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Cheap Chalee Mai Dee
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MS
Sorry if I spoke to harshly, but it seemed like you were more concerned with yourself. As everyone has mentioned these are "ladies" and for the most part deserve to be treated like one.
We have all felt rejection here in Thailand and our home countries. I'm not a young man 52 but I try to treat all of the ladies as ladies until proved otherwise.
We have one that several of the expat's that share the same condo call the "BITCH". Young 8-10 range but her attitude is something else. She lives with a friend of mine parttime, has Thai boyfriends, other farrang boyfriends etc.. She tried to trap my girlfriend by having her come up to my friends room to show her something on the computer, while we were at the bar drinking, they were in the room about 10 minutes. Surprise surprise, next day my friend ask me about some money he had for rent in the room was missing. Just so happens that the money came up missing when my TGF went to his room. We all knew what happened to the money. He still see's her 8-10 body and great BJ's he said.
You really shouldn't have to pretend to be nice, if you have to maybe there's another problem.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 4:21 pm on Dec. 27, 2003
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cyborg
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MS, There has been a lot of good advice given here. I am sure you are a fine upstanding gentleman and have the best of intentions with this lady that did not work out.
I can understand that it may feel depressing to be turned down by a woman that sometimes is essentially a whore. Especially if you have been rejected at home by whores of the less official type and are seeking a little boost to your morale among other things.
In my limited personal experience with BGs I have never been rejected. I am average looking, 40yrs, and 30lbs overweight so I am far from a stud.
I think the formula that has made this so is simply that I do not risk it. I too do not wish to have my generous offer of money and a nice night of companionship turned down.
The formula I adhere to is simply this:
1) I let the lady pick me.
2) I spend some time with her and usually have her or her friend or the mamasan make the overture to suggest going with me.
3) I then will say something like "You really think she wants to go with me?" "I don't think she likes me" I then get emphatic yes responses from her and the others. If this doesn't happen with apparent enthusiasm I move on.
4) I have essentially given up on gogos and super stunning women. They all seem too jaded and mechanical or starfishish in my experience. I currently have a BG friend that is an 8 on looks, a 9 in attitude and interest in me, and a 8 in performance. I have a threshold of what is physically attractive "Enough" for me and if a lady exceeds that at all AND has other endearing qualities I go for her. I don't waste my time trying to get the "Super trophy" hottie to parade around with that will be too interested in a quick exit or simply the money.
That is simply my formula for never being rejected and reducing starfish performance and finding someone compatible. Not being a butterfly by nature I simply am essentially interviewing a woman until I find one that I connect with. SO far I have had only a few missfires and that has usually been with Gogo ladies.
I don't know if my advice will be of any use to you but if so I wish you well.
I think going after a waitress even if she has gone with customers is a pretty risky prospect. There have been many reasons espoused in this thread as to why she was not interested. Most are very valid. Let me add to it that she may have had a horrible time with the last farang she went with and has sworn off going with farangs. She could have gotten her period and been grouchy. I totally agree that a waitress may expect a softer more "Regular date" type of an approach. It may in the end be more rewarding because you can feel that you are getting truly a GFE rather than an act if you are ultimately successful with her.
If I were in your shoes and still wanted to pursue this lady I would consider going back and do a pseudo apology.Talk with her and see if there was something you did that offended her and let her know this was not your intention. Let her know what SPECIFICALLY about her is so compelling.This works with all women regardless of locale. You see some spark of intelligence and sophistication in her eyes that separates her from all of the gogos etc. Sounds like you may be somewhat of a newbie and you could explain that to her as well.
Maybe after a couple of "Friendly" visits she will be more open to a dinner date. No talk about boom boom.
Bro, keep us informed of your luck/progress if you decide to continue to pursure her. If not......there are a lot more where she came from!
Piece!!
Cyborg
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:36 pm on Dec. 28, 2003
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Danger Mouse
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Quote: from cyborg on 7:36 pm on Dec. 28, 2003
If I were in your shoes
I`d whisper before I shout... 
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 3:12 pm on Dec. 28, 2003
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ukguy84
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I have to say I'm surprised that this thread is still alive.
Mansaturday has been given so much good advice from several members but it seams its not what he wanted to hear.
So unless your going to say that it wasn’t his fault and it was all the fault of the Thai whore, your wasting you breath.
There are other posters more worthy of your help.
I apologise to all girls for the use of the "w" word.
UKGUY
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 4:11 pm on Dec. 28, 2003
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nokna
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why use the 'W' word and then apologise?
very easy to have put in many other words in the first instance.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:45 pm on Dec. 28, 2003
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ukguy84
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nokna
I used the "w" word as I think it represents the attitude he (mansaturday) has towards the girls, and therefore explains why he was knocked back.
If you want to know why I have come to this conclusion, read his post on page 4 of this thread, if you still dont see why, then me and you are reading from a different hymn sheet.
The "w" word does not in any way represent my own attitude towards the ladies of LOS, or from anywhere else for that matter.
So you see nokna you are not the only person on here who has respect for ladies who we P4P.
UKGUY
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:53 pm on Dec. 28, 2003
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JHolmesJr
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MS, if you are not rejected a few times, how on earth will you ever meet the girl you were meant to be with?
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 8:16 pm on Dec. 28, 2003
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Jimmyredcab
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Mansaturday, Rejections do happen sometimes, even in Thailand. I had a similar experience on my last visit, I got the impression the girl only wanted young guys as she was young and pretty herself. In most cases though making them an offer they can't refuse will do the trick, all depends how much you want her.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:19 am on Jan. 1, 2004
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