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3cazzi
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Yes Arcadius, the talent I am talking about is not necessary individual when we talk about LOS, and because it belongs to their culture, let's say it is an art.
What belongs to the individual sphere is the so called ability of switching off from the GFE treatment.
This is possible only to those who plays-act the < up to you > role with full awareness.
Because I believe that when you get such intimacy with someone, it is just impossible to not get emotionally involved, (a little or a lot it depends on individual character and experience) I agree 110% with CiaoCiao's concerns.
That's why most pros usually don't allow kisses and try to avoid any other "intimate act" that may bring to a GFE.
In LOS as anywhere else GFE should be treated with special care, because anyone who deal with it without full awareness has got something to loose.
Who appreciate it, as I do, should return the favour with generosity.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:17 am on Dec. 22, 2003
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Arcadius
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3cazzi
Well, I'm not going to split hairs with you about the BGs' subjective experience of the GFE. At the end of the day, we can only speculate about very unfamiliar mental processes observed from the outside and cast in terms which make some sort of sense to a farang mindset. How accurate this is, God only knows.
But I certainly agree with your final sentiments - and CiaoCiao's too of course. In the GFE, a BG clearly offers a lot more of herself than just her body, and must run emotional risks as a result. I do think this imposes a 'duty of care' on those of us who value what we're given.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 6:45 am on Dec. 22, 2003
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mansaturday
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What was the original question?!
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:07 am on Dec. 22, 2003
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Smegma
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Quote: from 3cazzi on 6:17 pm on Dec. 22, 2003
That's why most pros usually don't allow kisses and try to avoid any other "intimate act" that may bring to a GFE.
The highly overrated KISS!
I think that it is a "learned" behavior that has spread among western pros. I mean, that kisses are something of more "intimate" value. Yes, they are now because they decided to believe so. They could as well have chosen that holding hands was the thing.
Turn it around to the case of a good girl. You will be kissing her much earlier before you have sex with her. You could be kissing many good girls with whom you never get to have full intercourse. Ask a good girl what is more intimate: kissing or having sex?
The kissing-intimacy phallacy is a cute story that western pros have chosen to tell each other as good advice. It works because they have chosen to believe it. Bring a new movie and have a Hollywood star playing a pro saying that she does not allow caressing of her cheeks and who knows.... maybe that becomes the trendy 'intimate' act that becomes fashionable to refuse to do.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 7:09 am on Dec. 22, 2003
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Smegma
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Quote: from mansaturday on 8:07 pm on Dec. 22, 2003
What was the original question?!
If YOU of all people do not know, why would we care?
Ok, a serious answer: go back to the opening post and read your own post. Then you will be reminded of what it was you asked.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 7:12 am on Dec. 22, 2003
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mansaturday
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Smegma, Smegma, cool it. Notice the exclamation mark! (There's another one)
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:19 am on Dec. 22, 2003
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Smegma
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What is an exclamation mark?
BTW, suffering or sarchasm?
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:22 am on Dec. 22, 2003
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mansaturday
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Smegma,
An exclamation mark is like a question mark, only straighter.
No, I try to never be sarcastic - it looks dreadful in writing (and it does not sound nice either).
No, I'm not suffering yet. Even went for it last night when I had toothache (there's dedication to the cause!).
But I did offer no boom boom to a cute bartender the day before: offered to pay the full rate even. Still turned me down. As she is entitled to.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:25 am on Dec. 22, 2003
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Smegma
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Oh! so an exclamation mark is just another way (but straighter) of having a question mark? I think you wrong.
No, I didn't mean that you were being sarcastic. I guess you do not know the meaning of sarchasm. Because I am in a good mood instead of refferring you to UTFSE, I will give it to you here. Sarchasm: The gulf between the author of sarcastic wit and the person who doesn't get it.
BTW, I am not surprised she turned you down when you offered full boom boom rate for no boom boom. No boom boom rate is higher than boom boom rate. And it does make sense.
Watch out for the Dopeler effect.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 7:33 am on Dec. 22, 2003
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PopSecret
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Wow, smeg, that's deep...
*falls into the sarchasm, breaks leg*
...agreed with the no kissing though. good read.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:49 am on Dec. 22, 2003
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