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haam sup
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Yeah, Smegma, uh, thanks, I think...
haam sup
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Posted on: 9:33 pm on Aug. 23, 2003
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Alterego...
You never actually answered my question.
If the ball was on the other foot and your lady wasn't too happy with your oral technique, would you rather she
A) told you/showed you, in a nice way what you could do to improve it for her
or
B)would you prefer she gave you three A4's with typed instructions
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Posted on: 4:05 am on Aug. 24, 2003
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expatchuck
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X:
There is always the third alternative for AE's girlfriend.
She can come see me since I have read the three typed pages on A4 paper and am proficient in the art. I do orgams for free.
Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý 
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Posted on: 4:33 am on Aug. 24, 2003
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Arcadius
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Smeg, X et al
If by 'power' you only mean 'ability to act' then OK, sure. In the same sense, I have the 'power' to make my 4yo happy by buying her a bar of chocolate. Not sure that I get off on that either, particularly, but possibly my self-esteem is already too inflated for these minor accretions to count.
I do think 'power' is a dangerous word to use in relation to male sexuality, particularly in a P4P context. You only have to look at virtually any hardcore porn site to see the sex act overtly portrayed as an act of domination of one human being by another. The acompanying language is often quite explicit on this point. We all know that many guys use prostitutes to act out the sexual domination fantasies which all men have. This is a sore point with me.
Re instruction on improving performance, etc. I think many TGs relatively new to the P4P scene (not just the youngest ones) could certainly use some guidance from customers. In my experience, provided this is done tactfully, they're actually pleased to learn something which will make them better at what they do.
The worst problem is keeping a straight face, because they're always so matter-of-fact about this. Expect an expression like someone keen to learn a new grip which will improve their backhand. Hilarious.
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Posted on: 8:52 am on Aug. 24, 2003
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AlterEgo
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x;
Sorry, Didn't know you were asking a "real" question. You asked:
If the ball was on the other foot and your lady wasn't too happy with your oral technique, would you rather she
(Seriously, I am not sure what "Ball was on the other foot" means. But I will answer what I think you meant)
A) told you/showed you, in a nice way what you could do to improve it for her (This would be ideal, but most women I have met are either too embarrassed, or too shy to do this)
or
B)would you prefer she gave you three A4's with typed instructions (Again, I am not sure what you mean by "three A4s", but will answer as best I can)
If you mean A4s to be batteries, and wanted me to use the vibrator.... I do not think that is best, but would be fun...
If you mean reading pages.... I would think it would be a great way to start.... couple of glasses of wine, some soft music, candles, and some reading and experimenting together about what the reading was about as we went through it.... Sounds good to me.
Tell me your thoughts.....
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Posted on: 11:47 am on Aug. 24, 2003
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AlterEgo
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Smeg.... just reread your post regarding Hammy.... I have not experienced an intelligent sense of humor coming from Hammy, either by reviewing anything he responded to me about, or anything else. I only see a desire to show everyone how smart he thinks he is, and how dumb he considers others to be. Again, he is a legend in his own mind. I do not pick fights, nor do I flame.... I only respond, and I ain't goin away....
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Posted on: 11:51 am on Aug. 24, 2003
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AlterEgo
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ExPatChuck:
I guess as bleak and as sparse as the P4P is there in Saudi... I would be saying the same thing.
Note: I answer each in an individual post because:
1) I am not smart enough to hold more than one thought at a time.
2) I hate reading those long posts.... and my small brain loses interest after only a few lines.
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Posted on: 11:54 am on Aug. 24, 2003
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haam sup
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Quote: from AlterEgo on 11:51 pm on Aug. 24, 2003
Smeg.... just reread your post regarding Hammy.... ÝI have not experienced an intelligent sense of humor coming from Hammy, either by reviewing anything he responded to me about, or anything else. ÝI only see a desire to show everyone how smart he thinks he is, and how dumb he considers others to be. ÝAgain, he is a legend in his own mind. ÝI do not pick fights, nor do I flame.... I only respond, and I ain't goin away....
AE, your only post in the 'New Crackdown ??' thread:
"Oh Hammy, you are always so right, and everyone else is such a dimwit.... how do you live with yourself.... Hammy... a legend in his own mind....! "
And these gems, from the 'Nana Plaza Raided' thread:
"Hammy, Hammy, Hammy..... and just why are you talking to yourself??? "
and
"Hammy... must you challenge everyone? ÝYou must have had a rough childhood. ÝWere you locked in the closet for long periods of time??? "
Not picking fights? ÝNot flaming? ÝYou haven't added a SINGLE on-topic thought to ANY thread, except the pedophile wannabe discussions about Cambodia.
Stick to something you know about..."you insipid goat-f_ck!"*
haam sup
*(c) Copyright 2003 haam sup, all rights reserved.
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Posted on: 1:18 pm on Aug. 24, 2003
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AlterEgo,
ìif the ball was on the other footî means roughly ìif the situation was reversedî.
A4 is a standard size of paper, like the size of a standard letter. Ý
Back to the point about giving your partner written instructions on how to perform oral sex.
I see your point that most women you have met would be too shy or embarrassed to tell you or show (in a nice way) how you could improve your performance for their benefit. ÝBut since it's you who wants the better BJs then this shyness of communication, common among your lady friends, shouldn't be an issue. Ý(assuming of course that you're not too shy to communicate your wishes)
However, you do agree if the situation was reversed, that you would prefer the ìtell you ñ show youî school of teaching, to the ìhereís a few sheets of paper with written instructionsî. Ý
Donít you think that your partner would also prefer the ìtell her, show herî way of giving a good blowjob to your exact specifications, instead of the written instructions of a complete stranger? ÝHer shyness or lack of communication about her own sexuality isnít really an issue when it comes to showing her how best to please you. ÝIt may also encourage her own communication.
Besides, if the all the women you know are too shy for direct communication on matters sexual, what makes you think they wonít be too shy to read and act on written blowjob instructions???
As for using the written instructions on how best to perform a blowjob as a kind of ìmood setterî for a sexy evening togetherÖ wellÖ I guess weíre all different. ÝI canít think of anything less likely to get me in the mood. ÝTo me it sounds much more of a mood killer than a mood maker.
Also, has the thought ever occurred to you that if I searched the web right now for blowjob instructions, (which I am not going to do), that basically all I am getting is one guyís account of what rocks HIS boat. ÝHow HE likes a blowjob performed. ÝWhat techniques HE likes applied, not to mention that all the things he doesn't like (which you may like) will be ommitted. Ý
I donít seriously think for one minute that these ìhow toî things on matters sexual are anything more than one persons personal account. ÝI do not think that they apply to all menÖ and I don't think it's wise to take these kind of instructions too seriously . That's why I agreed with HS's original point on the issue of "good teachers".
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Posted on: 3:06 pm on Aug. 24, 2003
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X
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Arc,
If by 'power' you only mean 'ability to act' then OK, sure. In the same sense, I have the 'power' to make my 4yo happy by buying her a bar of chocolate.
Iím hopeless at trying to explain what I mean with certain words or phrases. ÝUsing the word ìpowerî in this context I meant something along the lines ofÖ if my partner comes home after a shitty day at the office, in a terrible mood, with a face like thunderÖ I have power to drive that shitty mood away and bring a great big smile to his face and make him feel much better. ÝHe also has this exact same power over me though. Ý(like I said earlier, when all is as it should be under the sheetsÖ then IMO the power thing switches back & forth between both partners).
I do think 'power' is a dangerous word to use in relation to male sexuality, particularly in a P4P context.
Interesting point, and I wouldnít have believed how potentially controversial the word "power" could be, before this discussion. ÝIíve asked a few friends (male & female) over the weekend their opinion of the word in this sexual contextÖ and Iíve been totally shocked at their differing reactions. ÝI live & learn.
(IMO this is a bit like the discussion surrounding the word "prostitute". ÝIt never ceases to amaze me how different people have different meanings associated to certain words)
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:15 pm on Aug. 24, 2003
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