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bakerstreetsherlock
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So Gentlemen – I appeal to those of you with a talent for interpretation to assist with this please.
On my last trip to LOS I bumped into a bright young Thai girl working as receptionist / hostess on the executive floor of the hotel where I stay. Taken with her bright personality, her truly excellent English... and okay the fact that she is a Hot Little Fox (HLF), I invited her out for a drink, which to my surprise she accepted. Her story, which came out gradually over the next couple of days, was that a few years earlier she had married an older English man who had taken her back to Blighty and set her up in some style in the Home Counties near London.
All was apparently well between our two lovebirds until the financial crisis and the subsequent economic crash when our little Vixen’s husband’s business took a nosedive. At this point many of the goodies disappeared, husband had to spend all his time working to try and save his business, and our heroine was forced to take a job – in McDonald’s no less - to scrape some cash together and support the family. Long story short, the relationship fell apart and rather than hang around in post-recession Blighty, our fox came back to Bangkok where - with her degree, her excellent English and hot looks – secured a respectable but not terribly well paid job working in the aforementioned hotel.
Now at this point I should say that a year after my return to the orbit of LOS (see FR Virtue has Its own Reward), and with regular trips to Bangkok for the foreseeable future, I have been thinking about setting myself up with a “nice” Thai girl as a contrast and complement to the Mango ladies and SC gogo girls that are my staple diet whilst in Bangkok. Hence my interest in the little fox – with whom I should stress there was no action on my last trip in November. Over Christmas and NY we have been in touch via Skype chat, What’s App etc. as I have been probing to see whether the HLF might be interested in an arrangement. So today we had the following Skype message exchange, which I have edited in the interests of brevity:
HLF: So when you coming back? And how long you stay?
BSS: In a couple of weeks - I’ll be in Bangkok for a week and then again in February etc. So you gonna come and stay with me then? (So let’s see whether she is interested)
HLF: Can only do if you stay in another hotel.
BSS: Sure – no problem (Bingo!)
HLF: But you know... (audible sigh from BSS as he waits for the next line)... it is difficult, I only just out of a relationship and not yet divorced from my partner... blah blah blah... so can be with you but cannot sleep together.
BSS: Okay – that’s fine (Bollocks it is). I’m happy to see you (so, we won’t be seeing each other on this trip then) but of course then I will look for a girlfriend somewhere else who I can sleep with (yes – one of the Mango girls as soon as I get off the plane).
HLF: Oh – you already find someone for your girlfriend?
BSS: Well - yes, I thought maybe you. But if you are not interested, that is okay, I will find someone else (yes, one of the table dancers from upstairs at Doll House on SC).
HLF: But you know I do have big heart but I want to take slowly... not just f*** before we even know each other.
BSS: (But surely we will get to know each other much better if we f*** immediately I get off the plane?) That’s okay... I don’t want to f*** you if you don’t want to f*** me.
HLF: Huh?! Really? Well maybe you make me horny if you have sexy underwear
BSS: (What is this girl on?) Ha ha! I don’t need any sexy underwear to make you horny.
HLF: You mean you have anaconda down there?
At which point the internet connection in Bangkok goes down - or more likely she runs out of credit - and the conversation ends for the time being.
So Gentlemen, I would like to put the following key questions for your consideration:
1.What game is she interested in playing? And more importantly, what are the rules of this game?
2.Is it worth my while playing this game – bearing in mind that I’m not prepared to go down the ATM route but would be generous whilst actually in town spending time with her?
3.What are the bets on how this will pan out if I do persevere?
In anticipation...
Sherlock
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:41 pm on Jan. 4, 2012
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bakerstreetsherlock
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Thailife
Possibly. But humour me with your thoughts,
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:57 pm on Jan. 4, 2012
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Meatywsg
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IMHO, she's up for sex asap but does not want to appear trampy or easy so is playing it out a little.
She left her life long husband in Blighty because he ran out of money, answer to why she was with him if you ask me.
I think you'll be able to have everything you want from her provided she feels special and like your girlfriend. You'll need to keep all P4P and other stuff completely hidden away with no mention...no doubt she'll think it, but what Thais don't know doesn't affect them so much.
She sounds to me, if you treat her well, lots of shopping, gifts, nights away at the beach, she'll be happy.
BUT, she may get clingy and annoying if you also want time away....business trip always covers it, every few days your required to work and must disappear for a couple of days, thats how I juggle them anyway !
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 12:25 am on Jan. 5, 2012
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bakerstreetsherlock
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Meatywsg - thanks for that. Your interpretation is what I am hoping will prove to be the case but there is of course the risk that hunter can turn into hunted here and she will string it along as much as possible... One positive is that all my trips are business trips in any case so I should be able to cover my tracks when necessary.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 12:33 am on Jan. 5, 2012
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DaffyDuck
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You're good to go, provided you treat her like a good girl, and play up to her need to not come across as a horny tramp - because she probably gets hit upon a lot by guys who assume that.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:37 am on Jan. 5, 2012
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magnum
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... having tasted money and comfort, she might be playing for another score... uh, you.
... if you showed to her signs of having money, she might see you slipping away... you told her honestly that you would be looking for someone else to bang, she fears you will move on and is willing to put out to keep you... (the classic pursuit behavior stuff that worked on MaryLou when we were in high school)... nice move.
... spending time with her, you might soon enough see how wiley she is... watch carefully for signs to see if YOU are the prey.
... good luck.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:58 am on Jan. 5, 2012
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patinbangkok
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bakerstreetsherlock: "... so I should be able to cover my tracks when necessary."
unless, of course, she has a friend who works for immigration. then she'll know every time you enter and leave the country, if she so wishes.
happened to a friend of mine. luckily, that girl was not a psycho, so she did not cause any trouble, but only called him every time shortly after his arrival.
getting back to your original question. not sure i'd waste my time with her. as you probably know, and have read in many other threads, some thai girls can go totally psycho on a guy. she might well turn out to be too much hassle in the long run.
other option would be to get to know her, without sex, on this trip and find out what she is like. if you get a good impression, then take it further when you're back in february.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:09 am on Jan. 5, 2012
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koolbreez
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She's well educated, speaks good English, knows money (and I suspect it was more of being ignored by her husband trying to save his business and the stress that caused than the money issues of why she left), works in a very good hotel, so you have to respect her desire to protect her image first, and foremost. That is seriously important from how you describe her.
Stay in a hotel away from Sukhumvit that does NOT have a walk of shame getting to your room, for her sake if she is going to stay with you at all. I suspect this will be a concern for her of not being seen going to a man's room by someone that might recognize her. If it also has a nice public area you both can sit and talk that is also good, as it gives a place for her to meet you without having to be seen going to your room. She is still technically married so you should try to be as descreet as you can be.
Take her places off of Sukhumvit so she doesn't look like a hooker. She'll probably be working allot so you won't be able to take her out of town to like Koh Chang for the weekend staying at the 15 Palms on White Sand Beach...lol, but then again she might get to take 3 days off, and it is only 5 hours down there.
Go for it, but take into consideration that she might be only looking for a chance at a long term relationship. She might just want to get layed too, but I suspect she wants long term commitment if she is going to sleep with you, at least long term as the only one you sleep with on this trip at the very least.
You might also consider that you will insult her by trying to give her cash except for taxi, or food. Gifts can be fine, but cash should be out of the question if she is not a hooker on the side.
If she is a HLF then she gets hit on all the time, and if she was hooking on the side she has unlimited access to money clients just from her work, and knows the score about not dating customers, just by the fact you have to stay at a different hotel. So she is already considering what you need to do if she will sleep with you or not.
If she will go out with you that is the first step, then she will be the one deciding if she is going to sleep with you, but you have to have the whole thing set up so she will not loose face, or damage her reputation if she decides to. There are some nice out of the way places to party around the Victory Monument area.
If she feels you are as concerned about her reputation as you should be, then you have a chance, but plan on spending all of her free time with her. or she could kill you if you cheat on her and get caught costing her loss of face. Just keep that thought in the back of your mind.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 7:16 am on Jan. 5, 2012
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DrLove
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No matter where they work, if they are in the neighborhood of foreigners all of them have the mindset of a hooker.
Go back to Mango.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:11 am on Jan. 5, 2012
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