of which have to be translating from Thai to English and visa versa... not sure how that works exactly or how much it costs but she does it).
If this "quitting the bar for a month and going to English school so that we can talk better" is true, then wouldn't that be a huge hit to her financially, as well? No barfines or ST or LT for a month plus paying for English lessons. I've never said anything about supporting her while she does this or to pay for the English lessons.
Gifts (or money in a card as a gift) is the better way to go instead of simply paying by night. I'll take that route when I go back. And I suppose I really should be reading up on Thai culture and such... though I believe I'm getting a lot of understanding just from reading this forum and the many experiences people write about.
Cheers,
Sirtitus
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:50 pm on Feb. 24, 2004
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BigDUSA
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As the resident cheap charley, I've taken a few girls on long term bf. I paid 1000 per day and the girls were more then happy with this.
Since then I've run into budget problems and no longer can pay 1k per day. Last trip, I told the girl up front that I could only pay 200 per day. She told me no problem and I paid her 1k every five days. At the end of the trip I gave her 3k as a tip for excellent service I paid her 8K total. I don't take the girls shopping as that's a loser for me.
Your comming in June. Low season for the girls.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 11:21 pm on Feb. 24, 2004
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ringthebells
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5 K for 25 days
3 K tip
320 baht per day.
did she have to pay for her own meals, room??
what did she look like?? from FLB??
amazingly cheap.
rtb
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:28 pm on Feb. 24, 2004
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