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>...vasectomy...
But... but... I *like* playing with loaded guns...
( Especially while drunk ) 
>Thus, even if the girl tries to have a baby, or even if you agree with her (to make her happy), all you can do is keep trying and trying again. You're buying yourself at least 2 years that way, I hear, before the girl gets suspicious that something is 'up'.
Now, I'm jai dum and all. But that's just mean. It's really important to most women to have a child. After a certain age, they can't. To pretend that you're going to provide her with a child (and child-rearing environment), when she's heading rapidly towards that "cannot have children" time of life, well... That's beyond even me.
I predict we'll have another "angry thai woman cuts off husband's penis" news story in a few years... Hey - one snip, two snip. Just finishing the job. 
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Posted on: 8:43 am on Mar. 3, 2004
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hzink
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Quote: from TJ on 9:43 pm on Mar. 3, 2004
Now, I'm jai dum and all. But that's just mean. It's really important to most women to have a child. After a certain age, they can't. To pretend that you're going to provide her with a child (and child-rearing environment), when she's heading rapidly towards that "cannot have children" time of life, well... That's beyond even me.
By all means, the point is not to mislead the woman from the get-go, but once you made clear, and she understands, that you don't want children, this makes sure that things stay that way.
So, if a woman (and we all know this type exists) decides to trap you by 'forgetting' to use the pill, or encouraging you to not use the condom, you can rest safe
Harry
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Posted on: 9:36 am on Mar. 3, 2004
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cyborg,
At 40 you are probably pretty sure about the kids thing. I had a vasectomy when I was 34. My new g/f at the time (I'd only known her 3 months) was the one who helped me with the ice bag around the ol' balls that night. I loved bare-backin' with her, and knew I was setting myself up for mucho problemos if I didn't act. Within a couple of weeks, we were back to ruttin', this time without fear of LittleBalls popping out every 9 months. Ten years later, of course, she moved on. Can't help getting the feeling she always really wanted kids, so not sure why she stayed.
Mai bpen lai, I met my TGF the year she moved out, and my TGF knows about the operation. So she knows if she gets pregnant from "me," she ain't got a leg to stand on. Women are funny that way though, she assumes that maybe somehow the vasectomy will fail (12 years later -- not likely, it's been thoroughly beta-tested) and the prodigal son/daughter will be born.
Hope springs eternal.
- Balls
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Posted on: 2:08 pm on Mar. 3, 2004
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Cheap Chalee Mai Dee
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Cyborg,
Is this the Sam that doesn't like to give blow jobs that you mentioned in your FR's? Then she gets jealous whrn you talk to her friend, and she thinks you are talking about her?
Well IMHO you are starting off on the wrong foot already or has something changed that I missed in one of your FR's? If you get pissed off for her not having sex with you for a couple of days now wait till you get married.
My Thai lady doesn't argue or yell with me when I have a little to drink. When it's that time of the month and I want a BJ she says to disappear for a couple of hours just don't tell her where I have been. I don't think that your lady is that type or that understanding.
As mentioned before I think you need to learn the language so that at the very least you will know what she is saying about you. These girls can be very (what the hell is the word) decieving when they think you don't know what they are saying. We all can be, we talk about the girls and hope they don't know what we say.
Back to the orignal question about taking one "home" the new adventure wears off very quickly espically in cold weather climates. Then they have to sit home all day and have notheing to do but wait on you to come home. Do you know how f_cking boreing that is. I traveled alot when I was in the states and the wife would call at all hours of the night just to make sure that I was in my motel. No one likes staring at 4 walls all day with nothing to do. I know I didn't. Sshe sounds like a very jealous/possecive type of girl IMHO. It only gets worse not better.
All I can say is is make sure you get to know her better.
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Posted on: 2:40 pm on Mar. 3, 2004
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My Thai lady doesn't argue or yell with me when I have a little to drink. When it's that time of the month and I want a BJ she says to disappear for a couple of hours just don't tell her where I have been. I don't think that your lady is that type or that understanding.
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Dude, How'd you get that in your contract without losing a nut on a personal foul with her? Sounds like an excellent understanding....afterall what's love got to do with it? ha ha
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Posted on: 5:20 pm on Mar. 3, 2004
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Cheap Chalee Mai Dee
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MT,
She knows I like my sex. Once a day at least, sometimes even if I don't need it. We have been together for over 4 years and I take good care of her and she me. She even bought me a mobil phone in case I get lost so she can come and get, so I don't forget where I live. "It happened once before and it kinda piss her off"
She a good un.
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Posted on: 8:07 pm on Mar. 3, 2004
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CalEden
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Careful Balls you may "get the power back" and it won't be the first time its happened!
I've got a similar contract. In fact my TGF has translated for me when no English was spoken and waited in the couch area of the fishbowl while the deed was done.
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Posted on: 8:54 pm on Mar. 3, 2004
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It's not only Thai girls who are cool. I've got an American wife who cool with me comming to Thailand three to five times a year so I can visit the temples.
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Posted on: 11:23 pm on Mar. 3, 2004
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cyborg
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Cheap Chalee,
Yes there ae apparently some things you did not read in my FR. This lady is Sam but we squared away a lot of the mistakes from that night we had the confused argument. She was not accusing me of talking about her burt rather wanted me to talk to her friend about her but her cell was dead. I mistook it for some of her low self esteem crap I hear too often. My bad!!
Yes I was unhappy about no sex for 2 days because of her period. She did not understand that a HJ would suffice. She has actually warmed me up a few times with smoking and did a full on BJ for Valentines Day.
I also pushed her with my foot when she was hassling me when drunk. She was upset with a rip off cab driver and I was unaware. I have been told that I have done the equivalent of spitting in her face when foot pushing. Should have known but didn't catch it in my drunk state.
She went off the handle appropriately all things considered.
I have been thinking about a vasectomy but I would take the harsh extra step of telling her that I have done that to get this out of the way. I want her to not even consider coming over if that is very important to her. I fear that it is and she will eventually leave me if we have no kids. Just want her to know up front it wont happen.
I wonder if that would be enough to keep her rom wanting to marry and come over here?
Even if she was cool with me slippin off for ST with other ladies too bad, I live in the US and wuld have to go with fatties or spending P4P or commit to an American cutie. None are viable options.
Don't you guys think that if I have a very serious heart to heart with her up front that sex is VERY important to me that she would always see to it I was taken care of after marriage?
Since these women seem to be more oriented to a contract type of relationship rather than the Western vision of romantic love, don't you think she would understand that sex is the front, center and core of her most critical required function in this union? (Yes guys, I am a romantic, a generally jai-dee guy but sex is important to me much like security, food, housing, cars, doctor visits etc are important to women) Why should I accept or tolerate any lack of follow through on her commitments? Would she tolerate it if I told her I was not going to buy her food etc? I think not!!
Maybe I sound harsh but I know exactly what I want and if she agrees to it and I hold up my end then why should I stay with her if she does not?
Do not forget guys, I have an American fiance at home. I do love her but she is not too exciting. I keep imagining how wonderful it COULD be if I brought Sam over here. Un fortunately my trips to LOS are so infrequent (Every year or two for two weeks max) it will be terribly hard to invest the amount of time required to truly understand if Sam and I have a chance. Email with sloppy translations is no good for detailed learning. She is learning English at an official school now. Will buy me several months but she will be expecting me to move forward with learning about her and making a decision about our future. I am a bit concerned that she is sooo anxious to move to USA. I doubt she knows squat about living here.
Cyborg
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Posted on: 3:14 pm on Mar. 4, 2004
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cyborg
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Cheap Chalee,
Yes there ae apparently some things you did not read in my FR. This lady is Sam but we squared away a lot of the mistakes from that night we had the confused argument. She was not accusing me of talking about her burt rather wanted me to talk to her friend about her but her cell was dead. I mistook it for some of her low self esteem crap I hear too often. My bad!!
Yes I was unhappy about no sex for 2 days because of her period. She did not understand that a HJ would suffice. She has actually warmed me up a few times with smoking and did a full on BJ for Valentines Day.
I also pushed her with my foot when she was hassling me when drunk. She was upset with a rip off cab driver and I was unaware. I have been told that I have done the equivalent of spitting in her face when foot pushing. Should have known but didn't catch it in my drunk state.
She went off the handle appropriately all things considered.
I have been thinking about a vasectomy but I would take the harsh extra step of telling her that I have done that to get this out of the way. I want her to not even consider coming over if that is very important to her. I fear that it is and she will eventually leave me if we have no kids. Just want her to know up front it wont happen.
I wonder if that would be enough to keep her rom wanting to marry and come over here?
Even if she was cool with me slippin off for ST with other ladies too bad, I live in the US and wuld have to go with fatties or spending P4P or commit to an American cutie. None are viable options.
Don't you guys think that if I have a very serious heart to heart with her up front that sex is VERY important to me that she would always see to it I was taken care of after marriage?
Since these women seem to be more oriented to a contract type of relationship rather than the Western vision of romantic love, don't you think she would understand that sex is the front, center and core of her most critical required function in this union? (Yes guys, I am a romantic, a generally jai-dee guy but sex is important to me much like security, food, housing, cars, doctor visits etc are important to women) Why should I accept or tolerate any lack of follow through on her commitments? Would she tolerate it if I told her I was not going to buy her food etc? I think not!!
Maybe I sound harsh but I know exactly what I want and if she agrees to it and I hold up my end then why should I stay with her if she does not?
Do not forget guys, I have an American fiance at home. I do love her but she is not too exciting. I keep imagining how wonderful it COULD be if I brought Sam over here. Un fortunately my trips to LOS are so infrequent (Every year or two for two weeks max) it will be terribly hard to invest the amount of time required to truly understand if Sam and I have a chance. Email with sloppy translations is no good for detailed learning. She is learning English at an official school now. Will buy me several months but she will be expecting me to move forward with learning about her and making a decision about our future. I am a bit concerned that she is sooo anxious to move to USA. I doubt she knows squat about living here.
Cyborg
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Posted on: 3:16 pm on Mar. 4, 2004
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