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Quote: from ChicagoGuy on 1:09 am on Nov. 18, 2003
There are so many bars and so many BGs in BKK, it is simply far less hassle not to butterfly in the same bar. This way, the girls have less reason to be pissed off at you. 
CG, I'm just trying to understand this. Why would they be mad? Would they be mad, because they think I am cheating on them by sleeping with another girl? If that is the case then they have no case.
Personally I think your reasoning, which is good, is that you are trying to avoid making the BG's lose face. That is, by taking another girl it is like the first girl was not good enough to satisfy your needs so you need a different girl. To me, and I would venture to say many others, this is completely ridiculous.
Sometimes you just want a different taste. That is why "Baskin Robins" makes 31 flavors. It's not like just because I want chocolate today that I might not rather have vanilla tomorrow. It's not that chocolate can't satisfy me, it's that I WANT SOME F*CKING VANILLA EVER ONCE IN A WHILE DAMN IT!!!
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:27 pm on Nov. 17, 2003
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Personally I think your reasoning, which is good, is that you are trying to avoid making the BG's lose face. That is, by taking another girl it is like the first girl was not good enough to satisfy your needs so you need a different girl. To me, and I would venture to say many others, this is completely ridiculous.
This may appear ridiculous to us, but it is not ridiculous to the girls. Like it or not they are human beings with feelings. The choice to acknowledge those feelings or not is (as always) up to you.
Sometimes you just want a different taste. That is why "Baskin Robins" makes 31 flavors. It's not like just because I want chocolate today that I might not rather have vanilla tomorrow. It's not that chocolate can't satisfy me, it's that I WANT SOME F*CKING VANILLA EVER ONCE IN A WHILE DAMN IT!!!
I agree. I don't like having my choice limited, luckily LOS has plenty of 'ice cream' stores to choose from. It's in all of our best interests to try to treat the girls decently (not that i'm any great saint... hey I did say 'try'
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 1:42 pm on Nov. 17, 2003
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Walley
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Quote: from afm171 on 2:42 am on Nov. 18, 2003
Personally I think your reasoning, which is good, is that you are trying to avoid making the BG's lose face. That is, by taking another girl it is like the first girl was not good enough to satisfy your needs so you need a different girl. To me, and I would venture to say many others, this is completely ridiculous.
This may appear ridiculous to you and others, but it is not ridiculous to the girls. Like it or not they are human beings with feelings. The choice to acknowledge those feelings or not is (as always) up to you.
Sometimes you just want a different taste. That is why "Baskin Robins" makes 31 flavors. It's not like just because I want chocolate today that I might not rather have vanilla tomorrow. It's not that chocolate can't satisfy me, it's that I WANT SOME F*CKING VANILLA EVER ONCE IN A WHILE DAMN IT!!!
I agree. I don't like having my choice limited, luckily LOS has plenty of 'ice cream' stores to choose from. It's in all of our best interests to try to treat the girls decently (not that i'm any great saint... hey I did say 'try'
The last thing I am trying to do is hurt some bar girl's feelings. But why fly 12, 000 miles just to limit yourself for a girl you don't know? I guess I'm with nokna on this one...I won't directly hurt anyone's feelings over this sh*t, I will not limit myself either. I say tell them the game from day one and party like it's your last day on earth!
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:55 pm on Nov. 17, 2003
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Quote: from ChicagoGuy on 1:09 am on Nov. 18, 2003
There are so many bars and so many BGs in BKK, it is simply far less hassle not to butterfly in the same bar. This way, the girls have less reason to be pissed off at you.
I agree with CG and disagree with Nonka & Walley. You are just asking for drama and problems trying to do multiple girls in one bar. You want to live life on the edge then go ahead. I have seen some guys get cracked over the head with a beer bottle, ruffed up by Thai boyfriend and friends etc.
There are too many bars in Thailand to ever run out of potential candidates. When in Rome do like the Romans. Anyone's business logic does not work here. It is Thai logic.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 9:37 pm on Nov. 17, 2003
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Oz
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Could not agree more TU, LOS is a place of low hassles with girls, don't complicate things. Go with the flow, there is many "hundreds" of years (in time) experiance on this forum, follow there advice.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 9:45 pm on Nov. 17, 2003
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ThaidUp
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Agreed Oz, but it is these people that buck the trend trying to impose their logic on Thai's that makes a night out interesting. It is always fun seeing a farang get the BG riot act while you sit in the comfort of your chair over a cold one.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:51 pm on Nov. 17, 2003
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Everybody has their own style.
I happen to go with the 'customer is always right' school of thought. It's old-fashioned, granted, but, it works for me.
Once I was with a girl 2 nights straight. Then she left town for a while, and I just found another few girls from the same bar in the nights to come. On returning, her friends told her 'your guy was going with other girls'. She told me she told them: 'of course, he is just a customer, he will take whoever he likes'. What a sweetie! I couldnt have put it better.
But the trick is to be upfront and come clean that you are a butterfly. It keeps the girls straight and to a large extent it keeps you, the punter, straight as well.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:52 pm on Nov. 17, 2003
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Oz
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Quote: from ThaidUp on 11:51 am on Nov. 18, 2003
Agreed Oz, but it is these people that buck the trend trying to impose their logic on Thai's that makes a night out interesting. It is always fun seeing a farang get the BG riot act while you sit in the comfort of your chair over a cold one.
Hopefully with a Hot one on your Lap!
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:59 pm on Nov. 17, 2003
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Oz
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Yes, I guess it comes back to what you want out of your time with the TG. Yeea, I know you want that  ! But I must admit to staying with the same girl for a few trips to LOS, love the GFE experiance, find the Sex better.
Last trip I walked into my current favorite Bar to find "my" TG  sitting with another Farang (as she had a right too), so I thought time go shopping elsewhere but only second later she was by my side. When asked as to how she "extracated" herself from her duties her comment was - " He was a customer, your a friend"! 
Definetly worth not Butterflying (IMHO) and having the ensuing problems!
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 10:08 pm on Nov. 17, 2003
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I know of a gogo, where I slept with nearly half the bar, at least with most of the A group.
my first "regular" girl was most upset, but now she just ignores me. she just askes my friend sometimes "why he butterfly, not same same before, no understand".
I am nice with the girls. so they will go with me and I am branded as butterfly or helicopter.
who cares??
rtb
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:12 pm on Nov. 17, 2003
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