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hzink
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Quote: from cyborg on 4:16 am on Mar. 5, 2004
Do not forget guys, I have an American fiance at home. I do love her but she is not too exciting.
So, l do you do that in order to keep your options open at home, just in case things don't work out, or do you plan on breaking it off with your fiancé regardless how things turn out with Sam?
Seems like a tricky situation, but I'd recommend re-reading the thread on how a TGF turns into a Wife (TW) once you marry her, and that might or might not be a transformation you want, based on what you outlined.
Technically, do the old 'list' trick - write up a list of what is important to you in a relationship; Then write out what is important in a marriage.
Now, make a list for each girl, and see which one fits your requirements the most - the problem, of course, would be that you don't know enough about Sam... But hopefully you know enough about what you want.
Good luck,
Harry
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Posted on: 4:22 pm on Mar. 4, 2004
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JHolmesJr
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Cyborg, I think Hzink's sugestion will keep you busy for months. Which is great if you've got the kind of patience he seems to possess. Guess that's a trait when all one does is masturbate and come to this forum and masturbate summore.
But here's a little bovine gem (i take no credit for it) that always gives me a good shake whenever I am contemplating something dangerous with a TG:
An old bull and a young bull are standing on the top of a gently sloping hill, watching the cows graze below.
The young Bull says--"Let's run down there and make love to that beautiful cow."
The old Bull says--"No, let's walk down there and make love to them all."
And that's no bull!
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Posted on: 7:55 pm on Mar. 4, 2004
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Kryptonite
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It seems as though hzink has made a new friend? I wish you two all the best of luck. 
What if the two Bulls met half way? They jog down there and make love to half the herd  This would get the young bull there faster than walking, and would not wear out the old bull as much as running full speed would. Sounds like a good plan to me 
I keep reading about some Bull in a bar in Bkk. Maybe we could ask it what the best way would be?
Krypto
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Posted on: 9:21 pm on Mar. 4, 2004
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hzink
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Quote: from JHolmesJr on 8:55 am on Mar. 5, 2004
Cyborg, I think Hzink's sugestion will keep you busy for months. Which is great if you've got the kind of patience he seems to possess.
I agree, Johnnie, it might seem like a bit of work to you, particularly the 'reading' and 'writing' part, but as Cyborg has pointed out, he's rather infrequently in bkk (only once or twice a year), so it would seem that he might have the time it takes. I understand his dilemma to be that he wants to make the right decision.
Personally, I apply some good advice I read a long time ago:
"Just as a cautious businessman avoids investing all his capital in one concern, so wisdom would probably admonish us also not to anticipate all our happiness from one quarter alone. " -Sigmund Freud
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Posted on: 4:33 am on Mar. 5, 2004
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Soi Magpie
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Quote: from cyborg on 8:54 am on Mar. 2, 2004
Hey The Machine, When did I say anything about "not wanting to give her anything for her time?" Hell I would be paying a bundle to get her over here in the first place. (Her personal dream by the way) I would be totally supporting her in a style unlike she has ever experienced before for as long as she is willing to be a loving wife. If she is a mercenary bitch who never really cared I think it will become obvious soon. If on the other hand she is a lady that truly cares but it simply does not work out for compatibility or cultural reasons. That is different and I can see being quite generous during the break up.
Wouldn't most of you agree that it is a high risk proposition to get involved in this way? Why not cover your assetts??
Isn't it just common sense?
I have never suggested anything along the lines of "kicking her to the curb with nothing"
I guarantee that no matter what she will arrive more enriched than when she arrived.
Financially she can't lose. Only we can.
Protection is prudent.
Cyborg
Interesting thread...
I have just brought my Thai GF to my home country (asian country). This was her second trip here and this time she stayed the whole 2 weeks with me in my apartment rather than some hotel.
I was exactly pondering the same questions as you. I would rather move to LOS or not get married legally in my home country but if I don't, I cannot bring her here. It is also not financially viable for me to move to LOS.
Worse thing is we don't even have pre-nups over here. Would have to find out if trust works over here.
And yes...protection is prudent!
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Posted on: 1:27 pm on Mar. 9, 2004
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dirty guru
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I took one (an asian wife to australia) home. I cant say that its a very good or bad idea for sure. But it can be regrettable in some cases, such as mine. Now I am thinking the 800,000 divorce settlement might have been enough to have holidayed there for the next ten years. And believe me, we are not speaking baht. $$$$ australian. But hell, if you dont succeed try again. Just set up tests that are sure to deter a fake t/g. SAy your income just decreased, your tax department want thousands repaid. Decrease their sponseship.And say, you dont own a home (if you do), and that your going to loose your job in a year. Then if they pass all that. Have a lawyer sign up papers protecting you. Then when they gradually change into mini me farangs, you can lament their loss/breakup back in carefree los
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Posted on: 5:47 pm on Mar. 9, 2004
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Soi Magpie
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Then when they gradually change into mini me farangs, you can lament their loss/breakup back in carefree los
Yes...we always have wonderful LOS as a backup...
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Posted on: 11:17 am on Mar. 10, 2004
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KiNHoY
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Hzink,
I don't know where you live, but here in California,transfering you assets into a trust after marriage will not work unless your wife signs off on it. Very unlikely to happen in any event.
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Posted on: 2:51 pm on Mar. 10, 2004
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invaderzim
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If you Only had two choices
1) for the rest of your life only have sex twice a year on 2 week vacations to thailand and during that time you have all of your fantasies fulfilled but outside that time your a lonely schmuck and sexually, women avoid you at all costs
or
2) Marry the perfect Thai girl and (presumably) live happily ever after
Which would you choose?
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Posted on: 4:14 pm on Mar. 10, 2004
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KiNHoY
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Quite a few years back, I met a TG from Pattaya here in the states. We were together for about two years.It was great at first, but as it turns out, she loved to gamble at the casinos here and would lie, cheat and steal to get gambling money. Of course I had to dump her. I'm glad I met her here instead of bringing her back from Thailand. That would have been a costly mistake.
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Posted on: 4:30 pm on Mar. 10, 2004
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