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DaffyDuck
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Quote: from LocalYokul on 5:15 pm on Sep. 17, 2006
I would never put up with this kind of annoying privacy violation from a GF, no f***in' way
That argument really on holds water if you never, ever spied on a girl's email account without her knowledge - I'm sure you haven't, but there's plenty of guys who seem to think it's okay to spy on the girl, but are offended when the girl turns the tables (just like the guys who 'love' their teerak, and f*** around every chance they can, but then get bent out of shape when she 'cheats' on them)
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Posted on: 10:42 am on Sep. 17, 2006
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RodneyAnsellEsq
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I need some advice.
I have/had a girlfriend from a popular gentleman’s club and she talked me into buying her a car.
Well, I shopped around for sometime and I made it clear to her that I would not be buying a BMW or such an expensive ride for her.
She said that was fine, just something ok for her to get around town in and that we could possibly go away for some weekends when I am in town and free.
The problem I have is that this girl just went ape shit when she saw the car I bought for her. I did all the right romantic kind of things and took her out to dinner, then gave her flowers and strawberries and a bottle of chocolate topping.
Hoping all along that the ownership of her new car would spawn an evening of uninhibited sex, maybe including the strawberries and chocolate topping.
I wrapped the car in a huge yellow ribbon with a bow on top and parked it out back of her condo so that she did not see it when we departed, but took her there to see it when we got home.
Problem is, she threw the flowers at me, stomped on the strawberries and squirted the chocolate topping all over my new shirt and told me to f*** off when she saw the car.
I thought it was an ok car to get her from A to B and after all, she said that was all she wanted. I do not see what was wrong with a second hand taxi, I told her I would get it painted so you could not see the red and yellow paintwork, but she would not listen.
What should I do, I am devastated.
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Posted on: 9:12 pm on Sep. 26, 2006
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visitingbkk
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Quote: from RodneyAnsellEsq on 10:30 am on Sep. 27, 2006
What should I do, I am devastated.
forget about her, get over it and move on....
(oh, and sell the car to someone else)
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Posted on: 9:45 pm on Sep. 26, 2006
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MickTheKick
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I once had a BG using my computer for her eMail and she was checking the 'save PW' option without knowing what she did... 
So I had her login and PW and did this bad thing in a passiv way... btw: she was not my GF or something... 
I later checked her eMail of course  and found tons of the expected b/s... she was cheating on all her b/f, sponsors etc. big time... no surprise...
Normally I do respect peoples privacy but on the other hand, p4p isn't normal and isn't meant for real, is it? It'more some kind of cold civil war between 2 species or something... well, at least one way to look at it...
If a girl would check out my eMail (or SMS, which is more likely) and would go nuts about what she found, I would just shrug... not your business teerak... 
If my wife would check out my SMS or eMail I would... I would... be divorced soon I'm afraid... 
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Posted on: 10:48 pm on Sep. 26, 2006
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expatchuck
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Rodney:
Maybe she didn't like the yellow ribbon.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 10:53 pm on Sep. 26, 2006
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DaffyDuck
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Quote: from MickTheKick on 12:06 pm on Sep. 27, 2006
Normally I do respect peoples privacy but on the other hand, p4p isn't normal and isn't meant for real, is it?
Bullshit excuse and rationalisation to do something you would not want another to do to you.
Either be honest, and admit that you violate her privacy without any regard for her person, or don't do it. Do not *even* try to rationalize your way out of it.
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Posted on: 11:28 pm on Sep. 26, 2006
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MickTheKick
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Quote: from DaffyDuck on 12:46 pm on Sep. 27, 2006
something you would not want another to do to you
Daffy, read my post, I clearly stated that I would just shrug if a BG woud do this.
A TGF, well actually more a regular FL or something in between, once took my phone and started looking at my numerous SMS. I looked her in the eyes and said "Are you sure you want to see this?", she understood and droped...
When it comes to this spy on so. maybe there are just the good and the bad people.. I was a good black and white boy in the first half of my life, it didn't really pay off... Today I like it more juicy and love to walk the grey scale up and down and back and forth - if you know what I mean... but I surely appreciate any good peoples behaviour, and I mean that!
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Posted on: 12:16 am on Sep. 27, 2006
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don5252
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sell the car, take shirt to cleaner then get a take away at Eden, you'll be feeling much better
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Posted on: 2:49 am on Sep. 27, 2006
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ColoradoGuy
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Quote: from Dickin Situ on 2:38 pm on Sep. 17, 2006
Personally, I can't stand someone telling me lies or being deceptive.
All Thais are taught that Kreng Jai and face are more important than honesty. If a Thai sacrifices Kreng Jai for honesty, they are behaving in a western way and Thais might find that odd.
Good thing you're not Thai. 
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Posted on: 4:36 am on Sep. 27, 2006
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hyperterminal
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Spot on CG
To understand the relevance of face in different cultures, one must learn how to identify low-context and high-context societies and what types of characteristics they each imply, especially in negotiating behavior, social interaction, truth, conflict & relationships..
In general, the U.S. and other Western countries are considered low-context societies. This means that verbal communication is most often direct, and that there is very little concern or need for nonverbal cues in order for people to understand each other.At the core of a low-context society is the belief in the freedom of the individual, hence the term "individualistic" societies.
In these societies, individual rights supercede blind duty to one's family, clan, ethnic group, or nation. People generally try to "say what they mean and mean what they say." In individualistic societies, "[e]quality is the prevailing ethic in society and politics. Status is acquired, not inherited..." and, more importantly, "...contract, not custom, prescribes the individual's legal obligation to a given transaction, role or course of action. In these societies, it is individual, personal guilt that serves as a moral compass. If one commits a social blunder as an adult, in most cases, there is no group shame involved, only personal embarrassment, and (one hopes) a desire to correct the wrong with a sincere apology. Conflicts are seen as a natural part of life; they are simply dealt with and then people move on. Honesty is taught as the best policy (although not always followed) and the consequences of these truths are usually short lived and accepted..
In high-context cultures, such as thailand, japan, korea, china etc, group harmony is of utmost importance. People in these cultures dislike direct confrontation, and for the most part avoid expressing a clear "no." Evasion and inaccuracy are preferred in order to keep appearances pleasant. There is a danger of losing face simply by not reaching an agreement with another person or group, if that was the goal. Being humiliated before the group, or losing face before one's constituents, can be a fate worse than death in some cases.
The key difference to remember here is that western cultures want to repair or build relationships while most asian cultures most often desire to simply problem-solve and move on.
Its strange understanding these differences sometimes whether its social interaction,P4P or business. I was in shanghai working on a joint project, where I found out my china counterpart working on the project with me totally f* (ked up & the deal was not going to go through, mean while all the meetings with 3rd parties were (or so I thought) going to plan.. Little did I know of the chaos in the background.
Nevertheless once I removed myself from the situation and with time, I accepted the idiosyncracies of doing biz in China......
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Posted on: 6:01 am on Sep. 27, 2006
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